These pocket pussies can cause long term damage to the penis and could cause it to fall off when you get older.
Just shower it helps distract you from the pain. at least it does for me anyway.
You are retarded
Looking at this jul 24 2020 at 3 am, been dealing with this since about 13 too. Omg finally someone with the same thing. Sucks it's not an answer to what it is but at least I have something to show my lady friend when I get the courage to get off the toilet and lay in bed.
It doesn't happen every time, but at this time in my life it only seems to happen after drinking. I usually try to keep my water intake close to my alcohol (just for hydration not this specifically) but drinking heavy then cumming has been the combo to put me here more times than anything else I can think of, it has to be the answer. Been tested countless times always neg finally something that seems to relate.
Also big second on the Advil/ ibuprofen at the first sign of trouble. After a few flares you'll know the feeling almost immediately after cumming what's about to come, so jump the gun. If it wasn't gunna happen (unlikley if you felt the signs) you wouldn't know the difference and if it was you saved your self the pain that would have come from waiting for the de-swelling to happen.
Cheers and stay safe.
It doesn't happen every time, but at this time in my life it only seems to happen after drinking. I usually try to keep my water intake close to my alcohol (just for hydration not this specifically) but drinking heavy then cumming has been the combo to put me here more times than anything else I can think of, it has to be the answer. Been tested countless times always neg finally something that seems to relate.
Also big second on the Advil/ ibuprofen at the first sign of trouble. After a few flares you'll know the feeling almost immediately after cumming what's about to come, so jump the gun. If it wasn't gunna happen (unlikley if you felt the signs) you wouldn't know the difference and if it was you saved your self the pain that would have come from waiting for the de-swelling to happen.
Cheers and stay safe.
Hello buddy. Thank you so much for this information. I actually made a doctors appointment with my urologist this week. This gives me some comfort before I have my doctors visit. RH
Hello everyone. I wanted to write here for all the future people that are searching the internet for this issue. There are many reported cases of this, but very few good explanations for the phenomenon and even fewer solutions. I've worked for some time to determine the pathology of this issue and I'm happy to share with you the actual cause of this issue.
What you're experiencing is an involuntary muscle spasm in your pelvic floor that is referring pain to other parts of your urological system; particularly structures in the penis.
Many men are susceptible to clenching their pelvic floor muscles throughout the day due to stress. What happens during orgasm and ejaculation is that the already tight pelvic floor muscles are contracting hard and it can cause serious irritation to the many nerves that run through the pelvic floor. The primary nerve is called the pudendal nerve and it runs directly through your pelvic floor. When the pelvic floor muscles are tight, they apply pressure to this nerve and the pain is referred to the penis.
Many men with this issue report that emptying their bladder prior to ejaculating can sometimes, though not always, prevent this issue from occuring. The reason a full bladder can exacerbate this issue is because the pelvic floor muscles must remain somewhat tight to prevent urine from coming out. When you are having pain and you urinate you may often find that the issue temporarily relieves itself during urination and then returns directly after urinating. This is because to urinate you're relaxing those pelvic floor muscles and it's taking pressure off the pudendal nerve. When you stop urinating you have to tighten the muscles to halt urination and the pain returns. To make matters worse, the muscles locked in spasm are applying pressure to your now empty bladder making it feel like you need to urinate still; even though your bladder is empty.
So now that we've discussed the pathology, we can talk about prevention. We need to figure out how to keep your pelvic floor muscles relaxed before and after ejaculation. Taking a warm shower, emptying your bladder, and being calm and relaxed prior to sexual activity helps a lot. Really focus on keeping your pelvic floor relaxed.
After ejaculation it's even more important to stay calm and relaxed. Don't immediately jump up and start walking around. Take some deep breaths and focus on relaxing those pelvic floor muscles. Stay laying down and calm for at least 15-20 minutes. Unfortunately this won't always prevent the issue. When you can feel the pain coming on head to the bathroom and make sure your bladder is empty. Then draw a warm bath and get in. Warm water has an immensely beneficial effect on pelvic floor tightness and often you will find that this immediately brings relief.
I hope this is helpful for the many men that deal with this issue. This issue is commonly misdiagnosed as Prostatitis by many urologists. If you'd like more information on issues related to male pelvic floor tension read a book called "A Headache in the Pelvis." It can help you understand this issue further.
Please note: Other underlying issues can cause similar symptoms. Please check first with your urologist to make sure you don't have any STI or other urological issue.
What you're experiencing is an involuntary muscle spasm in your pelvic floor that is referring pain to other parts of your urological system; particularly structures in the penis.
Many men are susceptible to clenching their pelvic floor muscles throughout the day due to stress. What happens during orgasm and ejaculation is that the already tight pelvic floor muscles are contracting hard and it can cause serious irritation to the many nerves that run through the pelvic floor. The primary nerve is called the pudendal nerve and it runs directly through your pelvic floor. When the pelvic floor muscles are tight, they apply pressure to this nerve and the pain is referred to the penis.
Many men with this issue report that emptying their bladder prior to ejaculating can sometimes, though not always, prevent this issue from occuring. The reason a full bladder can exacerbate this issue is because the pelvic floor muscles must remain somewhat tight to prevent urine from coming out. When you are having pain and you urinate you may often find that the issue temporarily relieves itself during urination and then returns directly after urinating. This is because to urinate you're relaxing those pelvic floor muscles and it's taking pressure off the pudendal nerve. When you stop urinating you have to tighten the muscles to halt urination and the pain returns. To make matters worse, the muscles locked in spasm are applying pressure to your now empty bladder making it feel like you need to urinate still; even though your bladder is empty.
So now that we've discussed the pathology, we can talk about prevention. We need to figure out how to keep your pelvic floor muscles relaxed before and after ejaculation. Taking a warm shower, emptying your bladder, and being calm and relaxed prior to sexual activity helps a lot. Really focus on keeping your pelvic floor relaxed.
After ejaculation it's even more important to stay calm and relaxed. Don't immediately jump up and start walking around. Take some deep breaths and focus on relaxing those pelvic floor muscles. Stay laying down and calm for at least 15-20 minutes. Unfortunately this won't always prevent the issue. When you can feel the pain coming on head to the bathroom and make sure your bladder is empty. Then draw a warm bath and get in. Warm water has an immensely beneficial effect on pelvic floor tightness and often you will find that this immediately brings relief.
I hope this is helpful for the many men that deal with this issue. This issue is commonly misdiagnosed as Prostatitis by many urologists. If you'd like more information on issues related to male pelvic floor tension read a book called "A Headache in the Pelvis." It can help you understand this issue further.
Please note: Other underlying issues can cause similar symptoms. Please check first with your urologist to make sure you don't have any STI or other urological issue.
I cured myself of this problem. It's your pelvic floor muscle being contracted. Practice clenching and releasing it. You’ve probably been clenching it for years through stress or anxiety. Once you can relax it normally, the burning will stop.