HI there, the size of your labia is not related to your weight. Just like men have large and small penises that are unlreated to height and size, women have different size vaginas and different colors too. It is nothing to be concerned about. Does that help you with this issue?
i have the same thing and it stretches which is weird...i get really worried that guys will think its weird...can it be fixed?
I hear a lot of concern over something that has a very broad spectrum of normal. "Itchy" and "discharge" should be a concern, but long, dark, uneven, protruding really are not a problem unless there is physical pain.
:$ Ah I've been researching this for a while because I'm so embarrassed about it. I'm 14 and I don't want to have a boyfriend because if things go further than kissing it would be awkward. Sure, older guys might find it hot but what about teenage boys who expect everything to be shipshape because that's all they've seen online? All my guy friends are friends with all my girl friends and we all mix a lot. If I went out with a guy and he told someone, guy or girl, everyone would know. I find it really unattractive and I'm pretty serious about getting surgery.
My inner labia got bigger and hung outside my outer ones when I got to 14 or 15 and I was concerned. They are also not the same size. But as it turns out men really do enjoy that and certainly don't complain. As for itching, that isn't normal and could be an overgrowth in the bacteria that lives in the vagina. You need to see a doctor and have a swab done to see if you need antibiotics.
I have the exact same problem . I thought it was ugly . As woman we think it looks cuter and sexier when it's small and neat looking but guys actually like big Vagina lips . It's a turn on 4 them . They think its sexy and they claim they like the way it feels . It's something you just have to overcome .
just be positive be good to yourself love your self.
Hey, don't worry, i also has the same problem for ages, as long as i can remember infact, today i had a labiaplasty (operation to remove the longer inner labia) and if removing it is what you want,which i really can't blame you, then it is the way to go. Only people with it understand how it feels and for me personally it was hard to just accept and like them, I'v always been conscious and it had effected my self asteem in many ways. My ex boyfriend whom i lost my virginity to and had sexual relations with told his friends about it after we split and his as****e friend screamed it out loud infront of loads of people i know in a party which was my breaking point, i was so embarrassed and shallow it was all i could think of for days, (my ex wasnt in the room and still doesn't know, i couldn't bring my self to confront him because of my embarrassment and i have never told anybody apart from my mum about it) my mum fully supported my decision to have the procedure and we researched an experienced doctor in the field and i would like to say that it is very important to find someone experienced in the field to ensure maximum comfort, safety and maintaining a natural look despite surgery. My doctor used the wedge method and on my first day i can really only feel slight throbbing and sensitivity, nothing to sweat about. I encourage anyone facing this issue who wants a solution to definitely consider labiaplasty as it has been a great solution for me and probably loads of other ladies in the same position as me. Atleast it is an issue with a solution on offer