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no....you are still virgin.
If you have not bled then you are still virgin.
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I'm 13 as well and I don't think you should have sex so early, Use a banana if you wanna know what sex feels like and yes you may of popped your cherry or you could have just cut inside of you by going too fast.
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Hey guys i want to ask tht my girlfrnds masturbates herself in alone.. .i want to ask that is she virgin or not... Its a big prblm for me can u plz tell me
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I am saddened and astonished at how much bad information is included in this thread.

Let me start by setting a few things right;
You are a virgin until you have had sexual intercourse - see the dictionary if you doubt this.
Having or not having an intact hymen does not determine whether you're a virgin or not. Some girls are even born without a hymen, does this mean they are not born as virgins? No of course not.
Some girls have their hymen break before sex due to sports or an accident, are they virgins? Of course they are if they have not had intercourse.

Breaking your hymen/popping your cherry;
If you masturbate and use an object to insert inside your vagina you run the risk of tearing or breaking your hymen. Your hymen is a crescent shaped half ring of flesh on the lower side of your vaginal opening. Like any other flesh on your body it will stretch to a point and then tear or rip if over stretched. This is why most girls can have a finger or even two inserted and not tear their hymens. When an object that is larger in circumference, like your bf's penis or a sex toy or a banana goes into you vagina then the flesh is stretched and tears. This is were the bleeding and pain can come from. Just as when you cut your finger or scrap your knee the broken skin bleeds and hurts until the tear begins to heal. Depending on your tolerance for pain you may not even know when it is being broken.

Pain during sex or afterward;
Sex is supposed to feel good, that's why we enjoy having it so much. For your first time you need to be ready and want to have sex. If you only doing it to keep a bf or because he has pressured you into it then the experience may not be as pleasant for you as it is for him and he may not be they guy for you.
For your first time make sure to take your time, don't rush to get penetrated. This gives you time to relax. Face it the first time we try something new it is usually awkward for most of us. Try to hurry through it only makes that worse. Have lots of foreplay and make sure your vagina is wet before letting him enter you. It is a good idea to try some lubricant your first time. Put the lube on him and on yourself so he will slide in easier. Having sex and your body not being ready to have your vagina entered will just make it harder on you the girl. This is were most first time sex pain come from. Having your partner force himself into your vagina when it is not wet enough to accept him. Your flesh is trying to stretch wider than it has ever been before and not being lubricated will only make this harder on you.
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It all depends on your religion and culture. For me, I believe that you lose your virginity when you have vaginal sex for the first time. And since you just used a banana, (clever thinking) I would say you have not lost your virginity yet. Hope this helps! (I am sorry if my English isn't good)
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I fingered myself with 2 fingers and i also used a skipping rope handle for pleasure do u think i broke my hymen there was no blood....n hw can i break it without sex
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It could just be that you have a bigger hymen tissue and that's why it was bled more. I wouldn't be too worried but if it goes on for a while I would see a doctor.
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Is it possible to tear while being fingered though?
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No you didn't lost your virginity. It will happen only if u had sex with a guy. So still ur a VIRGIN
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Well I turning 14 and my boyfriend really has needs..its been 3years we've been together but he says he has to f**k...andhe suggetsed that he fingers me instead of using his wond....so im asking if it's possible for my cherry to pop while bieng fingered

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Well it completely depends if u broke ur hymen or bleed. If u did bleed that day I’m sorry that u will have problem with people of your culture
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LMAOO I can't believe u were brave enough for that, I'd chicken out haha. I don't think so but virginity is defined differently by everyone so..
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