I think it is great that you have a clit large enough to find and play with.
Sweetheart, though some people's private parts might seem unusual, being that there are many differences in human anatomy, none of them are abnormal. The best answer is to not be uncomfortable with differences or to think about them as being strange. Just know that we are created by a god who loves the beauty of variety. The worst answer would be to try to change something as beautiful as a naturally elongated clitoris.
Hello Nakk, that's great, no reason to feel self conscious about it I imagine it must give a lot of pleasure. Where are you from?
No don't get rid of it or have surgery. That is part of you and it's for your sexual pleasure do be worried because some dumb bit***s in your school messed with you. I had some girls do that to me about my breasts because I had like a c up in elementary school and I wasn't fat. It made me feel like I must be a freak but I had a rockin bod and the boys noticed. Don't let that stuff make you feel like a freak be proud let him lick it most guys love that stuff. From one female to another enjoy what you have don't let others ruin it for you You will have rockin orgasms!
Never aspire to be average or normal. ------ Those ways are the path to mediocrity. You have a gift. Appreciate it, use it for pleasure and dismiss the cruel taunts of ignorant children. See a therapist if you need to. Surgically altering yourself, before you are fully aware of and in possession of your sexual body, would be a mistake I think. The clit is for pleasure, surgery could really damage it. And a big clit is beautiful.
I stumbled across this. I hope it is ok to give the male opinion. Firstly, some men, (including this one), will find that very very sexy. Secondly, since it is the location where a lot of the pleasure nerve endings are concentrated, it may be the source of a lot of pleasure if you can find the right way to stimulate it you can try it out alone and then teach your boyfriend - he should be more than happy to oblige. Please don't think of amputating it - it is part of you, part of who you are. Find a guy who loves you and he will accept that part of you too. I could get into more intimate details of why men would love it and how to make the most of it, but this is probably not the place. If you want to talk off line just reply to the topic and I'll get notification. Is there a way to get a username and go private officially?
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I both sympathise and detest your post. OK so you have a big clit, so what!? Lots of men find it exciting (me included). Sadly, though, it seems you are so obsessed with yourself you just marry men for kudos and can't find it in yourself to love them or give a sh*t when they get killed. For that reason I don't care if you are depressed about your big clit, however much I might want to persuade you to love it.
Hello Henjenny!
Most men would find you very stimulating. And they actual like it..As for the girls in school they just dont know better..In some parts of Africa, the clitoris is pulled to grow as they believe sex is more pleasurable with a slightly larger clit. So love what God gave you and you ill be surprised how blessed you are.
UNFORTUNATELY, it is much more prevalent in Africa (and elsewhere) for girls/young women to be mutilated and have their clitoris and labia minora removed. Their lives are ruined, apart from just sexually. Many are made sterile by infection damage or physical inability to deliver a child properly. I am appalled that peer pressure in so-called "civilized" western countries sees girls having surgery to "correct" something that just is NOT wrong in the first place. Men who cannot accept little physical diffeences in their partners, don't desrve to have them and should be "shown the door ". I do hope this lady did NOT have anything surgical done and that she has found a decent new partner to share her life with. "Say NO to FGM"
I see this original concern was posted about four years ago, so I'm sure she has already found out what she needed to know about her "overly large clitoris".As a man,and an older man,with some experience, I'd like to reassure this woman, that I and most men I know of, welcome nice sized clitorises. Very few areas on a woman's body excite me as much as her clitoris. I love to feel it with my fingers, stroke on it and feel it grow and harden underneath my fingers. Of course, I love the response this brings from the woman, as well.I love to have her reach orgasm from me stroking the shaft and the head of her clitoris. The other reason I love to find a nice size (large) clitoris ,is I can get the woman to orgasm very strongly and very nicely by running my tongue around her clitoris; kissing it, and getting it between my lips and sucking on it. Some women have told me that is the best feeling orgasm they have ever had! And they usually want more! A lot of women have small, almost tiny clitorises. This technique works very well on them, but sometimes their clitoris is hard to find, and to get my lips on. I say, be thankful you have a larger clitoris, it will feel so good between your lover's fingers and his lips; he can suck it and stroke it like her nipples,and with much greater enjoyment. She will be in ecstasy as he brings her to orgasm that way! It makes me envious of your lover!
From reading all the responses here I think it is clear that we need a dating site for women who have a large clit and the men who love them! And takers for writing the code?