1. watch so much anal porn that you actually become bored with it. (believe it or not this can work, it works sometimes with sex addiction)
2. obstain from sex as much as possible and masterbation, so that when your girlfriend wants sex you will be ready.
3. talk to your girlfriend and explain what you did here and ask if the two of you can work anal sex into the relationship.
anal sex can be enjoyable for women once they get past the begining of entering her. she can relax and the muscle will loosen once she is properly stimulated before hand. If that does not work than use aknumbing gel the opening and really good lube. One of the best numbing gels is a gel that will desensitize.
KamaSutra make a desensitizer for men that gently numbs but will work on women to.
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I am a 16 y.o female and I can't masturbate with out anal play. Is this a bad habit? Should I try to change or fix it?
I am 28y guy and I have exactly the same problem. And I think the cause with me was wrong knowlege. the first time I knew about sex I thought it is anal normally. I was a kid that time and I was a shy kid refusing to talk about sex with any one and I kept the wrong information tell I was 13 then I knew that the intercourse occur in vagina not rectum. . that really affected me psychologically and my mind was refusing to dump the wrong information. and the other thing that potentiat the problem is that the first porn I ever watched happened to be an anal video after that I got addicted to watching anal sex porn. I never had anal sex with any girl desbite I want it so badly . I am married now but still very obssesed about anal sex. even now most of the time I can`t get erection with my wife tell I imagine that I am doing anal . The only thing that helps me is to quit watching porn and even rejecting any anal sex pictures that come to my mind and get closer to god.
Im 25 an I LOVE anal sex, always have and always will. Its not often that I have had a bf who was willing to do so. My fiance when I met him had secretly fantasized about anal but never had a gf who was willing until we met. He is not an addict and proud lol. There are girls out there who really love it and its nice to know there are guys that do too. I used to masterbate to anal porn, regular porn bored me and I fantasize about anal always. Ive accepted what I like, so should all of you. Don't let anyone tell you or make you feel bad about what you are wired literally to enjoy. Did I mention Im a health professional, I know that we are literally wired to like one thing over another and those who do not enjoy it are wired to like something else whether it be the vagina or oral sex. If you like anal BE PROUD your NOT the only one out there.
get poop penis once, and you will never want to do it again...
Wowzers Mrs. MD! I always had the idea that whoever enjoyed anal sex (girls and boys alike) had a problem really, because of the general opinion I recall. It's nice indeed to know there are different tastes/preferences and likes, as with so many other things. Guess many feel that those who don't follow the "general pattern" are somewhat weird or deviated, but coming from a lady, that IS reassuring :) . Now that I realize, since it's everybody else's body, why on earth should anybody be told WHAT to do /not to do ;) ???? Thanks a jillion.
I thought I had already replied to your post, but it seems it didn't appear after all, so i just wanted to thank you MD :) . You set my mind at ease finally, that's why I felt like thanking you.
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