I have small labia. Should I give up on sex because of it?

"Now, read this thread(https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/men-what-is-better-to-you-large-or-small-labia) and see how very few men like the smaller look and how some of those men were branded as paedophiles because of that preference." yup that is so offensive!! its like fat shaming is not ok but thin shaming is perfectly fine. its a very similar scenario I just happen to have small ones so what?! Stop shaming men who find them attractive and labelling them as paedophiles!! Very very wrong that this is happening. Its a NORMAL thing to have (there is no right or wrong shape!) even for adult women. I think about 50% of us if not more have the small, tidy type and I think 30-40% have the larger ones. So to brand us as freaks is wrong.

Also not that I support labiaplasty but at least they have that option. We are literally stuck with what we have and have to just hope for the best that our sexual partners can contend themselves with having so little to play with (however will they cope?!

"https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/men-what-is-better-to-you-large-or-small-labia." That comments thread is the most depressing thing I've read in a long time. I'm glad I'm happily married and that my man loves the small ones so I guess I'm one of the lucky ones (he hates the big ones finds them gross LOL) but honest to God if I was a young single woman looking for love right now I would give up and kill myself. I actually think that OP was bait - she's planning on saving herself but also considering labiaplasty??! Come on!! She clearly went on there purely to fish for compliments, which she got, 50 pages worth.

and another thing - they DO look like beef curtains!! that is not offensive at all. Everyone calls them that. none of the terminology for female genitalia is exactly flattering now is it??! I think us normies need to fight back here a little bit because the paedophilia talk is deeply troubling and shaming men for their preferences. Newsflash - we're in the majority which only makes sense that the majority of men (a study has shown that if you google it) prefers small lips. but with pedophile accusations being thrown around so readily (against men who are attracted to perfectly normal, feminine, curvy ADULT women) I don't blame them for keeping silent on the matter.

"Here you go---https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/born-without-labia-minora

Read it and rethink it."

Nothing to rethink. the two comments sections are not comparable. the large labia thread is solid 50 pages wall to wall men gushing over large labia and how they are so much better than small ones. the thread you posted is nothing of the sort. nowhere near. Nice try at gaslighting and silencing us thank you!

Well said. nothing further to add to your comment - you hit the nail on the head!

Interesting article:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labia_pride

Quote from the article: "In an effort to make "real women" feel better about themselves, some labia proud ladies are taking shots at girls whose labia actually look like the imaginary "Barbie" ideal. Turns out, some girls are actually born like that. Labia, like boobs or entire bodies, come in all shapes, sizes, colors and textures. Shaming one to make another type feel better is bad news. Think of it in terms of thin women who are often shamed or shunned in support of body image advocacy for larger girls""

I agree with this sentiment except I would change "some" to "many" or even "most". I think the small labia are more common than large labia type vulvas. So these "real" women (because we're fake like a Barbie doll of course and can't possibly be real) insulting a large group of people here. Ironic - but not surprising (I'm not keen on 3rd wavers) - that feminists are tearing other women down and are pitting woman against woman. Pitiful. I'm sorry you have body image issues but don't project them on to me. Some of us simply have had the luck to be born with small labia - don't vilify us because of it!