Hello. I'm 22 year old female and I have one delicate question. You see, I'm in one great relationship and I really have no complaints, but one. I was still a virgin when we had our first sexual intercourse about a month ago.
Since then- we have practiced it about 100 of times and it was great but there is one problem- I didn’t orgasm at all.
Like I said, I was a virgin and I really don’t know a lot about this beside the facts that all my friends orgasm like crazy and that they are laughing when I say that I don’t orgasm. What is wrong with me!?
Could it be possible that my boyfriend has too small penis and that this could be the reason of my “failure”.
I don’t know what to say about all this you wrote accept that I'm sure that the problem isn’t in your boyfriend but in you. This is the most common problem with women and their first sexual intercourse and orgasm. The thing is that you don’t relax enough and that you must learn the “orgasm skill”! I have read somewhere that the size of penis has a very small impact on woman ability to orgasm. Supposedly, the penis only 6 cm long is enough to cause orgasm to almost every woman. I really doubt that your boyfriend has smaller penis. There are many myths and misconceptions about penis size but, for your information- the average penis size is about 15.64cm long and about 12.28 cm of average girth. I hope this will help!
:O watz ^ dis iz bible boy and sweetie here. I don't think so it might just be that u feel kinda weird having sex LET LOOSe GURL!!!!! U should tell him when you're not comfortable about these things.Okay this is bibleboy talking now. u no being a virgin is a good thing. but having sex is a bad thing. GOD said u should get married b4 u should have sex. and get saved women. and go 2 church every sunday. and stop worring about wat ur friends do and wat they say. u should just leave it along gurl. GOD BLESS UR LITTLE HEART
BibleBoy & Sweetie
BibleBoy & Sweetie
Both the previous responses were semi accurate. I'm almost positive it is not the size of his penis, but rather just uneasiness in your mind. There is really no cure except for you to relax. Males often have problems getting an erection due to nervousness and NOT due to any type of erectile dysfunction. The best thing you can do is spend a little more time during fore play getting your erogenous zones running hotter.
"You can't just get in a car and drive it, you gotta let the engine warm up"
-me
"You can't just get in a car and drive it, you gotta let the engine warm up"
-me
A lot of it has to do with you and your mindset on the whole deal. The other half has to do with the experience of the partner with the hardware. A simple in and out motion doesn't generally cut it, and from the compliments I get from women, most men don't know how to use their cocks any different.