and to add to my post above - again in my experience i would say never masturbate while thinking of a girl you intend on sleeping with (unless youve already slept with her) This turns her into one of your virtual conquests and will more than likely lead to problems.
Peace out
yes you can overcome just stop the habit,by;when feeling it ,just stand up and do a simply job or walk to releif ur mynd 4rm tat
Agree with all of the above, sense I don't watch porn nor masterbate my sexuality is 100% healthy and on the go.
Thank you all for posting very useful comments.
Hey whatever happened to you with this? Were you able to beat it? And no that is not a pun. Were you able to make it go away?
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This is spot on to what I've been doing,and I couldn't get it up with my girl. Now I think it's obvious what I need to do! Thanks so much for your post!!!
ye i am having the same prob
This is whats heppening to me , at foreplay I get aroused but as I think about myself and worrying that I m gonna lose the erection , it happenes . This is my wife I m talking about we used to have sex frequently with no problems , and I used to jerk off frequently too with no problems at all. Then I don t know what happened one time we where having foreplay and when I went to enter it got soft . And from that moment on I can t have sex . I get erection for porn and stuff like I used to but when it comes to sex I can t mantain a full erection. And I really worried its been almost 3 months now I used Cialis but I took it too soon before we where even home and still did nt work for me. Worried as hell .
I feel that you have the beginning 'Sexual Burnout Syndrome'. Search for it on Google and read about it. Lack of confidence and performance anxiety is also an explanation when it comes to getting erections for porn and stuff you used but no full erections for sex with your partner.
i am a college student and i had a summer where i was by myself i masturbated multiple times a day...when i got back to school when i got to see real girl i couldn't not get hard in bed..it happened multiple times to the point that i lost all interest to approach women and started questioning myself...it happened with some beautiful girls too that i never get the chance to have sex with again...what is even worse is that in my college everyone knows eachother...if i were a weaker person i would have broken down because the girls probably associated my name with ed..trust me u dont want to feel that shame i felt lay off the porn it f**ks with your mind and your relationships with women..even if u most do it once a month is ok at the end of the day nothing is better than the real thing..trust me if u a guy that gets a lot of attention from women and u have this problem it could be devastating for ur confidence like i said before lay off porn
This advice is dead on. Follow it and you will not only solve your ED problems, but you will have a very fulfilling life.
I've noticed since I've been dating my boyfriend of 18 months now that he frequently has issues getting hard and really beats himself up over it. I kind of figured it was because he masturbated and watched a lot of porn several times a day. I tried to threaten him into not giving him any until he cut out masturbating more than once a day, but it was difficult for him and was clearly stressing him out and hurting our relationship so I stopped that. I noticed that while we were away at an event this weekend he got incredibly turned on because he wasn't able to privately jerk off in his hotel room with 4 other guys. When we were finally alone in someone else's room, he had a bit of an issue keeping things completely hard, but he came in little under 20 minutes. Usually he doesn't finish at all, and we end up giving up after 25-30 minutes because I get tired and he gets discouraged and embarrassed. That was after 2 days without porn or masturbation of any sort, so I think at least for him, that's the source of the problem. I know it doesn't really sound romantic but I'm thinking that carefully planning out our sexual encounters so he knows well enough in advance to abstain beforehand and not get so nervous may help. (btw, we don't live together and see each other about once a week)
It looks like for some reason your boyfriend prefers masturbation to sex with partner. If he continues to masturbate he will continue to have the problem you mention and the problem could worsen. His jerking off again and again could make him land up in a condition called 'Sexual Burnout Syndrome' (search for it on Google) and could jeopardise his sexual health.