My girlfriend is gives remarkable oral sex, yet I can never ejaculate during oral. Only when I masturbate or am having sex... HELP
i have the exact same problem? could it be that have masturbated too much in the past?
It takes me longer to ejaculate when receiving oral compared to having sex even though the feeling is just as amazing. I think it's because while I'm having sex i can control when i orgasm. For example if i want to bring my self closer, I go harder and faster. But when receiving oral you have to be slower and a bit more careful, depending on the girl of course ;-)
Does your girlfriend use her hands when she gives oral? Ask her to stroke your penis while she gives you head. It could be just a matter of technique. While the head of your penis is in her mouth she can stroke your penis, slow or fast whatever feels good for you. This might help bring you closer to ejaculation.
If you are still having trouble try masturbating to the point where you are close then get your girlfriend to continue with the oral until you orgasm. keep doing this until you can ejaculate with out the need to masturbate.
Does your girlfriend use her hands when she gives oral? Ask her to stroke your penis while she gives you head. It could be just a matter of technique. While the head of your penis is in her mouth she can stroke your penis, slow or fast whatever feels good for you. This might help bring you closer to ejaculation.
If you are still having trouble try masturbating to the point where you are close then get your girlfriend to continue with the oral until you orgasm. keep doing this until you can ejaculate with out the need to masturbate.
it could be a mental things. 3 previous girls i was with couldn't get me to climax (wasn't really into them). it's a different story with my wife. WHEN she does do it i have to tell her to slow down.