im 17 trying to get pregnant...BUT I CANT! :'(

Im 17 and my boyfriend want me to have a baby with him a little girl he wants

but if u stress about it ur mind will take it in and not let you

so when u are having sex dont think about a baby think of something else

 

Hey im 17 & trying to conceive too! I have my own place, i work AND im engaged.. so sorry for all the people that seem to think that young women are not "financially stable" enough to provide for children I believe you are incorrect. Hunni the first step is, work out how long your cycle is from the day you get your period to the day before you start your next period( the first day of your period is cycle day 1) if you have a 28day cycle like me your likely to ovulate between the 12-15 cycle day but all women are different!! If you are unsure of ovulation, get some ovulation predictor kits, but dont use your first morning pee! When its positive the lines should be either the same or the test line should be darker also keep track of your cervical fluid when you get an egg white type of CF thats your most fertile time so get baby dancing! Also don't listen to what people say, if you know in your heart that you can provide for a child, not just financially but mentally & emotionally then do it! Just make sure your trying for the right reasons.. ive been TTC for 6months now & it is hard every month when you get your period, i know how you feel!! 

I'm feeling exactly like you I'm 18 and I've been with my partner 4 years and the only thing I really want out of life is to be a mum. When I was 15 I fell pregnant and knew it was far to young to even think of bringing a child into the world I just knew it wouldn't be fair, 3 years on and I'm regretting the decision because now I feel 100% ready my partner doesn't feel same. Your lucky you have someone that feels the same and if your struggling go see your GP they will do test to see if you and your partner are able to produce your dreams :)

I am 17 and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for 8 months now and nothing has happened. I really want to be a mom. I am starting to get impatient but if you have any tips please share. 

oh dear where do i start? teen pregnancy isnt just something you read about online or watch on mtv, its real and NOT what you think it is. I was a teen mom, and let me tell you even though i love my daughter or maybe because i love her so much i wish i had waited, not only was i not mature enough but then i realized it was sooo expensive, i hate not being able to give her the newest and best things, i look at other older mothered children and i get upset. i think wtf why cant my baby have that? then i realize it was because i made a bad decision and didnt wait till i was not only emotionally mature but i wasn't financially stable. not like the other parents, my little girl is not in kindergarden and let me tell you it really sucks watching as she comes home and says so and so brought whatever in for show and tell, can i have one? and i have to say sorry sweetie but not right now mommy cant afford it. you think it doesnt matter what people think but ill tell you one thing right now of all those people not one matter except that innocent little one that looks up to you with disappointment in his or her eyes because you can't make everything prefect, not that you ever can at any age but your much less capable of dealing with it at your age than say waiting 5 or 10 years! wait for the sake of that baby you want so much, because if you have one now that love will make you cry as you want the best for your bundle of joy, you are in NO way ready at this moment, try working at a daycare to get your baby fix, the infant room is great spoil them all day and keep your nights and weekends to your self! imnot being mean honey but please please reconsider, trust me wait till you have more to give, it will mean more in the long run, not to mention, waiting you may have a husband and support system where now your only going to have baby daddy drama! ugh spare yourself, trust me they all turn to evil assholes when faced with loosing freetime and hanging with their buddies and when you need them to fork over cash for something simple like diapers watch as mr. hyde rears his ugly head, just giving you the heads up i wish someone would have given me!

Girl I feel you, I am 17 as well. I am married, out of school and have a very great job, I have all I need and more, But even since I had my first child at 14 and lost her I have been trying, I have had every test done known to man and not one of them can find out whats wrong with me. They have even took eggs put sparm in them and put them back in and it did nothing but make me sick, I have tried everything. I have never used protection in my life, and my husband is good and ready to do. Its just something with me, well one day Me and my best friend went out and we heard a lady talking about blood types..I spoke to my doctor and she was in shock to find that I am O- and my husband is O+ and that was our problem our blood doesnt get alone so they have me so painful horrible burning shoots and well I am sitting her now about 3 months prego and looking like I am gonna pop already. It could always be the littlest things, talk to your doctor about it. Make sure you start working out and getting super heathly it make the pains not so strong good luck to you girly!

Teenmom17 it's not our fault your poor and live with your husbands family. What if your 19 with a 2 bedroom flat and you and your bf both have good jobs and make enough money. Stop being so negative. It sounds to me like you resent your son. All you have said is you love your son. You haven't said any positive things about being a mother whether your a teen or not. I think it's do unfair that people who really want a baby can't have them and people like you who don't even won't them can get pregnant and not even enjoy being a mother.

Don't mean to be harsh but you just sound miserable. Your only 17 even if you have a child you can still be happy.

Im 19 and my bf is 23 we have been together for 2 years and we think about having a child all the time but we aren't planning just waiting for it to happen. 'fingers crossed'. Good luck and baby dust to all those mothers ttc.

