I have a protruding clitoris the size of my middle toe; should I hide it?;

I have a big clit too and I have always felt very self-conscious. I've researched ways to get rid of it and everything, but in the end I realized that Ishouldn't change the way I am. So far I havent had a guy say anything bad about it, which leads me to believe that all these people are right that are replying to your post. And after reading everyones responses it has made me feel better about myself, so thank you. What i do know is that you will find a guy that loves you for who you are, including your clit, so don't worry about it :)

Guest wrote:

I think you are lucky. It is the only part of a woman's body that only has one purpose - to give her pleasure. You will find a lucky guy that absolutely loves it so don't worry about it. (I am a guy)

henjenny wrote:

So as a little girl I had this little thing sticking out in the front of my vulva, but it grew alot in my teens and my pubic hair was not long and dense enough to cover it so the girls in my gym class called me "weenie woman"
and I was the only girl the boys ignored. I have ever since felt like a freek.
Did finally date a guy in college and we later married. He was patient and agreed to never look or touch my vulva. I told him I had been traumatized
before and needed more time before I could let him see my private area. After we had been married 4-months we had intercourse our first time in a position which he was not able to see my vulva. It was that night that I concieved and three days later he went off into the military service and we lost him to war. I wanted to understand or correct my body before he returned so I went into studying and found my clitoris is actually just enlaged. I've read about a surgery of amputating the clitoris and I don't want that. When the news of my husbands death came I didn't care much,but 9yrs have past and I'm in love again and I wonder if I should just hide it from him too or get some medical changes or treatment done?
And is there some new way to fix my clitoris so it is smaller? Is it bad for me to get sexually aroused because it makes my clitoris get even larger?

henjenny, I know exactly how you feel. I grew up with the pain of having to keep my enlarged clit a secret and endured all the mean name callings, etc. But I met my husband in college, and he did not care at all about my enlarged clit. In fact, he loved it, and still does. I have come to appreciate it because I get awesome orgasms. There is nothing to be ashamed about when it comes to an enlarged clit. You just have to change your attitude about it and KNOW that it is much desired. Love yourself and be proud that you are one of the few lucky ladies to have it. I know I do ;)

Hi, I am a mother of an 8year old daughter whom family members and myself have noticed she has an enlarged clitoris, one which she obsesivelly cleans, masturbates and is beginning to notice that this thing, as she calls it, tangles down. From a very young age she has done what I call her Tuppence ting, almost like masturbating were she will say, i've nearly finished. My worry is is that she is starting to say look at this mummy, that's disgusting.  She has a 6 year old sister whom doesn't have an enlarged clitoris and my worry is that she will start not liking this. any suggestions?  I have a twin sister whom both of us have flaps which I never realized was an issue until pointed out not so nicely by a couple of boyfriends and i really don't want my daughter to have an issue regarding this. 

I think it's up to you to make sure she knows she is gifted ---- not cursed. There are plenty of expressions of love for what she has right here in this topic to convince anyone of that. Her attitude about it is what's going to set the tone for all her relationships.

Dear Jenny believe me I know how it feels to be called freak, but about your clitoris, my wife has a huge one and I love it, I mean there is a lot of guys who has desire to have a girlfriend with big clit , i was born hermaphodite but they took of my vagyna and wolf when i was a baby, but I developed breast as a teenager, with hormone therapy they disapear, but I would tell you to hide in the clothes if you want in gymns etc, but tell your boyfriend that you were born different when you are alone and intimate with him , if he loves you he will understand , I help as a voluntier a lot of people when I can , I would recomend to google it , big clit, giant clit, huge clit, you will see that there is women with bigger clit then yours and they are proud of it

you are blessed with a big clit, that is normal, and great for mens who like oral sex , my wife has a big one too and i love it , that is nothing to be afraid of

Consider yourself blessed. Most girls have a clit they can't even find, let alone allow a boyfriend to enjoy. Any real man would find it a fun toy!

In my opinion, you are more desirable than the girls that picked on you.  I love a big clitoris, most men do!

I think you two have a great thing going. Do whatever pleases you both, that's what it's all about. I would love to wake up to find my wife playing with me. He's probably right saying that he can do himself better, and you can do yourself better, but there is something about the feeling of your lover's hands doing you that just can't be beat.

You have been able to work it out so you can both come together ---- that's great. There is a feeling of togetherness at that moment that is so overpowering and delicious. For me it was like being in another world for a few seconds.

Do you just not want to have sex at the "wrong" time of the month? I never stayed away from that except if we just didn't want to deal with the cleanup. It's not fun to wake up in the morning with dried blood all over you, but it beats not having sex. That may be just me though. When I was 19 I was dating a girl who I only saw on Sundays and we couldn't take any chance of her becoming pregnant so all we ever did was oral. When she had her period we just took off the pad, wiped her off, and I started licking. I may have tasted blood on the first couple licks but after that it was just like every other time.

Sounds like you're doing great, keep it going.

All my life I dreamed of a woman with large clitoris. I think it is so exciting and great to watch. Thinking of how it is to suck it, play with it and thought that it sticks out makes me absolutely crazy with desire. Forget the school. Children are, like them are, just to not stand out from the crowd and can be very evil to achieve this. Many of the boys who dared not show it, I felt for sure that it was very interesting and exciting. You should just be happy you look like you do. Search Google for "huge clit". There are many like you and many love it.

my vigna clit it bigg and long and have like dots on it is that normal?

Where  are all the ladies  who have big Clits,  what a gift to behold. Never be ashamed of it there are men like me who love your large labia.

Dear, you do not have to worry about having that big clit. Believe or not, God created us different and you must accept yourself the way He made you. On tthat he other side, have ever considred the situation the other way round, ie you are particularly gifted from that point of view?

Let me tell you, for exemple I like patners with a bushy thing and outstanding clit. Please do not take for an insult. That's how I am. Plus, in my country, the DRC, there is a tribe which is known for making clits big cause, they believe, the bigger the clit the sensitive sex will be.

show me a large clitoris and it would be between my lips immediately