Hello i am 21years old and have hade the same symptoms as you for about a month now and I went to the doctors today and he pretty much assured me it was herpes but i have been married 5 years and he was my first and i was his first so i have no idea how that is possible. The Doctor also said that my husband was cheating on me but i don't think so. I have even asked him and he says no the doctor asked him as well and his answer was still no. He has no symptoms what so ever ether. They took some blood from both of us and swabbed me, our results come back in 13 days we will see what they say!! If the test come back negative do you guys think i should go to a new doctor??
so what was said
did your sores every clear up?
I am 54. I am having the same extact thing happen to me. I have been with my partner 12 years. I am still worried. Going to my Dr. In the a.m.. the only differencec is I'm diabetic. I hope u fine something that works quick, Darlene
Desitin!! Diaper rash cream! I used it LIBERALLY when i had this problem; it was like instant relief! I TOTALLY understand everything about the peeing in the bathtub, it was the only way to make it stop hurting!! Seriously, check out the diaper rash cream. A little messy, but less gross than sitting in your own pee.
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY OUR DOCTORS CANT FIGURE OUT WHAT AND WHY. literally same exact thing happend to me over a year ago. steady bf, steady sex, doesnt make sense. worst pain ive ever gone thru in my entire life times a million was the pain when having to pee. i never thought of vaseline. i wanted to die, that would have been awesome at the time. i screamed in horror while peeing. i had probably thirty of these open rips sores, cuts whatever you want to call them. thankfully i had insurance at the time, two diff doctors said it was herpes, they did numerous tests, didnt understand why it hurt so much when peeing. it came back it wasnt herpes, and yet no asnwers. what the hell was this sh*t?? they said stress could trigger it and it may never come back. lord knows over the past year ive been super crazy stressed, so thankfully that had nothing to do with it but my god do i wihs i knew what it was and how to ever prevent it again. no scars down there and it looks fine but at the time i thought and was convinced i had a flesh eating disease down there.
I am experiencing the same things too. I have this some kind of sores or ulcers near my anus after i got abortion. The sores will heal by its own and come back few weeks after.The sores came out right after i had my abortion. I am really worried cause i read few symptoms of syphilis and firm round sore like what im having is one of the symptoms. im gonna kill myself if i have syphilis... and yeah, i never had sex after my abortion.
Your story has helped me alot! I just came back from the lab an they said I didn't have herpes which im happy about but that made us even worry more not knowing what the heck is going on! (me and my boyfriend)
I was diagnosed with a urine infection and I can't await my next appointment, but your story has helped me calm my anxiety and I will be able to sleep easily until then.
Thanks kay!
Question: Do you have any suggestions for me to mention to my doctor to help get to the bottom of this quicker? I know that you said your doctor didn't necessarily give you a clear diagnosis, but is there anything you can think of?
I also was given the acyclovir and it has helped diminish the sores. They also told me I had a urine infection and im currently taking cephaxilin (probably spelled right...)
Any input I would appreciate from yout thank you! and Im glad your doing ok, I too felt like dying and kill my boyfriend!
if you have a yeast infection, which it sounds like, I highly recommend "Monistat 7 - dual -pak" -fast effective relief for yeast infections. It really works- and fast too- at least for me it does. I tried Canasten once- never again, it just made it worse. Monistat 7 might cost a bit more but it really works! -I'm using it right now. It's around $ 20 for the dual -pak- comes with an external cream
, and applicator with internal suppositories.
Kay-
I just read your post and I am going through the exact same thing. I am stressing out because if I have herpes, my life will never be the same. About three months ago I had unprotected sex with a guy, who did not tell me if he had herpes or not, I still don't know. I just started to break out with sores, and I thought that I had just let a yeast infection get really bad. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow to get tested. I'm in severe pain to the point where walking hurts; even sleeping. I guess I just don't know what to think, I'm trying to stay positive but if I do have herpes, I'll have to tell the person I am with right now and I don't know if he will accept me.