My boyfriend is wanting to do it anal and I just can't find myself to let him go in with out it hurting, his tip barely starts to enter and it is painful, what can I do to numb the area, I mean I would like for him us to enjoy a session of anal sex but it's too painful!!!! what are the firs steps we should take to make that insert successful???
I really don't understand this whole anal craze.The vagina is such a beautiful thing. Women should take a stand and realize that. Your man just thinks it will make his penis feel bigger to you. He has penis envy.I'm a man and can tell you by experience that all kinds of things can happen that you or he will not like.The biggest one is the smell when he pulls his penis out with sh*t on it.The embarrassment you will have,you will never forget.I'm an older man but still get it on,but never ever [ever ever] will try that again even though I've though about it ,lets just say I don't like to learn the hard way and thank God for good friends.But if you must, I would recommend some lube and use your own finger first to loosing you up,then tell him to go real slow and don't pump like an animal.Save that for your beautiful vagina.Anal sex is highly overrated...Just my opinion... Good luck...:}