Okay so I have a boyfriend who I met when we both went to secondary school and I dated him in year 7. We broke up but got back together about 5 months ago. He is almost 15 and I am 16 in October this year. We have talked about sex and he sends me very sexual messages like what he wants to do to me. I want to have sex with him and I know he wants to aswell. My parents let him round my house when we are alone and we go to my room a day just lay on the bed but nothing happens. If we both want to have sex with each other and we are able to (allowed in each others bedrooms) then how come we don't actually do anything? It's like we have these sexual conversions on messenger but it's completely the opposite face to face :(
Hey there at your age your hormones are increasing but sometimes your mind isn't ready so when you are alone and secure you like talking dirty but when it comes down to the deed it's harder. And that's ok it's best at your ages to not rush things and 14 is definatly young to actually have sex.... Have you guys talked about sex and hings like birth control ? Does he know how to correctly use a condom? I so does he have a way to actually buy them? Are you in any type of birth control? Have you guys kissed made out or done anything else sexual like hand jobs or fingering?