Sitting on my couch right now going through the same as you all. I've been to the e.r. twice with my heavy bleeding, it started tuesday and today friday it's still going strong.
At the e.r. i had blood tests which shows my levels are still rising and a ultrasound that detected the gestational sac but no heart beat.
I think that what bothers us all the most is the response that we get: If you are having a miscarriage there's nothing we can do to stop it since you are still early in your pregnancy (6 weeks).
And to some of us the bleeding won't go away and the appoitments are still days away, it is a very scary and loinely situation, is the baby going to leave my body or am i becoming a mom in a few months?
I guess we can only pray, but i am happy to have read other women experiences with this and even reading some positive outcomes, hopefully mine will be good too. Good luck and the best of health to you and your baby.
jeff and i went over to our neighbors to watch some t.v. i had been cramping all day long. i wanted some chocolate pudding and so he left to go over to our house. prior to his leaving i had been having contraction like pains for about an hour or two.
so he left to go get the pudding and i got up feeling the contraction come on again. and what i felt was a gush walked three steps more and gushed again then sat on the toilet and felt my body expel something followed by a lot of blood.
i screamed for jeff... screamed so loud as i started to shake and go into shock... i remember him running into the house and screaming "where are you?" and he kept asking me what's going on why was i screaming and he saw my face and sat in front of me trying to get me to calm down. i was shaking so bad that i couldn't get myself to stop. he tried to hold down my legs to calm down. the bleeding was heavy and i told him to call the ambulance.
after he called he came back in and tried to calm me down.
i heard the sirens and heard them come in the emts came in asked me about the questions, they looked into the toilet from which all i could see was deep red and black... i cried some more as they escorted me to the stretcher. they were putting me into the emt and i saw our penis neighbors staring at me like i was a freak show and my emts were trying to get me to cheer up and calm down. and on our way they were really nice and sweet. they made me smile and come back to reality.
we got into the e.r. where they took more blood from me and had me do a pelvic exam and my doctor had performed it said she saw clots but also saw something that she didn't know for sure what it was. so she had me do an ultrasound and found out it was my 6 week fetus. i cried. i didn't know how to feel then i went numb i saw jeff's face go from white to colored as if he felt the hope too. she found it but she couldn't find a heart beat. so we waited. and she had me go to the ultrasound tech. she took pictures of the baby and my ovaries and such and we waited.
the doctor came back in and said that i was in the process of miscarriage and i was so doped up on morphine that i didn't care... i just sat there dazed. at 3 oclock this morning i just started to come back to reality again and all i can do is cry. i want to blow up the doctors office for not seeing me sooner... i fhate everything right now but at the same time i become numb... i dunno how to react
~ so later on today i have felt crampy but have not passed what looks like a fetus of any sort just small blood clots and not a lot of blood... so in a way i'm hopeful but at the same time my hope has been diminished :( i hope everything is ok but i'm ready to accept the fact if it isn't
I am currently unaware of how far along i am as my blood work puts me at 9 weeks but my first ultrasound said i was 6 weeks... to confusing for me... i just thought i would let everyone know that some women can still get their periods during pregnancy, my Aunty got it every month - heavy and light - till she gave birth 9 months later. That totally sucks right - i mean - that's just not suppose to happen. But in some cases it does - no reason and no explination.
I am currently spotting and clotting and have googled every topic and found every single one useful! Thank you for posting your eperiences/ opinions... the best thing i have found for anyone to do is to consult your doctor. And if he's not doing everything he can possibly do to answer your queries, get a second and a third opinion. Right now i'm trying not to let it stress me out, believe me it's very hard, until i get the results from blood, urine and ultrasound. In the end, if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Look out for the signs, intense loss of blood and painful cramping, and keep your doctor as well informed of your progress as physically possible. Try not to stress, as stress is a major no no when your pregnant, i know it's going to be very hard but hang in there - your stronger than you know!
I have an appointment with my doctor this afternoon. Getting a little anxious to speak to him. My preyres and thoughts are with every Mum and Dad out there ;-)
So im have a lil problem . & hope everyone give there opinions or fact about what they know bout my situation..
Sooo my last period was May 4th 2012 .. ir runs for 5 days then end May 8th . So my boyfriend and i had sex unprotected MAY 11th 12th & 13th he
"PULLED OUT ".... On may 21st I started Spotting light for the next 5 days then on may 26th it switch to a heavy consist flow . with many cloths ! I also have painful cramps and mini headaces . It also hut in my stomach when i go to use number 2.. And i also tend to feel dizzy.light headed.. Now today may 30 its still kinda heavy but with less cloths. i took a pregnncy test fom the dallor store today around 2pm and it was negative . BUT I DID NOT WAIT UNTILL MISSED PERIOD My next period is expected to come June 2ND ... But idk if i would stop spotting/bleeding by then to even realize if my period came or not. PLEASE HELP ME . EVERY ANSWER ND OPINION COUNTS ..
Thanks Jasmine .. & We will be excited if i am expecting