Hi,
I'm 19 years old and I'm quite sexual, I've been masturbating )everyday) since I was around 10-11! I've never done anything with a man other than kissing and I'll only have sex when I'm married. However, I'm scared because I was with a guy and he told me that my clitoris is too big (that there's nothing more vulgar than a big clitoris for a man) and that I get too wet, which he said are not normal for my age and is a sign that I'm not a virgin. That really upset me, I come from a culture that values virginity as a woman's honour and family's honour and if it's damaged I can never get married. He said I broke my hymen and enlarged my clitoris too much because I masturbate too much... but I don't know how he knows my hymen is broken because I didn't let him go inside or put a finger inside, he just touched the top of my clit and said it's too big so he stopped. Has my clitoris grown because I masturbate so much and have I broken my own hymen?? Also, do men really find it that disgusting when a girl has a big clitoris?? I got so scared that they might think I'm not a virgin because of my clitoris size that I'm thinking of making it smaller...
and wotever u use don insert it verry deep inside your vagina , if you do that may be it is possible for your clitoris to become big
even my clitoris and hole is verry big i had 7 inches deep inside me.and i lost my virginity
hope this helped u :)
I just rub until I cum... I never insert anything because I'm scared it'll break my hymen!
Thank you for your reply :)
don't worry my culture''s the same. masturbation and ur hymen breaking has nothing to do with you masturbating, ur fine. that guy sounds like an inexperienced jerk. masturbation's actualy good for u, keep it up and dont listen to the ignorant men of ur culture
Sounds to me that he never had a female get aroused, or never has been with one. Tell him to stick with guys if he want's dry holes. Vagina's come in all sizes And the wetter the better.
Men love big aroused clits, knowing you are wet because all this means you are turned on and ready for more. A lot of women that have smaller clits have a harder time to orgasm. That was my case until I had mine enlarged... and no it does not happen from masturbating or from sex. It gets a little bigger when you are aroused because it fills up with blood just like a penis. Most men like this... again, because it tells them you are ready for sex.
So dont be ashamed or listen to a man that obviously knows nothing about pleasing a woman.
I masturbate (full orgasm) 3 to 4 times a day plus a multi-orgasmic nightly encounter with my loving husband.
So keep enjoying yourself and find a man that pleases you sexually or at least is willing to let you teach him. (I had to teach my previous partners on how to best get me off. )
i am 25 and still a virgin. i started madturbating since 18. i just rub my clit when i fee turned on then im good. no blood came out by rubbing ur clit. and i never put anything inside mine even my finger. so i know i still am a virgin. the difference only i got small clit. so whenever me and my guy meet soon. that would be a hell of sex lol
Once you'll have sex with someone , most probably you will come to know...as it will cause little bleeding then...
Dont worry mastrubation does not always breaks hymen...