large labia minora - is it normal?

i,m a guy and i love large labia lips. very nice.

I was also always insecure about my rather big inner labia, and just like others, as i read, its also a reason for me to be hasistant about having sex. However, I did had this bf which I was showering with and I always tried to hide my Labia while showering but aperently not enough and he asked me ''what that was'' when he saw it.. well that was pretty much emberassing. So i assume ill never get over it anymore now X)

 

He obviously inexperienced...don't let his lack of experience with women dictate your confidence. Tell him "It's my luscious lips, hopefully you know what to do with them"

You'd better have a stellar penis and be good in bed, by an experienced women's standards...sounds to me like you haven't got much experience. Everyone likes something different...you'd better hope that your penis is up to par if you're going to be like that.

p***y is the beauty mark of the current generation.  More teenage girls are hitting Mom and Dad up for plastic surgery to trim their long labial lips than are asking for boob jobs.  I’m sure many women would love to show their stuff in public if it were legal. That may be a way off for most women, but its coming. If you can’t afford the surgery, some women are able to do interesting tricks with their long lips.  One woman stretched he lips and pulled them to the outsides, so that her p***y looked like a reddish pink flower.  I could go for that.

It's absolutely normal. Being a guy I'm going to be open with you regarding your concerns. I'm sure you're quite stressed out and its weighing on your shoulders like a hippo. I srongly believe that you should refrain from sex and not worry about the looks of your genetalia until you're at least 18. But, for the sake of your concerns and anxiety I can tell you thatI've been with quite a few women and I can say with all confidence 8 out of 10 women have had protruding labia's. I myself, find them sexy as most men do. Once again refrain, ignore! It's natural and beautiful :)

Hello. I see that this is an old post but I wanted to respond for other girls in your position. I am a 25 year old man with healthy sex life.

 

Large labia minora are some thing that I like quite a bit and I know a lot of other guys do too. That being said every one has there own preferences that they have to reconcile with reality.  Further still all bodies are different. Take note of the finger print or patterns in the iris. At the end of the day both people need to be ready to work with how the others sex organs look and feel. It's an essential skill for having happy relationships and grows more important as bodies age.

If your a young women and don't think your body is up to par because it doesn't look "normal" I have a weird suggestion. Check out amateur porn sites. Yeah I said that. Look around for whatever slang name there is for the part of your body you like the least and check out how popular it is. (Just don't think that the sex acts you see there are what you have to do to satisfy your partner!) Vagina's that wouldn't find their way in to play boy or other popular outlets of porn are highly sought after on the Internet. The same goes for the rest of the body.

You can think of porn the same way as any entertainment industry. The industry knows what will sell so they stick with that. After long enough people think that what ever is being sold the most is normal and there for correct. The porn industry trickles out into mainstream societies views of normal and image problems fallow. At the end of the day unless your sex organs are causing you pain they came out just right. Even if your partner isn't use to how you look at first in a short time he'll either stop noticing or become aroused by the uniqueness.

Quick FYI: Uncircumcised penis are equally lacking of uniformity. The only reason penises look more or less the same is because they are cut to look that way at birth. If you pay attention though you'll find even circumcised penises also vary in appearance.

Hope this helps you see your body is pretty much awesome!

It's perfectly normal and it's sexy. Trust me I'm a male.

I'm 18 which has nothing to do with what I'm going to say... But I have large Labia... I know you say guys don't care but a guy I dated broke up with me and told everyone he talked to that my p***y lips looked like nasty loose cow utters and it has been two years and I am still called "utters" till this day. So if guys like them so much why am I made fun of for them. This is not being said to make you feel insecure but more as a if what you say is true then why did he find it so gross he had to spread it to every male he talked to?

I am a 19 year old woman, with this exact same problem, large labia minora. I am self consious about other people seeing it, and have remained a virgin becuse I am terrified of what someone would say when i whipped my panties off :P But being bi-sexual, i have no problem with other woman having it, i think other woman pull it off quite nicely. I only find it disgusting on myself. I dont mind putting my mouth on a nice lucious pair of lips, so to speak, but am terrified of having someone do the same to me. Wheres the logic inn that? HA oh well, im sure I'll get over it evetually, this post definately helped me out :)

It is amazing to me that women are so critical of themselves that it doesn't occur to them that if someone they are with sexually is unwilling to accept them as they are, maybe they are not worth having sex with.  Any guy that is worth it will value you as a person, not just as a perfect vagina.  Maybe that realization comes with age.  You will never be "perfect" to every other person on the planet, so expecting to be so results in nothing but inevitable disappointment.  The best you can hope to do in life is find the person who does think you are perfect for them.

For what it is worth, I found this thread while searching for porn with large labia as the search term.  So, yes, there are a lot of us guys who think it is incredibly sexy.

Also, the sexiest women out there are the ones who are confident and comfortable with who they are.

As for the guys who react badly or say something mean, it is an unfortunate fact that in this world some people are just penises and it is a waste of time worrying about them.  Their loss.

 

Can I just say thank you to all of you?
I'm 14 and this article actually brought me to tears. Mine is enlarged and I realized it when I was 12. I've spent the past 2 years of my life denying it's existence and fearing I had cancer, but I was too embarrassed to ask anyone.

It is perfectly normal my dear. Be proud of what you have and don't ever think it is unattractive.

Hello, I am 18 and i noticed mine about three years ago. To this day i am still self conscience about them and about how a guy will react. I have not had sex yet but i have fool around and always catch myself wondering how he will act when or if he fells it. this conversation and everyone's inputs are very helpful. now i just need to over come my fear. hopefully when im fiished researching i wont want surgery any more. thank you

Hey! I'm a guy & despite what anyone says, I find Vaginas beautiful, Large or small Labias. My gf has large minora lips & I love them :) Don't worry guys love them too!