So, my boyfriend and I are planning on having sex when he comes home next week. This will be the first time I've ever had sex, and he's very experienced. I want it to be exciting, fun, and kind of rough. I looked up tips to help, and I read many crazy things. I took my curling wand and used it to masturbate. I could definitely feel discomfort, stretching, and slight pain.
At some point, my curling wand wouldn't go any further. When I tried to push the wand in further, I felt a lot of pressure, but that's it. So, did I have 'sex'? Isn't my hyemin supposed to tear? Afterwards, I felt sort of like I had to pee, if that makes sense.
i feel as though I haven't accomplished anything. I want to have fun with my boyfriend, but I didn't feel pleasure with the wand! How am I supposed to feel pleasure with his penis I'd i can't with a wand about the same size? PLEASE HELP! I only have 6 days left until he comes home. How on Earth do I feel the pleasure!?
Hi. Don't worry having intercourse will be totally different because there will be loving and stimulation from your partner not just from a curling wand.
Why you couldn't get the wand in any further is because you was hitting your cervix the vagina is only between 4 to 6 images deep so don't worry about that either not all girls feel pain or bleed when there hymen breaks either.
Just enjoy the time with your boyfriend don't go for anything wild just gentle intercourse until you get some experiences you can always ride him in the cowgirl position and the most important thing use condoms to protect not only from pregnancy but also STIs and STDs that can have life changing effects to woman and some can lead to you becoming sterile and not being able to have children.