How do I best and least painfully loosen my ass, before anal sex. My boyfriend is too rough when he fingers my ass.
Talk and communicate with him .. take it slowly and start with one finger maybe the smaller one then slowly move to 2 fingers. Should apply some lube too.. and slowly massage around the anus.
definatley talk to him. If he is still rough, you can take matters into your own hands and try to finger yourself. taking it slow of course. Never be rough, especially around your anus. Always be careful and use lots of lube. :)