wow and then someone said theyre 15 and has had sex? wow what has this world come to? you know what thats saying. thats straight up tellin your future husband that he was never good enough to wait for. well im ganna wait for my husband cause im not easy. im not some toy. i respect myself better then that. i sometimes want to have sex but thats cause im humand but i also know that i dont wanna be so easy as to just give it away. its important enough to me that im ganna wait. i respect my body and myself more then to let someone else handle me. man i am so proud to be who i am. id hate to lower myself to someone elses worthless meaningless feelingless pleasures. yea the guy you had sex with... he still with you? and if he is you really think he respects you enough to stop if you told him to? if you said lets wait? would he wait because its not sex he wants its you or would he try to wait to keep your loveto get you in your pants and then leave when he gets the sign of he aint gettin any. yea have fun with that. sex isnt a hobby for me. its my way of giving myself up to someone whos made an eternal comittment to me because he loves me and when he loves me ill make love to him but when your 15 and somebody tells you they love you, your ganna believe them. its all i have to give up to him and i cant give it to him if i already gave it up to someone who didnt stick around. figure out your priorities girl.
Even if a guy takes his penis out before he ejeculates there is still a pre ejeculation that you don't really feel.so be sure to always use protection or abstain from it!
I'm 22 and have had the same white gooey discharge for years. It's impossible to say what it is. You have to go to a doctor but personally mine is a pH imbalance. So there is a discharge and at some times (mostly near my period) it does have a smell but its not pregnancy, and infection or an STD. Go to a doctor. Its the only real solution. And if u don't have insurance there are heath clinics you can go to.
I'm also 14 years old and i am a female, I never had sex, my period, or anybody touching me. But the thing is that white stuff coming out of my vagina, (There is noway I'm telling my mom) It isnt leaking off my underwear or anything but I've been have that ever since the begining of summer 2009. Is It something to do with my period coming or groth? Its really weird cause that stuff stays on my underwear and gets hard, WICH is REALLY EW. I wash them every day and clean myself, I know for sure its not a yeast infection. PLEASE HELP ME! Seems like alot of girls get it.
okay, i am 16 today i had sex with my boyfriend n after some time this white thick umm... creamy kinda liquid just gushed out...... its kinda freaked me out that hasn't happened before, it wasn't right after sex it was like 20 mins later my underwear was soaked when i put my fingers on my vafia this thick goo just kept pouring out..... do i have an infection or something i am completely freaked out
thats weird. because i have the same problem... i have never had any kind of any sex. it drips out and i am thinking, (bacause i looked it up,) its what your body uses to clean itself out. :-D
you were prolly turned on. thats why white liquid comes out. its like semen/come for girls
Ok after you have sex your natural lubricants that your body porduces will remain wet for some time. If you are having sex and not using a condom "Which Is Toatally not cool" and you let your boyfriend ejaculate inside you, his semen will stay in side your body for quite a while. You will notice when you stand up it will just fall out. The first white stuff you see falling out is not actually his semen but the mucus sack that the swimmers are in. So dont think it will all fall out and you can't get pregnant. You need to go pee with in the first 10 min. after intercourse to remove any bacteria from your girl parts. And a word to the wise even with the pull out method you CAN get pregnant. So unless you want to be a teen mom, use protaction...the pill, the shot, the ring SOMETHING!
If you let your boyfiend ejaculate inside you the liguid that comes out when you stand up and for the next hour or so is the sack that semen comes out in. So dont think you can have unprotected sex and if you stand up the sperm will just fall out. You need to use the restroom with in the first ten minutes and pee to get the bacteria off your girl parts. And a word to the wise you can get pregnant with the pull out method too. So if you want to do big girl things you need to be responsible. Get on the pill, the shot, the ring. Whatever works for you since you arenot using condoms.
i get the smae thing to could it be a infection but what infection
it might just be discharge?
Your fine! Listen kiddo, Im betting a 99% chance that your not pregnant or unhealthy. Every hear the term of a girl becoming "wet"? Well basically it is the inverse of a male becoming "firm". It usually either means your ovulating or aroused. And from my experience it always smells strongly. To some people (usually guys) it can smell arousing. To girls there own lubrication usually smells bad. Its all perspective, and of course the intensity of smell varies from person to person, as does the amount of fluid produced. The reason this fluid is usually produced is because it makes sex A LOT more enjoyable for both parties. If your not feeling pain some what like a sun burn or an extreme itch, then chances are more then likely that your not ill. As for pregnancy, I know there is a ton of propaganda against unprotected sex, which is great and all, but the truth of the matter is, there is almost no way you can get pregnant unless millions of sperm enter your body. This can either happen through a male ejaculating inside of you or from him (for some idiotic reason) taking a huge globe of semen and pushing it up inside of you. Him fingering you after touching his penis isn't going to do anything, I mean there is maybe a one in 900 million chance, but trust me, any form of birth control will have a lot higher risks of failing and getting you pregnant then that (and when using 2 or more methods and correctly together birth control is still incredibly unlikely to fail). For instance, condoms can break or fall of it there aren't used right, and that happens often to a lot of people. If you want to have safer sex then I suggest going on the pill and either having your boyfriend pull out during sex or wear a condom. And I know people are going to say "well pulling out doesn't work because he releases thousands of sperm without even knowing". Well from my experience and those of my family, if that small amount of sperm is actually released its never made any difference. When a male ejaculates millions upon millions are released, a couple thousand cant do much, especially if your on the pill. Even off the pill, there is usually only 2-5 days a month a girl can get pregnant, so I dont know what to tell you. Its a lot less likely then people seem to respect. I mean have you not heard of married couples "trying to get pregnant", meaning that even when deliberately trying to have a baby it fails a lot. If you want to be ridiculously over cautious; take the pill, have him wear a condom, and pull out, basically full proof. The only way to get pregnant is if the planets align and in some inconceivable act of chance, your pill doesn't work and you ovulate, the condom breaks during sex and your boyfriend releases some pre cum, the couple thousand little guys some how end up being the most superhuman sperm in existence and make it to the egg, the sperm actually have enough enzymes between the few stragglers that make it, and are able to break through the eggs wall before it is discarded during your period. I hope this has been helpful :-)
i'm 13 what does that white stuff mean?
im 11 and havent started my peiod and i have that stuff comin out of me so now what do i do
OK girls, just go to your doctors or ob's if your worried, remember they are not allowed to disclose anything to anyone else about your appointments, thats called Doctor/Patient confidentiality. During puberty and the teen years there is a lot of different things happening and it is ok to be worried or nervous thats normal. This white liquid is all quite normal sounding to me, and its also fairly normal to get various pains in your abdomen at certain points in your cycle, such as you ovaries aching a little when they release and egg, if your falopian tubes are narrow then they can get a little tender during ovulation too. I am NOT a doctor however, so if your ARE that concerned then go and have a chat, or ring up the nurse and talk to them or your guidance councilor at school, all these people are here to help you, that is their job. About getting pregnant from foreplay, it IS possible but the chance is slight, if you are both playing with each others genitals and sexual fluids are transferred then there is a chance of getting pregnant. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do until you are actually late for your period, then DO take a test before jumping to conclusions, your period can be late for many many reasons, one of these is STRESS (which you will be if you are scared your pregnant :-P) While its normal to explore your sexuality, and its also healthy to do so, do be sensible girls, part of that is using the medical personal available to you.