MikeD123, I think that you're doing the right thing. I just wanted to post in support of what you're doing and I'd like to know how you're doing so let me know. Do you have an update for me?
Hey nothing new she just told me off one day saying that i cause this i messed up her life i cant wear a condom right. just going off on me. She got mad with me cause i asked for a DNA test. Told me it will be a waste of time and its a slap in the face for me to ask for one. I said i just dont think you can have a positive test 4 days after sex that is a bit fast. I said how do you caculate a due date she says the day you have sex add or subtract a few days add 9 months. I said what?! You take your fist day of your last period add 7 days sub 3 months thats how you i did it and narrowed it down to a jan 26 2010. and the conception date was may 5th. I didnt have sex with her till the 20th of May I am tring to get her to tell me something went on before us. But that isnt easy at all. do you have a email address i can foward you some of my post!
Hi there, sorry I seem to have lost this thread so I'm sorry I didn't keep up with you. I'm really sorry that you are having a lot of difficulty with her but I'd like to see how you're doing now. How are things going with your girlfriend? Are you two still together?
I am ok. I am not with her she says that i gave here a gift to where her and her old man couldnt have. She says she has been pregnat 2 time by him and lost it. she blames him for low sperm count. I dont know nothing about that. I told her you dont have sex and then you get a positive in 4 to 5 days. it takes longer than that. But she dont believe me at all. She say her and her old man are happy about this. She still says you cant get a estimate with your last period. She says you go by the day you had sex and count up 9 months. I have never heard of such a thing. I still got no proof just pic of a test. and she went to the doc and she would not show me what she did. then she says she is having twins but never been to a real doctor. i mean all this just dont make any sense. I feel that she isnt pregnant or if she is it by someone else. Leave me your e mail address and we can chat sometime!
Hi MikeD, that's just more and more fishy. I don't know why she's been treating you that way. Are you still with her? I know it's up to you but frankly I think that she needs to start showing you some respect. Unfortunately, due to rules on the forums I can't leave my address but I do check in pretty frequently so if you have any questions or concerns fo rme, I'll gladly help out and answer as quickly as possible. How's things been?
Hey Mike, it's been awhile since I last talked to you. I just wanted to know that you're doing okay. Let me know and hopefully we can talk a little. Thanks!
Hi Mike. I am a mother of four and three of them are girls, so I have learned how manipulative a young woman can be. If your girl won't go to a doctors apt. and take you with her then I would say that there is a problem and you may need to really look at what you know in your heart. I also know about pregnancy with having four of my own and I have eight grandchildren and I have been there through all the pregnancys. ( A woman can not know she is pregnant within 4days of having sex, nor can she know how many with out a sonigram or hearing two fetal heart beats) Everything I have read in your post is saying that she is trying to keep you trapped to her and that you must really value family. If that is true then it is important that you find out. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck
Hey nana, thanks for posting to back me up. I am glad to hear that you've got some experience in that area (or at least an opinion) and I hope that it takes for Mike D. Let me know how you're doing MIke okay?