Almost all men don't even know what a hymen feels or looks like when they actually encounter one. If he loves her enough to have sex with her, it wouldn't matter that he's confused. He would just trust her, otherwise, he's not worth having sex with.
Why would your family care? How would they even know?
It is foolish that you correlate religion to having good morals. To follow the word of GOD transcends any religion because many religious people don't not follow the rules they preach, so many get deceived on a daily basis to not believing the truth of GOD's word. BUT The truth is the truth and trust me all the hypocrites pay the price for their deception. Holding your virginity untill marriage with an equally yoked person is a law of God for a reason. It's the best way to garauntee a successful marriage. Just look at the world around you, People laugh and don't want virgins, so noone values it and look at the correlating divorce rates and how many folks abandoned the law of marriage in the first place. One of the main reason the world is lost because of no correct family structure under GOD.
The bible says when you have sex with a person you become one flesh and its very true. Id rather marry a virgin so im the only man who has her heart because hardly any female forgets the man who took her virginity. So if she has lost her virginity another man will always hold that special place in her heart over her Husband. This is necessary for the man to have the womans fully devoted commitment to him and the family and not herself like most of today's women.
Hi im also 13 but i am very ready to lose my virginity but im to scared an nervious an rather lose it to my self first so it so it dosnt hurt but im very scared i have tryed befor an chickened out really fats plzz tell me how i can lose it to my self fast without any pain i would love to make love with my love one❤thx
I agree my cousin pop her cherry at the age of 12 her husband was so confused about that
Both of you must take it slow and make sure you're turned on enough or add lubricant. A condom is recommended too. Also, it's best that you relax and put all your trust in your partner at that moment. Tell him if it hurts and he'll most likely comfort you or try to distract you. If you're both feeling a strong, mutual, passion, then the pain should ease before you know it. The key is to be slow and gentle and make sure to have enough lubricant and trust in one another.
just tell a oy to break it for u i am a 13 year old boy and im turned on af
well, as she said, shes not interested in having sexual intercourse. Lets start there, it's good that you dont have strong desires of pleasure at your young age, but i think its normal for a 13 year old girl to try and explore herself, if youre up to it, than youre up to it, just dont take things to far. And you cant break a hymen, you can stretch it, so when adding more than one finger, its going to hurt, yes it will, and that is because thats how all woman are, if you hear someone say "i broke my hymen doing this this and that, its 90% not true, since usually, everytime your going to have sex its going to hurt because you are being stretched out all over again. (depending on how often you have sex), its just the fact that they can tolerate it a bit more each time ^^ so honey, do what you want its your body not anyone elses
I do not know where you have gout your information from about the hymen not breaking because that's untrue, the hymen may stretch the first or second time you have intercourse but will break sooner or later depending on its thickness because that is where the blood comes from when it finally breaks, the hymen can also break other ways too from such things as exercise, horse riding or riding a bicycle anything that stretches the crotch area or puts pressure on it so your wrong again on that fact! Intercourse can be painful the first time and also after your first time specially if you are not relaxed or stimulated enough before to allow your vagina to expand ready or its not lubricated enough, most females will find intercourse very pleasurable and not painful at all even the first time some say it's just uncomfortable and not painful.
Who cares what the guy thinks about her hymen? It's not about the guy.
You are so inspiring because I was reading all these comments and I was like that's why society is so messed up, we're so busy worrying about what guys think about us instead of what we think about us!
hi I think my hymen ripped but then my friend said it was my first period. How do I tell because it was very faint blood
I’m glad I’m not the only girl who started exploring my self when I was 11
Bike and horseback riding can break it