listen. one, go to the doctor, or at least tell your mom. i know its VERY embarassing but chances are, they've gone through the same thing or something similar at some point. even if they haven't, they aren't going to judge you. its your MOM. she just wants to be there for you!
two, please don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing sh*t. i know it seems like you may want it, but i've met people who are fooled into thinking they want it because they don't want their boyfriend to leave them. if he REALLY loves you and you're that worried about it, just tell him that you don't want to do that right now and then refer back to number ONE! ^ girl, you're 14, and doing this stuff just leads to more and if you give away your v card too early, you're really gonna regret it.
please consider slowing down a little. again, if he loves you, he WILL UNDERSTAND. and if he gets angry, then i'm sorry, he doesn't love you.
three, as for your breasts, there's not a lot you can do except learn to love them. you can get implants, which = costly, dangerous and horribly fake looking, or you can flaunt what you got and make guys want it. guys love boobs. let me tell you something. whenever my boyfriend and i are cuddling, i always notice his hand ends up on my boobs and i just sit there laughing until he notices. it takes him awhile but he nevers notices himself actually doing it. and he always apologizes. it's a habit, but i love him anyway. so just love yourself!
two, please don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing sh*t. i know it seems like you may want it, but i've met people who are fooled into thinking they want it because they don't want their boyfriend to leave them. if he REALLY loves you and you're that worried about it, just tell him that you don't want to do that right now and then refer back to number ONE! ^ girl, you're 14, and doing this stuff just leads to more and if you give away your v card too early, you're really gonna regret it.
please consider slowing down a little. again, if he loves you, he WILL UNDERSTAND. and if he gets angry, then i'm sorry, he doesn't love you.
three, as for your breasts, there's not a lot you can do except learn to love them. you can get implants, which = costly, dangerous and horribly fake looking, or you can flaunt what you got and make guys want it. guys love boobs. let me tell you something. whenever my boyfriend and i are cuddling, i always notice his hand ends up on my boobs and i just sit there laughing until he notices. it takes him awhile but he nevers notices himself actually doing it. and he always apologizes. it's a habit, but i love him anyway. so just love yourself!
Instead of being all hot in the ass how bout you focus on your grades and school work. Your way to young to be this sexually active. As for your infection it is nothing to worry to much about. Get vagasil cream and apply it around the infected area not inside your vagina. Apply at least 2 times a day and it will eventually go away. Also to prevent this from happening again, keep clean,shower regularly, wear panty liners they help to keep your underwear clean if you discharge and if you decide to continue these actions, make sure that little boy washes his hands. You know how nasty little boys are.
Well, I'm 13
Me and my boyfriend are serious , we've done everything i could think of.
Anyway, i have the same thing with the white stuff on my underwear.
but it doesn't smell .
I've just gotten over a yeast infection, and i've had discharge , and the :P smell.
I've told my mom, which you should do.
and i dont like my breasts either, cause of my stretch marks.
But im a C36.
You can be an A, B, C, D or even a DD
if he loves you, he will love your breasts too.
Goodluck . :D
Me and my boyfriend are serious , we've done everything i could think of.
Anyway, i have the same thing with the white stuff on my underwear.
but it doesn't smell .
I've just gotten over a yeast infection, and i've had discharge , and the :P smell.
I've told my mom, which you should do.
and i dont like my breasts either, cause of my stretch marks.
But im a C36.
You can be an A, B, C, D or even a DD
if he loves you, he will love your breasts too.
