Hi, I'm Mary,
My boyfriend has been drinking a lot these last 3 weeks and on Sunday he decided to stop drinking
his 8 to 12 cans daily beer. He never said anything to me about it or what he is going threw,
I just noticed his coloring was off and he was extremely quite, and he did talk and laugh with my brother but when we were no longer around my brother he went back to not talking and not wanting any
cuddling, holding hands. And that night he was shaking and very with drawn from me. Not wanting
any connection (what I mean is I am a cuddlier and so is he) and he didn't want any part of me touching
him, usually we hold hands if were not cuddling. The second day went a little better and he was talking a little more, but at times he wouldn't even look at me and he was really cold to me again. I noticed he was having trouble sleeping, little grumpy, and his was shaking off and on and I could feel his legs twitch and he
was clammy. Can everything that is going on be part of his systems of stopping suddenly drinking?
I don't know this man and I really miss the man I fell in love with will he come back to being him self?
And if so how long can this last? And what can be done to help him with the systems here at home?