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He Owns The Night
Since many men often worry about how they’re performing or if they are actually pleasing their partner, it might be a nice change if you decide to give him the night off. Because of this preoccupation with their partner and the self-restraint needed to allow their women to reach climax, many men are actually depriving themselves of the sense of reckless abandon that will provide them with a forceful orgasm.

Persuade him to concentrate on enjoying the sexual experience without the pressure that comes with wanting to make you climax. You could invite him to lie back and relish in your pleasuring him or, as things build-up, tell him to go for it, without having to worry about you. Having you pleasure him alone will give him the opportunity to stay in the moment, enjoying every minute rather than over concentrating on what he is doing.
Tease, Then Please
Lay off of the lovemaking for a night or two, and instead, tantalize him at every turn. Call him during his lunch break and talk dirty to him. Flash a breast as he passes you by on his way into the other room. Be sure to get your flirt on, making him want you desperately. The idea is to give him that hot and bothered, dying to make love feeling. All this pent up sexual tension will make the orgasm much more powerful when you finally do the deed.
Extended Foreplay
If you spend a lot of time on foreplay, his orgasm should be much stronger. Dr. Uri Peles from the Beverly Hills Center for Sexual Medicine suggests that the more lengthy the foreplay, the more build-up of pressure in the genitals. As the genital muscles tense up, the area becomes swelled with blood, making the pressure to climax stronger. The more this pressure is built up, the more intense the orgasm is, because the muscle contractions will be longer and more forceful. So more pressure equals more pleasure.
A Little Exploration Can’t Hurt
In addition to the penis, men have other sensual areas to manipulate that can help them to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. Gently rubbing his testicles as he climaxes can make his orgasm more intense. Likewise, some men enjoy having their nipples tweaked or rubbed as they inch closer to the edge. However, the G-spot for men is often the anus.
While some men aren’t fond of anal play, others find that it produces the most intense orgasms they’ve ever had. During sex, try gently rubbing your finger along the outside of his anus; if he’s for it, using your finger to massage his prostrate can send him completely over the edge. If your man is not a fan, simply massaging the area between the testicles and anus, the perineum, can create a most intense orgasm.
Assert yourself
Being a bit aggressive in the sack can really turn your guy on. Talk to him; tell him what you want and let him know how you like it. Don’t be afraid to talk dirty. If you’re into it, or if it turns you on, simply telling him what you want him to do and how you want him to do it can drive him wild and build up to an intense orgasm. When you’re in the throws of passion and he’s just about to climax, grab his backside and pull him towards you, this lets him know that you want him bad, which will make him explode.
Even if you think you’ve had the best orgasm ever, there may be room for improvement. Both men and women can try new things to intensify the male orgasm. Now that you know the tricks of the trade, remember that practice makes perfect, so start putting all you’ve learned to the test.
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