Hello..I felt the need to post on this as I was reading your post. I knw exactly how you feel. I was 16 once and I had it set in my mind that my boyfriend and I needed a baby. I love children. I am currently working on becoming a pediatric surgeon. Every single one of my closest friends had children and i thought I needed one as well. I was great with my friends children and i loved being the caretaker. Then my best friend since kindergarten became pregnant..at first it was all great. Then at 8 months her boyfriend left her. I was all she had. Her parents had disowned her and she was living with me. She had her beautiful daughter shira. I was daddy in the situation. I was up half the night and changing diapers and feeding as i was getting ready for school every morning. I loved every minute. We had great jobs and a very great support system from my mother..shira was provided for and her needs were all met. six months after she was born my friend was in a wreck. Her cat was totaled and she died. Luckily shira was with me but i was all shira had. So i became a parent even tho i did not conceive shira.The emotional tole was the hard part. U really do not realize how much stress and emotional control u need to have a child. They do dumb little things that can iritate the hell out of people. Lik shira wud pull her diaper off and squat down and per right after I just cleaned up her play do off the wall..and i wud get frustrated and raise my voice then she would look at me and cry. That's when I knew I needed to be more patient with her. At 17 I had no clue Wat to do even tho I had had her for a year. I was advised by my mother to take parenting classes. That was the best choice I had ever made. My husband and I have been together for 6 years and married for 1. I am 21 now and shira just turned 5. Every time that girl gets up she puts a smile on my face. I love being able to love her. My point is be sure that you are ready..because no txt book or person can prepare you for parenthood. and once u go there...there is no turning back. U can't give the baby back. I was 16 and even tho i didn't give birth to shira I still became a parent. I can honestly say it doesn't matter how patient or caring you are. If you do not have the help and support from others then parenthood is going to be very ruff. So I would sugest the parenting classes first. Then if you r ready go for it. Be sure and get checked by your physician and get on pre natals. And do not drink..smoke..or use drugs. These will only hurt you and the baby. Wat most women do not knw is that smoking can cause u to not get pregnant. Start an ovulation chart and make sure you are healthy. Stds can be asymptomatic and cause infertility in many teens. Wish u the best of luck.

Don't be so sad girl, your young...finish school, go to college at further your education. Get a good job to support the family that you want. So in the future when you settle down with someone you love and can trust, you'll have a good life. Think carefully about what having a baby will do to your life? Will you be able to finish school? Do you have a supportive family that will help you raise this child(if you decide to do so)? How does your BF feel about having the responsibilty of a baby? Will your boyfriend stick by your side like he says he will?

I have two children of my own. I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 18. It was rough, but I had family to help me if I needed them to babysit so I could go to work. My second was a little better(different daddy). I was 25 and attending Massage school FT and working PT. My BF at that time was very supportive and loving, but his drinking problem stressed me out.

So all I can say is I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do!

 

im 18 and im only a year older than you i finished high school at 16 and got pregnant just after high school i had my little boy just before i turned 17 he is two now i wasnt ready  financial state was low i had to get a really poor job that wasnt enjoyable i hated every second till i came home to my lil boy i passed school because i already finished i went on to college and got diplomas i now have my two year old boy childcare diploma health and health car diploma also have sign language and first aid my advice is wait just alittle bit longer at least till you have finished school and got a good job and go to college  then if you feel the same urge give it a go but get grades  first you may think its so easy but its but it not. and i understand you might think everyone is talking bull sh*t  because you think the only thing that matters is having babies  but we are not just listen to other parents take will power in your self and get to college live your life. as poeple say children ruin your life they dont there just a beggining for a new life xxxx

u have to be on your period or like in the middle of it or just getting off

Hi I know how you feel I'm 17 and I misscarried last year, it took me and my fiancee whos 23 7 months to fall pregnant and now its been 8 months I chart everything every month, were doing all the right things but still nothing. How long does it take to fall pregnant after a misscarriage???

You dont have to be on your period atall lol. You have to be ovulating & if you have a regular 28day cycle ( from the day you come on your period till the day before your nxt one) Then you should ovulate around day12-18. its different for all women. Im 14wks + 3 days pregnant now due in december we was trying to concieve for nearly 7 months. And Katie sorry to hear about your loss :/ me & my partner had a loss last year you can get pregnant at any time after just some people it takes longer that others x

Im 18 my bf just asked me to marry him we have been together for 3 years im a college student he works he gets bank lol we are stable and i want to conceive a few months ago probably a year i was told i had my hormones low idk what to do i really want to conceive we want to have a baby we will marry on december so idk what should i do to get pregnant i have been trying but nothing  any tips???????????

hi my name is violetaim 15 i had a baby 4 weeks ago its a boy he is my everything and my boyfriend is a wonderful dad and boyfriend
my baby name is aymen im may be young but i always want a baby to love a care about