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spoke too soon. seems to be like the last one. where it was super brown and got a brighter red even though its not as heavy as usual. seems like it's going down the same path now that it did last time when it came a week early... think it's time to stop trying now & thinking about it.. it's always a bummer. I know it still can be IB. But I doubt it at this point because its progressing to how it did last time.
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oh dear! give it a day or two and see if it turns out to be AF kinda flow consistently . Maybe ul know by then. IB can be bright red too from what ive read. At Cd19 your timing sounds really right and no cramping like AF is good too so far. Pray its all turns out good for you!
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maybe you're right. I been checking my pad and there's been zero blood so it seemed like light spotting. I will just have to monitor it. how soon do you think I should test? in a week? when my period was supposed to come? I don't want to test too early but at the same time I don't wanna wait because each day feels forever! what would you suggest?
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Xotamara-as hard as it will be..def wait until you miss your af.
it takes usually 3-4 days after missed af to test positive. And as you know, there is little more traumatizing than seeing a bfn. Wait it out.
I really feel that if I didn't obsess so much over all of my symptoms, and testing with negative results..I either wouldn't have had the chemical pg or my body wouldn't have had all of the symptoms that it did. :(
Our minds are so powerful. Its amazing but sucks too. :/
xoxo
Kate
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Tamara, like TLove said wait out until after your AF is due to test. From relatives and friends ive heard it took them atleast 10-15 days past AF due date to get a clear positive on thier hpts. Testing early, frequently and gettin bfns can really add a great deal of stress. Not a good thing for your lil bean!:) so tc
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I'm getting really bummed out you guys. If it was ib then it was really heavy, for two days.. I have read a lot of stories of women who thought their ib was their regular period. But I'm having doubts:( getting really down now:(
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I'm getting bummed as well but the important thing to do is realize when the right time comes it'll come. like the other ladies have said the stress of it can affect our chances so I'm almost at the same point that I'm going to stop trying. if this is my period and not IB, I'm done calendaring my stuff and thinking about it for awhile. let nature take its course. I'm still hopeful right now what I'm experiencing might be IB however I'm also trying to be realistic because its turning out like a few weeks ago of what I ALSO thought was IB. time for me to find a new hobby and hopefully once I'm not thinking about it— it'll happen. everyone please stay with the updates though.
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Ok so bleeding stopped Feb.25 exactly 3 days. Mycycles last 6-8 days. Last night I had brown spotting. Now it's light pink. I've had same headache for last 4 days and breaking out like crazy. I'm hoping I'm pregnant. But I'm having doubts.
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@ xotamara @morgan415

Girls! even if it what you think was IB turns out to be light AF itself, look at the positive side of it- you can start afresh with a new cycle not having to spend more endless hours wondering right?! And lucky you girls with short cycles and twice the fertile days as VS long cycles for the same duration!:)

At Cd53 today im so done with the waiting and just wish AF would show up so i can move on in peace! Feels like I almost lost 2 months now in this mystery! B glad you arent me!:D lol What belongs to you will certainly come to you!!!:) Pray you all get your BFPs soon!

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Ashla, good luck to you!:)
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Such truth peace! I'm one to usually have a long cycle, and was stressing out when I spotted for eight days over a week before af was due. Wasnt the usual for me at all. But had I not been ttc I would've just counted it as my af and started my cycle over.
with my new calculations, I'm sure for af next week. Started cramping already, and you know what? I'm just going to assume my nausea is sure to the prenatal vitamins I took this morning on an empty stomach, and my cramping is because my body is preparing to shed. I have no idea when I ovulated within this cycle either. It is what it is..lol
Good Luck girls! Xoxo
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Hi,

hope everyone on here is ok and staying relaxed! When the time is right, it will happen, anyone who has said that is so right. 

Im due on my period tomorrow and feeling pretty nervous. Trying to forget about it, but I can't! Had an awful day at work today too and feeling pretty stressed out. Trying to not think about that too. I know that the more relaxed I am, the better my chances. I have no cramps though like I usually would, and still all stuffy and so tired! fell asleep on the sofa at 9 last night Then just had to go to bed when I woke back up ! it wasn't even a busy day yesterday!

B x

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@ Peace Thank you! I went to the doctors today. Now I'm waiting for my blood results. Now I'm just crossing my fingers!<3
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I'm just stumped. I bled for only two days and it would come and go. It wasn't a constant flow. And I only had cramps on the second day of bleeding and it was when I first woke up. Today is the day I was supposed to start af, now no bleeding at all. Just brown slimy stuff, only when I wipe. Im wishing myself crazy over here. Haha. I know it will happen, if it's meant to be. It's just nice to talk to people that are in the same boat as me. I'm sending lots of baby dust to every one!<3:)
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@morgan415 - aww dear! hugs* How did the appt go? hope you get your results soon! keep us posted <3

@Bee88- B! How are you doing today? hope AF stays away;) fingers crossed for you* <3

@TurtleLove-  Hope you get your BFP soon!:) Let us know when you do! <3

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