Okay hun. First off, you should never use a hairbrush as a dildo. The bristles can really hurt you, and you might even get an infection, so just don't do that anymore, okay? If you're masturbating so often that your clitoris hurts, that's another sign to take a break. You can become desensitized after masturbating that much.
Why not make a pact with yourself to only masturbate when you're already truly aroused? The mind is still the most powerful sex toy :) and female orgasm doesn't come without arousal. Maybe try reading some erotic novels or fantasizing about something you'd like to try out, and orgasm will come?
in my opinion, losing ur v-card is having sex. so even though you may have "popped ur cherry " through masturbation, it doesnt mean ur not a virgin.
in my opinion, losing ur v-card is having sex. so even though you may have "popped ur cherry " through masturbation, it doesnt mean ur not a virgin.