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WHO CARES??? Why are we still so hung up on what defines a virgin? I don't notice boys writing in to ask if they are still virgins. If anything they want to know if they're NOT VIRGINS YET. For boys losing your virginity makes you a man. Why must we stigmatize females by making their virginity an issue of purity or class or IMPORTANCE.

Get over it. If your virginity is that important to the man you're with HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.

By the way women, one of the biggest complaints I hear from men who are unhappily married is that their wife was a virgin when they got married and she still doesn't know anything about sex.

I am NOT suggesting you all run out and get all the sexual experience you can....... All I want is for you to let yourselves OFF THE HOOK over this trivial nonsense. My lingering question is WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE. If having some experience makes you a s*** then you're listening to the WRONG people and you need to find new friends. More and more on campus I'm finding that women have quit holding themselves to this "virginal standard" and they're a LOT HAPPIER for it. If all of you stopped caring about these LABELS, then very soon they'd lose their power over you.
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Yes your still a virginn :)
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If you swap bodily fluids, regardless of where it's from you are no longer a virgin.
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Im 18 and my boyfriend had fingered me there yesterday. He said he musterbated last night, but took a shower in the morning. Can I be prego? I'm so worried please help!!!
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She is still a virgin if she has not hand sex were its penis in vagina. Her boyfriend isn't an oral virgin but she is still a virgin.
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Kissing and receiving herpes is also a std so that kinda defeats your comment
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is fingering wont break hymen???

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Sure you are !
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You are not a virgin hence the word "sex" in oral sex.
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Uh-huh. So if a fake penis attached to a woman penetrated the vagina of a woman, she's still a virgin?
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BB Feet you're an id**t. By definition you are wrong. I could tell you are a virgin cause you don't know what you talking about.
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you are definitely still a virgin , if his penis hasnt been inside you then you still have your virginity.
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Well The Only Way You Can Get a disease is if he have one...And If Your Cherry Haven't Busted Your Still A Virgin..
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How can u be pregnant? From the dirt in his fingernails? Sperm gets u pregnant. Sex gets u pregnant. Neither fingers nor masturbation. And to avoid any confusion, I mean sperm in ur vagina, not ur mouth or ur butt. If u had vaginal sex without precautions, then u should be worried.
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Unfortnately, a bunch of Ignoramuses replied to this. She is definately not a virgin. The term virgin indicates a woman who has not had sex. She has had sex and therefore is not a virgin.

The fact that he put his tonge in her vagina also mean she has had vaginal sex.
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