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Be glad you're having orgasms. Your boyfriend probably always ejaculates ("Cums") but may not always actually have an orgasm. Just as with you, one can happen without the other. Most men probably ejaculate before thay're aroused to the level of real orgasm. If I had to choose between having an orgasm or ejaculating fluid, I'd take orgasms anytime.

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"put his penis in your p***y start ejaculating your g-spot" Wtf did i just read
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Don't worry, just because nothing comes out doesn't mean its bad, you might never, you might start having things come out. Remember, cum means to orgasm, some women don't have anything come out, it might just ooze, in fact, you might have it come out slowly, like lubricant...:) hope this helps

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I had this happen to me when I was your age, I found it very frustrating because my boyfriends always tried their best and I was never sure if I actually orgasmed. The first time I had a proper orgasm was when my baby breastfed for the first time...sounds weird I know...especially seeing my vagina was swollen and full of stitches. I talked to my sister and some friends and they said the same thing happened for them. Then one day about 18 months later I orgasmed through masturbating, just 1 finger in to the 2nd knuckle fast vibrating on the g-spot but haven't been able to do it myself since. Then clitoral stimulation with vibrator started the squirting (like crazy) and now can generally only achieve insanely intense vaginal orgasm when I have vibrator tickling my bum. My point is that I am now 40 and I started having sex in my teens, you can't force orgasm/squirt/cum, your body will do it when it's ready and your boyfriend will still love every minute of it if you do.
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No, its not dear :)
as far as i know I am not one, but my wife just wetted the sheets massively last night - I wasnt surprised, it was her 1st time since we know each other - she's 30, you are well in time to find it. Good luck! Good sex!
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Right before it starts to feel uncomfortable, try having your bf slow down and go really, really soft on his touch, go to the other extreme completely, like he's barely touching you. You should feel like you want more. You should feel teased or withheld from. Build up a genuine "need" (for lack of a better word) for it, then he can touch you harder, but again move slowly into that. Think of it more like a flirting ritual. It sounds like the going hard full course doesn't work long term for you.
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Squirting is the best. You don't know what you're missing
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Thats probably discharge
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I am 39 and just started squirting with my current lover. I never thought I would be able to squirt, I thought it was something only porn stars did. A few things I have learned:
1. You have to be completely comfortable with the person you are with. And I mean completely!
2. You have to push out not squeeze in
3. G-Spot stimulation!

I tend to squirt more when I am on top and facing away from my lover. Works EVERYTIME! I also squirt facing him or him on top. He LOVES it! You will be able to tell when you are about to squirt with time. It feels like a huge buildup and pressure. Nothing bad, but I can just feel it. You also have to pull the penis out for the fluid to release.

Hope this helps!!

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Coming isn't the important factor here, pleasure is. Porn has led us to believe we should be squirting and coming all the time, but the fact is, real life is different. It also leads us to believe it's a sign of how turned on we are. In my experience anyway, porn is so wrong. Sometimes I come and I don't orgasm, sometimes I orgasm and don't come, sometimes I do both, that's just the way it is. Yeah it's hot, but this is not something either partner should fixate on as it is not a reflection on either person's performance and your boyfriend should not turn this into an issue. Your pleasure and satisfaction free from worry and pressure is what's important, so enjoy your orgasms!

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I have a little bit of a different problem. I am a clit girl too and seem to get the most pleasure that way. I have mastered how to make my self orgasm but I have NEVER been able to cum.. I'm not even talking about squirting but just cumming in general. Then I met my fience.. and he one day surprised us both and made me gush/sqirt. He thought I had peed on him, but I'm pretty certain I didn't. However this does not happen often and only he can do it. I can not make myself cum or gush. Why is this. My fience also takes it to heart sometimes because he gets so much pleasure in making me gush but I rarely do. I promise him it's not him and that the sex is amazing and like nothing I've ever felt but he doesn't believe me. He thinks something isn't being done right or would cum.
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If he leaves you because you can't "squirt" then he is not right for you anyway.
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That was very helpful cause I was starting to think im the only person with this problem
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I can cum non stop when my Bf is inside me, but y can't I cum when I have an orgasm or feel an orgasm coming on when Im using a vibrator on the g spot? I feel like there's something wrong with Me?
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Yes me to I get much more wet when I'm alone doing it
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