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Im not gay, I have no attraction toward males. But I am a curious person and love exploring. Whenever I saw anal sex, I always wondered how it feels. So i tried it, i remember I could barely fit a finger in without feeling some discomfort and pain. But with persistence and patience you get to feel the difference. The muscles there really loosen up and then you move up to something bigger and itll feel like the first time until you loosen it up more again. The feeling is amazing once youre loose, your ass feels empty when you pull it out and when you stick back in is just a crazy orgasmic feeling. The bigger the object, the more intense. I havent really gotten to the point where I can fist myself, i have tried but always feel like im hitting a bone wall, but maybe is just more hard muscle. Ive gotten close though, can get all 5 fingers but thats it, cant get knuckles through. I havent had any real pain. Sometimes i feel a small half a second sharp pain but its rare, its usually telling me that i may be going too fast or pushing too hard, so i slow down and never feel any pain again. Leakage happens, very little but it happens, usually in the first few hours after a session but everything pretty much goes back to normal.
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Do you know from experience? Inquiring for a friend.
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Hi

It is also important to be relaxed and breathe well so that the muscles can relax to allow the fistor to entre. If the fistor forces his way in then it will cause pain an injury. If the fistee is relaxed and his sphincters and colon are relaxed, then the hand will go in spontaneously. That is the secret difference between pleasurable and painful fisting - harmless and harmful fisting.

Enjoy. I get fisted 2-3 times a week. It's very pleasurable and causes on pain unless the fistor is a brute.
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I like to get fisted, it happens once every 2-3 weeks, for at least 5 days after my hole is very stretched and sore. I have had to start wearing nappies for this period as I have had problems holding poo in and I've had a few accidents
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Agreed! only weird men wanna fist their chick's ass! What about vaginal fisting? I am in 2 minds here
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ive been getting fisted and using large toys for about 15 years. it has made a permanent difference to my ass. definitely is looser. the initial sphincter is pulled back and bit and that part of my anus is more fleshy. The larger things in my ass have made it much more sensitive, my ass lips are thicker. It has been very worth it for me. The downside has been minimal. During a doctor exam the doctor can tell as it is very easy to do a digital exam. Never have sh*t myself but i do notice that if i cough or sneeze my hole pushes out so if i am gassy I may fart but it is quieter and doesnt happen that often.
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God may or may not actually exist, so it/she/he/they didn't intend anything. probably. there could be an evolutionary reason for such a desire? it's probably not as uncommon as one might think, since it's such a private thing and forums like this are public.
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I tried it unsuccessfully. Very painful, even with lots of lube and patience.
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ive been into analfisting for over 25 years and have been doublefisted by both women and men over the years and am looking forward to do triplefisting(yes 3 hands in one ass at same time)in all those years i NEVER had to go to a hospital or doctor in relation to this awesome activity(its the best!)

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It's extremely enjoyable.
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What a bloviating bag of meaningless word salad hot air nonsense you are. Why do you bother trying to use the English language at all?
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my grandad use to say the only way to push sh*t up hill is with a wheel barrow..
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I'm not gay, but I do enjoy anal play. I have a fiance who enjoys playing with my ass. See have played lots over the years. The first time anything went up there it was bit uncomfortable but also very enjoyable. The more we stretched it the more I could take. The first time I was anal fisted, my fiance started with one finger. Then two then three. By this time I was really into it and just said "more" and she put the fourth in. I was pretty much going crazy and said "more" again and so she pushed her knuckles in. By this time I think she knew where it was going and pushed and pushed. It was difficult but highly erotic and eventually her whole fist slipped in. It was amazing! After, there was a little blood because the skin had stretched a little too much. Something called a minor anal fissure. But those are no big deal. Some gentle care thwy are easier than hemorrhoids to clear up. Now I get fisted 2 times a week. No blood. Afterwards there is no leaking. Within 5 minutes of finishing thing are pretty much back to normal except I can often feel a little bit of bruising that goes away after a day or two. I have been doing this for almost 8 years now and nothing has been going wrong. A lot of those warning you hear of people saying "DONT DO IT, INCONTENANCE, DIAPERS, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!" these are rare cases and often come from rushing or trying too much all at once. Take thing slow. Our bodies are adaptable and fix up pretty well as long as we give them time. Just don't go shoving a fist up there and pounding away at your sacral nerve and you should be good. And if something hurts, STOP! Which is what you will want to do anyways so just listening your body. Best of luck to anyone who tries. I can only speak to guys here (not having a vagina myself I cannot say anything about the female experience) but the prostate is a seriously fun thing. If you want to try it, try. If you are thinking "only gay guys like anal and I'm not gay!" I say two things to you. Being gay is okay, be who you are, gay or not. And second, just because you like pleasure from the prostate doesn't make you gay. It just means that you like pleasure. And really, who doesn't:p any guy who avoids anal play because he is afraid is missing out on one of the most pleasant sensations of his life.
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I'm gay and I have enjoyed anal sex and fisting a lot, but after so many years, it's been like 20years of bottoming and 12 years of fisting i would say, i've noticed loss of anal sensitivity. I barely feel anything now and don't enjoy anal intercourse anymore. The damage is that from repeated pressure against the rectum lining, the nerve signals you used to get will diminish over time until void. Many adults get the same anal loss sensitivities due to hardening stools having the same pressure against your sphincters, we're taught young by society to supress the urge to go to the bathroom, that would explain why some people who tries anal sometimes don't feel much and won't enjoy it. Some jobs makes it worse , those without immediate bathroom priviledges like bus driving, standing up many hours for security, etc etc.

On the other hand, this anorectal nerve damage i believe was accelerated by my consumption of poppers, anything that affects nerve sensitivity may impair the rectum's enervation. My advice all in all would be to learn to not use such products, and if you do anal sex in any forms, fisting, don't do it too often. Also try to go to the bathroom ASAP or it will affect your rectum's nerves.
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PS:
I forgot one thing, many food allergies may irritate the health of your rectum's lining, affecting the enervation of it, make sure you do not consume anything that irritates you, in most cases of adult incontinence, that would be gluten, dairy products, and all grains(rice, corn, wheat, barley, rye etc.) In my own experience eating these I would ALWAYS have some kind of a burning defecation during my enemas Pre anal play, which of course affected my rectum's linings and nerves.

Once the nerve damage has gone too far, you can't feel anything anymore.... I wish I've knew all this, I would basically fist myself every night with poppers.
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