Guys: Anal sex versus vaginal

I just read your last post. Please get some help. I suspect you are going through postpartum or postnatal depression. You might also consider getting couple's therapy.

I guess most of people says the same. You act like his slave (you pretend to enjoy /wtf?/, you prefer his needs...).

It sure isn't okay. :C

I prefer to have analsex with a woman, the vagina is nice but i get bored penatrating it. Her anus is tigher

You have a right to be pleased too. It's not all about what he wants. He likes anal better, but that doesn't mean you can't have vaginal. Relationships are about give and take, both sexually and in general. Both of you will be happier if you learn to compromise and enjoy the kinds of sex that each of you like. Good luck and congrats on the baby! Also, I love hearing that you guys have been together since age 15. My boyfriend and I are 17 and I'd love to marry him in the future. ^_^

I only wish you were my GF/wife (or my GF was like you). I would be the happiest man on the planet to give you as many times a day as you wanted and in every manner that you prefer (anal, vaginal, Oral) without a word of complaint or ever getting fatigued. You desrve what you want fron your husband and its its your right. He must fullfil your wish. Best of luck

I honestly have never really enjoyed vaginal sex. It usually doesn't feel all that great for me, most times it is just okay. I don't have problems finishing like other guys who don't care for it; I finish every time (yes, in there - she's on the pill), but it is usually a very weak orgasm that leaves me feeling unsatisfied. Plus, it just seems bland and vanilla to me, whereas anal sex is more of a taboo thrill, feels ten times better, and produces orgasms like I have never experienced before.

No, the fact that the rectum isn't made for sex makes it feel much better. There is suction, so it's almost like getting blown at the same time. The anus (if it is tight) also attempts to push the penis out, and the muscle contractions feel incredible. The deep part of the rectum also doesn't have the uncomfortable 'ribbed' (for lack of a better term) texture that I absolutely hate and the opening, in addition to being several times tighter than the vaginal opening, also goes deeper than the vaginal opening. It's better in every way pretty much.

All guys are different, just like all women are different, but it's pretty much indisputable that anal sex feels better than vaginal sex for men.

My wife and I have a lot of anal sex. Not even considering age group factors we have more anal than any three couples combined. We go in stages. For a time (usually a couple of weeks to a month) we have tons of vaginal sex then it's like a switch is flipped and we have tons of anal for a while. Oral sex seems to remain on a constant high level. Variations are normal, especially during child rearing years. Our sex life while my daughter was young (wife is step-mom) was more or less conventional with occasional anal (2 or 3 times per month) but now that daughter is grown and living on her own we are free to explore. Just for fun we figured out that over the last 6 months we have had anal an average of 2 - 3 times per week. When you factor in the times when we cycle to mostly vaginal sex then you can see that there are times when we are truly having a ton of anal. Yesterday she asked if we could try having anal every day. I agreed though we haven't decided on a timespan yet. The short version is, talk to your husband. Tell him that you like having anal sex with him but also like having vaginal and oral sexy with him. Let him know that you want all three and that you won't be denying him anal, you just want more variety. It is his duty as husband to please you just as much as it is your duty as wife to please him. Maybe make a game of it? Let him have your ass any time he wants over the weekend. Maybe give him suggestions like in the living room while kids are at school, in the back seat of the car, etc. The condition being he gives you plenty of vaginal and oral during the week. Just a suggestion of course.

I think as many women know already that having children stretches the muscles and unless you work on doing the proper exercises then Anal sex will be tighter for sex, as well as the taboo portion of it all and it sounds as if you have managed big changes in your sex life. All in all though muscles front and back all stretch out If by using Tens or electrosex devices with proper placement of the electrodes, your vagina can be tightened up to virgin like status after the baby, as well the contractions you get will help teach you ways to give him all kinds of new pleasures with the kind of things you will be able to do.. Electrodes can be used both internally and externally too. Chances are you will derive a lot more pleasure than he will but I'm sure you will share your toys. Men enjoy Anal stimulation as well

