can you have cramping before period, but possibly pregnant?

HI

REALLY I WANT TO GET PREGNAT.  I TRIED MORE THAN ONE YEAR BUT STILL IAM NOT PREGNANT .WE ARE TRYING OVULUTION DAY AND BEFORE 3 DAYS BUT WE CAN NOT GET PREGNANT I ALSO GET SAME SYMTOMES LIKE MILD CRAMPING ITS LIKE PERIAD SYMTOMES.I GET THESE SYMTOMES AFTER OVULUTION  MORE THAN ONE YEAR I CAN FEEL  IT THEN I THINK IAM NOT PREGNANT.SO IAM SO FRUSTATED

PLEASE

HELP ME IF ANY ONE HAVE LKE THIS PLEASE ADVICE ME

REGARD

KALPA

Alane - I tried for many years to get pregnant and I mean everything, fertility drugs, IVF, acupuncture, chinese herbs the whole bit!! Well I happened to come upon a massage therapist who heard my situation and advised me to see a chiropractor. I would never have thought of seeing one before for treatment of fertility issues, and no Dr or specialist I have seen ever mentioned this suggestion other then her. I was skeptical but desperate to give everything a try. Well I started seeing the chiropractor late August last year, I was going 3 times a week for a while and then reduced down to 2 days a week. I definitly felt changes taking place in my body, but still no pregnancy. The theory is that if you spine is not aligned as it should the nerve signals from your brain going down your spine are compromised and this could potentially block your organs from functioning they way they should. They x-rayed my entire spine and found that my spine curved to the right in the abdominal area which would effect my reproductive organs, as well my neck was straight verses the curve it should have, so signals coming through were being effected. They told me that my neck was a big issue and could take a long time to correct, but that my lower spine could be easier to adjust. Well by the end of Dec I was expecting a period and when it never came I didn't get too hopeful because there has been the odd time my period has been late, however by jan 6 I was now 6 days overdue and took a home test, to my surprise and delight it was positive. I have never had a positive test ever, they said that it was my ovulation that was an issue, yet I always saw and felt the signs of ovulation so I was skeptical what they said(fertility specs) that is  not the chiropractor. Well to my delight I am now going on 5 months of pregnancy, After trying for over 5 years to get pregnant my husband are so excited to be here now:) The other thing is really don't try and stress over the situation and believe me I know how hard that can be, but stress is a huge factor in your body, so try and relax and perhaps try the chiropractor and who knows!! good luck!!

Year it taken a year before i got pregnant for my first baby and cos it was takein so long for me to get pregnant and i was gettin worried we both thought there was something wourg for the both of us but then i went to the doc and they give me these tables and 3 weeks of takin then i was pregnant with my babygirl and now i have 3 and maybe pregnant again so i think u sure go to the doc they will give u something to help u get pregnant good luck

Please helpp!

im getting a bit of cramps and bloating but im not getting my period im already 5 days late and im freaking out! i havent tooken any tests because im scared its going to be positive:$ , but ive been reading some info , and ive been workin out and eating less, so can dat be why im not getting my period or im i prego? someonee ?

Okay so a few days before the 4th of july my boobs started getting soar which is a normal sign before I come on my period and i also started getting light cramps..also another normal sign before i start my period..however i have a 34 day cycle and its only been 25 days and i usually start getting these signs of coming on my period around like the 30th day of my cylcle. I ovulated about a week before the 4th and I still have a lot of wet fluid down there and I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 4th. We did it around 12 o'clock in the afternoon and he didnt cum and then we did it again around 1am that night and he again pulled out before he came. I am still not on my period. what do you think is going on?? please help!

PLEASE HELP!!

okay so i have a regular 42 day cycle. i usually ovulate after 3 weeks of coming off my period and i get a slight pain when i ovulate for about a week... then about another week later after the signs of ovulation stop, i will start getting soar breasts and cramping for about 2 to 3 days and then start my period. my last period started last month, June 7th, and i had signs of ovulating all through the last week of june. On July 1st my boobs started getting soar and i started getting cramps but it was weird because this is really soon for me esp after i just ovulated. on July 4th I had sex with my boyfriend unprotected around 12pm and he pulled out before he came. We had sex unprotected again around 1am that night and he pulled out before he came. I am stil not on my period and its weird because since the day i ovluated a couple weeks ago it has been very wet down there but no cervical mucus so i dont think im still ovulating but could I be pregnant? I have not had sex with my boyfriend for the past 3 months until the 4th so there is no chance that im already pregnant from before. idk whats going on its weird please help!  