Goodluck . :D
i have the same problem as you except im 15 and havent been fingered before.. and ive had yeast infections before but i dont kno wat to do cause ive talked to my mom bout this and she said it happned to her too but mine doesnt smell like fish, it smells like vinager or something, like yeah i get the fishy smell wen im starting an endin my period, but i really need some ones advice or help please. and the reason why i dont let my bf go down there is cause of that and an abnormaly large lip down there and i jus wanna kno if im not the only one with one large lip and its sooo embarasing cause my bf always wants to finger me and im just waay to embarrased bout wat he would feel and smell down there..... please im just asking for some advice on wat i shud doo..please help me
oh yeah... and i also have to much discharge coming out too and it goes through my pants and is it suppossed to dry yellow and get crusty? please help
oh yeah... and i also have to much discharge coming out too and it goes through my pants and is it suppossed to dry yellow and get crusty? please help --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- okay well klutzy, as i said before to the young lady who had this problem, you should be focusing on your grades and not be in such a hurry to get sexually active, there are too many diseases out there now a days. As for your problem, it is normal for the discharge to crust, but only if it is left on your underwear for too long. But, it should not be soaking your pants. You should do some research or ask a doctor. If you have a yeast infection, buy some vagasil, apply twice a day AROUND the infected area NOT in your vagina. The infection will go away in about a week or two. Also, to keep from smelling read my previous entry, bathe everyday, wear panty liners to avoid the discharge soaking through your pants and change regularly or that can and will cause a yeast infection. Make sure your hands are clean before you put in tampons or apply a pad because dirt or something infectious might get on the tampon or pad and will cause you some serious discomfort or once again, a yeast infection. You are a girl honey, you have got to keep clean and keep an eye on your cleanliness. As a female you are supposed to take care of yourself, so, recap, bathe regularly, change panty liners, wash hands before you go anywhere near your genitals. Simple guide lines hope they help :)
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I think that if you are to scared to go to a doctor you shouldn't have to, I'm 21 now and had the same problem as you but a little tip, you should try using baby wipes to wipe yourself and if your on your period wipe yourself every 2-3 hours depending on how bad the smell is and don't use any soap cream or anything else with a scent in it the odour only smells good for a while then gets worse.
also don't feel so penetrated by your boyfriend if anything you shouldn't be sexually active at your age but if you don't want things to go too far tell him just to stick to the basics or tell him your not yet ready to have sex with him, the thing you've got to remember is that he's still a boy breasts,vagina's and butts are probably the only thing thats on his mind and if he really is mature enough he would be willing to wait
I don't believe it is anything to be worried about. You're 14 and your body is going through a lot of changes and your hormones are raging. I had a friend who had the same thing when I was growing up. She smelled awful! I had similar but milder symptoms too. But its important to be open with your mom, preferably, since its not sex related she can help you through the bodily changes you will encounter. Discharge is normal as long as it doesn't itch or burn. You will learn that the female body is a very curious thing. They have different vitamins you can take to completely rid you of the odor. There is also Acidophilus which is good bacteria also found in yogurt. Another solution would be to douche every once in a while to flush out the extra discharge and and freshen up.
Ok if ur discharge smell like fish then it might be an infection
Why is everyone complaining about that she's 14 and shouldn't be doing that? It's her body. I'm 14? I've done all that too, and I wear a 38C. She obviously is mature enough to make her own decisions about how sexually active she is. BUT anyway, make sure you wear cotton panties, and of you're wearing a thong, make sure that's not silk. And don't wash with a scented soap. Hope this helps :)
Just because you are the same age and have boobs doesn't mean you are mature enough to weigh the positives and negatives of having sex. Besides you have free will and youre probs gonna do it anyway but all im saying is you might regret it.
before he comes over put a wash cloth and scented lotion under the sink then before he comes over then wen he comes exscuse yourself 2 the bathroom wash your vagina REALLY GOOD then put the lotion on your area around your actual vagina so he smells it but cant taste it but not 2 much and be quick so he doesnt realize.
For one you are way to young to even be thinking or worrying about stuff like this. Two you are still a kid and obviously he doesnt respect you if he wants to do that at this age. Three stop being a nasty little girl its not attractive. Im only saying all of this to help you so please listen to me. If your so worried and dont take anything else that I have said into consideration then go get a scented douching kit it will help with the discharge and smell. Use it right before he eats you out, make sure you take a shower and clean everything.
there are alot of natural things you can do to improve your scent down there sister.
You need to love your body and care for it. Protect it from assholes and toxins. It is your temple.
Well I'm 16 and nearly been together with my boyfriend for 7 months and we haven't done anything because I've got really bad discharge and after a while it gets really wet and starts to smell....but I'm scared to do anything with him as I'm makes me feel discusting& uncomfatble help any one?