Wet your finger with your saliva and then slowly manipulate your clitoris.Keep your finger wet if you are getting wet in your vagina take your juices and spread it over your labia take your time.Eventually rubbing your clitoris a little faster.Look at your self in a hand held mirror showing your reflection of your vagina as you finger yourself.
Because watching porn to bring yourself to orgasm all the time ban train your brain to react to only that stimulant to get aroused rather than actual sexual contact.
After using porn to masturbate to from an early age guys can find it hard to gain or maintain an erection and even ejaculate during actual sexual contact where as females can find it hard to get aroused and produce enough vaginal lubricant making intercourse painful and also find it hard to reach orgasm during oral sex or intercourse.