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I have been on Chomid and we are now taking Tamoxifen to try and help us get pregnant as I suffer with pcos and am unable to do it on my own. I have been having mild tummy cramps and aches for a few days now but my period isnt due till around the 26th Nov and its only the 16th Nov. I am also suffering with really bad backache, but it feels different to menstral backache, its more like my muscles have gone to sleep. I am also feeling very aching in my whole body, like my I am really week, even typing this is making my muscles in my arms ache. I have been really tired of late to, but have put that down to the Tamoxifen as it causes insomnia so I'm not sleeping to well.

Can someone please give me their thoughts and could it be a good or bad sign. After trying for 7 years for our daughter and nearly 3 years so far for another we'd love something good to happen.

xd

In reply to July 7 comment - Just because a guy backs out before he fully ejaculates, he can still release semen during the sex process which likely has sperm in it, that is not a full proof method that you won't get pregnant if he pulls out.  I would check to see for sure, instead of just wondering and stressing about the what if!

Kaitlin - that was my experience when I got pregnant. I kept feeling the cramping sensation before and after my period was due, and I just thought it was delayed as we had been trying for many years without success even with fertility drugs. Well after 6 days of being late I took the test and it was positive!!I am in fact pregnant now at 31 weeks and even a long ways through the pregnancy I continued to have that cramping sensation front and back and my Dr's said the same thing, it's the uterus growing and stretching. I don't think everyone feels it, but perhaps we are more sensitive to it.

TO THE JULY SEVENTH COMMENT ALSO...

I happen to be in just the same exact boat! My last period was June 20. I was ovulating the week of the 4th and had sex multiple times during that week, but he pulls out as well! I am now 15 days late of my period. (Was suppose to start the 19th). I've taken two hpt's and a blood test and all came out negative. My breasts have been VERY sore, tired more than normal lately, frequent urination, and now today a little bit of cramping but still no period! My gyno says that because all the tests came out neg that I am NOT preg and its normal for girls my age to have missed a period maybe due to stress(no idea what im stressed about except i didnt start! lol)  and that im "not that late" I dont think shes aware of my symptoms but says if i dont start within the next three weeks I will take another test in her office and if it is neg too she will give me something to start. I am ALWAYS having a regular 32ish day cycle and its been about 45 days. The same thing happened to a close friend of mind, ALL HER TESTS came out negative but she is now 20 weeks preg. She had to find out through u/s. SOOO... CAN SOMEONE HELP ME AND TELL ME WHAT THEY THINK???

 

WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED, THANKS! 

i am very confused if im pregnant or not i had my last REAL period jun28th 2011 me and my boyfriend had sex on july 15.17.18 he came in me all those times i ovulated on the 19tof july but i startd bleeding he 26th of july it was only 3days when my periods are normally 5-6days and they were lite its now aug5th i took two hpt two and they came out neg. i have all the symptoms mild cramping.moodswings.sleepy all th time.headaches.backaches.feeling sick but not throwing up.constipation.my nipples and areolas are darker nd sore idk if its to soon to tell but im confused some plz help me if you could i want to be pregnant : )

 

Just got my today didn't have one all week till now I'm scared I'm liven with my boyfriend that I love and care bout him alot

Turns out I'm not preg! After 18 days late I finally started my period. A lil disappointed but owell. I have plenty more time!!! BUT KERRI, deff sounds like you are pregnant! Try a blood test. Good luck!!!

I'm 16, and I took a test it was positive. I have cramps, and fatigue but I thought it was because I'm about to start around the 5th.. should I wait til I'm late to take another test to be sure. Or can anyone give me any advice?

so happy dat having premenstrual syndrom does not mean am out for dat month. av been battling wit dis for a while, wanted to be sure.