I am having a problem with having anal sex with my husband, before we were married I had no idea just how large his penis was , He is just over 11 inches and very thick, we have tried lubes and finger stimulation to relax my rectum but it is still very painful when he enters me,,is ther anything that I can do to make sex with my husband less painful..I love him very much and I want to please his sexual needs. help
if you use lube and relax it should help. and don't do this just for your spouse it should be pleasurable for both of you.
Try it lying on your back with him on top with you legs not to hight