I just dont understand Anal Sex. It seems like a psychological satisfaction of  punishment rather then it feeling better then a vagina. My girlfriend and I have sex everyday(sometimes 2-3 times a day) I love eating her out and will do anything she wants But She just told me she loves anal sex . (I thought woman hate anal!) And I dont blame them for hating it. I wouldnt want my sex organ left out for some abusive thrill. Im sorry but i just dont get it.      The only reasons i can think of to have anal sex are....     1.   You care more about making your girl feel punished and abused then making her feel good.  2. Curious what it would feel like to have sex with another man.  3. Your penis is small and you need a tighter fit.    My girlfriend  tells me "it only hurts going in and i can shower after( before we have real sex). WHY??? Does she like abusive guys,  or does she think shes doing me some big favour by getting c**p on my penis and giving me the knowlage of what gay sex would feel like. My concern is ,was my girlfriend abused by past boyfriends and now shes one of those girls that will always end up in abusive relationships and 2 black eyes??   ANY ADVICE IS WELL APRECIATED!!!!!!! THANK YOU 

I just dont understand Anal Sex. It seems like a psychological satisfaction of  punishment rather then it feeling better then a vagina. My girlfriend and I have sex everyday(sometimes 2-3 times a day) I love eating her out and will do anything she wants But She just told me she loves anal sex . (I thought woman hate anal!) And I dont blame them for hating it. I wouldnt want my sex organ left out for some abusive thrill. Im sorry but i just dont get it.      The only reasons i can think of to have anal sex are....     1.   You care more about making your girl feel punished and abused then making her feel good.  2. Curious what it would feel like to have sex with another man.  3. Your penis is small and you need a tighter fit.    My girlfriend  tells me "it only hurts going in and i can shower after( before we have real sex). WHY??? Does she like abusive guys,  or does she think shes doing me some big favour by getting c**p on my penis and giving me the knowlage of what gay sex would feel like. My concern is ,was my girlfriend abused by past boyfriends and now shes one of those girls that will always end up in abusive relationships and 2 black eyes??   ANY ADVICE IS WELL APRECIATED!!!!!!! THANK YOU 

One way 2 go about it would never 2 do IT twice in a row of going into the same hole/ opening (including or not including oral sex in your count according 2 your best pleasure and desires). We found this worked pretty well, buttttttt vaginal seemed 2 win out in the "end" so put a dildo or two into the equation & keep "score" for "more" of whatever was not getting its fair share of the action! He ought 2B getting 2 have & 2 receive anal sex into the bargain & maybe a few points or 1/2 "scores" 4 who got an enema or 2 could add a little bit 2 "getting" IT in the front (vaginal usually or u could count anal from the front side/top or taking it up the backside! Best not 2 count douches, since "he" wouldn't b receiving them but might get credit 4 helping "she" receive the pleasure. Points could b awarded 4 enemas of 2 quarts (often the treatment of preference) 3 quarts (lots of soap with the first insertion or 2 quart-er, high hot and hard without all that soap for the second "round" - providing everything was taken "in" or "up" without missing a drop of solution in the process). Wow, it sounds like we should copyright this 4 a new Parker Brothers game 2 play!!! Maybe "double points score" 4 an orgasm in the "front" followed immediately after by a dildo or "high enema" in the back-side for "him" or 4 "her"? (Warning, never go from the back-side or anus to the front side ... the ass is full of bugs germs & sh*t even if u try 2 wash all of it off ... always go front/vagina first! That's first not fist unless that's you preference too!

The "arse" can get stretched or tired out with all those muscles ... best 2 give it a vacation by putting a dildo into HIS for a week or two every time u hav sex ... not 2 B neglecting or forgetting about HER arse, a small butt plug every time u hav sex or a good old-fashioned HHH enema before going 2 sleep followed by an early morning (or mid-night) quickie .... or both early morning & mid-nite quickie delights ... followed by sex of choice (in a clean, fresh, eager to be loved "to the hilt" arse) for a week or two in exchange might work out the balance of Nature very well. You might keep a "score card" handy out of fairness to all holes concerned to "measure the pleasure" & not loose track (pun intended)!