Wow, while some guys such as my self are trying the run away from the gay lifestyle ur thinking about getting into it. I'm not sure what i am, but gay porns turns me on, i watch gay porn almost everyday and jerk, but at the same time i wonder why i do it, cause i'm lost, confused, because i have the amazing girlfren that i dont want to loose, but dont know what to do. Can anyone help me........
Dont worry about it! People are mostly SEXUAL, not "gay" or "straight". Do whatever you feel like doing because life is short and there is not much time for worthless questionings and being guilty etc. If you feel aroused by gay sex, go suck penis and also f**k your girl. Dont worry just be happy! :-)
yes but im a girl and i like whaching gay porn i think its weird but im not straight im lesbian
This is pretty much exactly what happened with me when I was younger. I was watching the "straight" porn all of my life and assumed I was straight. But then I suddently discovered that gay porn did so much more for me. In addition to that, I slowly began to realize that on the straight porn I was generally focusing on the guy.
I could never accept myself because I was always disgusted by male relationships, including kissing and the thought of anal. However, having experienced it in person I can pretty much say that my disgust went away. It was pretty much like night and day, the only problem was I was in denial for years.
Dont make the mistake I did, assuming that you'll never fall in love with the same sex... or it disgusts you. The first time always seems like its disgusting.
I hate posts like this because i know most people who do this are hard homophobes in real life.
I hope you are not, and for your question or search for suggestions/third person opinion here is the answer:
Most of the guys who do the same will tell you the same and the things you want to hear, because they want to hear them for themselves. It is NOT called being straight if you are sexually attracted to men. So, whoever you are, You might be gay, or at least bi. The tags straight, gay and bi define your sexual orientation, that means who you are sexually attracted to. So it is very possible, as you said that you love a girl, because they really are easy to love.
And now for the most important part! Do not be so immature and say that gay people together are gross because you are only trying to convince yourself, what the 'lovely' religions teaches, that gay is not acceptable. Imagine seeing one of the gay porn stars you like walking up to you and start making out with someone even hotter if front of you. Would you be turned on?
And if you are not getting hard while watching straight porn, where the first 10 minutes the girl is teasing you, than you might not be as straight as you think you are, but do not set your life goal to convince yourself different.
Being gay is not wrong and try to understand that. And if you love a woman as much as you say do not lie to her by thinking of men while having sex with her, she will find out eventually and be heartbroken. If you do not know that you want in life, what really turns you on, weather you could spent a life just fantasizing about men while being with a women than TAKE YOUR TIME. Have sex with someone who will turn you on(not someone with who you have to imagine something) and most of all RELAX. If you will want to sleep with a woman and be worried all that time if it will get or stay hard if you do not think of men, it will not get hard and it probably stay soft because all of the stress you are putting yourself under.
So if you are still in a relationship try looking/admiring the beauty of a female body and concentrate on her not your penis, if it gets hard, you just got confirmed you are straight, and if you have a man on your mind, that that is who you should try to find.
Do not hate me because i faced some of you that you might be gay, because it does not matter. And do not lie to your girlfriend or even marry her because you do not want people to know you are attracted to men because it will only make her fell like total sh*t when she finds out. You do not want to be a 60 year old fart when your wife outs you so try something new and step out of your imaginary comfort zone. Hope this helped some of you.
I am the exact same way. I always masturbate to gay porn, never straight porn. I'm straight though, and I have a girlfriend. Sometimes, when we have sex, I think of another guy. Also, I'm in wrestling, and a lot of us guys get naked to change and shower and I always catch myself looking. I've even gotten hard a few times in the locker room AND during matches. I don't know why I'm like this because whenever I see two guys kissing or holding hands in public, I'm instantly disgusted. The only thing I can really think of is my first sexual encounter was with a guy. We would jack off together and give each other hand-jobs. Other than that, I really don't know understand. If anyone could help, it would be great.
You are forcing yourself to have sex with girls(and can you?).I don't think i'll work.
Look, sometimes teenagers fantasize about gay sexual encounter. It happens to both women and men, and it's completely normal. It doesn't mean you're gay, it could be a stage; most of the people go through it, between their 12 and their 20's. May be that's your case, but another possibility is that you're bisexual, which is totally fine; in fact, there are studies that prove that bisexuality is something every human should embrace, since it's natural. It's society who labels it as wrong or sick. Anyways, heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, they're all natural (:
I've had sex with a girl. I masturbate to gay porn all the time. I've sucked off a boy and been sucked off by a boy. I've licked his arse too. It was really great and i got really turned on. Although I love girls. I've had lotss of girlfriends. I think about gay fantasies when I'm turned on. But when I cum, I don't think about it anymore. The fantasies are only ever with the boy I've done stuff with though.
Ive always been with girls and fallen in love with them I love my pregnant gf who im with more than anything but im addicted to hard gay porn and this batters my head I know im not gay bcoz I had sex with 1 man and it realy messed me up and I never feel attracted towards males only girls yet gay porn and gay things I find myself doing ,, ????
I would love to have sex with a man but it's taking the first step .I am sure I would be hooked and want more.I am happily married 65years old look younger.Had gay experience at school thoroughly shocked myself but kept doing it ,so know I would not be able to leave it alone If I started again.Perhaps I should as sex with my wife is non existant
19 year old here, When I was younger I would simulate sex with a couple of friends (naked, touching, etc.) but never actually penetrated. Fast forward to now and the thought of anal sex randomly pops up. I love females, and I am aroused by females a lot more often but that random thought pops up. The only way to end it is to masturbate to gay porn. While watching it, I am aroused by the sex. Anal, riding, etc. but once I see a penis or oral sex I get turned off and once i'm done masturbating my thought is "Wtf am I looking at?" Do I need to just get it over with, or just ignore it like i've been doing?
this is exactly what i feel....just the same feeling i get as yours!!
yes i like girls but with guys i like to do only sex..sounds weired but this is what i feel..
Sexuality is a rainbow or as someone said earlier a sliding scale and it constantly changes. You may wake one morning thinking of a lovely wet vagina or visualise a big hard penis, there’s no harm in either. I am mostly straight, happily married (to a woman). I have had brief Gay encounters in the past and I have just jacked off to a video of a young man masturbating. Don’t fight your sexuality, there is no need for people to be put in boxes labelled Gay or Straight. Experience both sides before you make any decisions.