My 14 year old daughter having sex

I am a 15 year old guy and this past easter sunday my girlfriend,Tara,whos 14,was all dressed up in a cute pink,puffy easter dress with lacey socks and pink shoes and had a pink bow in her hair.Later on sunday afternoon we were alone and started kissing.I ran my hand up under her easter dress and she had plastic baby pants on and i brought her dress up and looked and saw they had babyprints on them.I asked her why she was wearing them,and she told me her gramma and mom had her wear them.I was quite turned on and rubbed her boobs and her crotch,then she got down on her knees and sucked me off! It didnt bother her at all that i saw and rubbed the babypants!

I don’t see the big deal. Let them have fun! It feels good. They don’t interfere with you and your spouse’s sex life.

As a catholic mom of a teen age daughter and son,i can tell you it is a real challenge! At our parish,all of the little girls,preteen and teen girls up to age 17 also wear the traditional white,poofy,knee length baptism dresses with the bonnet,lace ankletsor tights and the white mary jane shoes.For First Holy Communion and Confirmation [age 16] the white dresses and veils are worn with either the white tights or the lace anklets and the white mary janes.The white cloth diaper and rubberpants and white undershirt or camisole is the standard under garments worn under the baptism,communion and confirmation dresses.In the past it doesnt seem to matter to the teen girls in the 14 to 17 year old range who are baptized or make first communion or are confirmed,a few of them still act like s**ts and sneak off with teen boys and fool around! Ironically,in the past,it has been the teen girls in their baptism outfits who have been caught with teen boys fooling around!I just dont understand how these girls,dressed in their white outfits with the cloth diaper and rubberpants on under their dresses,symbolizing their purity of an infant,can sneak off with a boy and fool around! The majority of theteen girls who were caught with a boy were on their knees giving the boy oral sex and most of them were okay with it! What are these teen girls thinking? Our daughter was baptized at 15 and we dressed her in the white,poofy baptism dress and bonnet with the lace anklets and the white mary janes and did the cloth diaper,rubberpants and undershirt under her dress and both dad and i kept a very close eye on her the whole time.Her First Communion and confirmation were a year later,and she admitted to us that a boy actually asked her to sneak off with him and fool around,of course she refused.I guess it doesnt matter wether a teen girl is wearing her school uniform or her white outfit,they still can be slutty!

Times change and nothing you do can stop it happening specially when porn is so readily available now days and they want to try out what they see and read.

No need to criticize them. Why make them feel bad and/or destroy their sex life in later years?
There's a teen website called teen hut. I don't think you can join it but you can read some of the questions. I just wish I knew as much as they do when I was their age. It was practically criminal to be caught with a book that taught anything about sex. The years my wife and I suffered for that lack of knowledge are not replaceable. I also hate the word slutty being applied to a young girl.

I dont think you can stop what is going to happen. Kids are not kids anymore these days and instead of believing that your daughter should be ready before she has sex, try and be more responsible and make her PREPARED for the event. Readiness is NOT important as much as PREPARATION. People focus too much on readiness and a lot of young teen girls end up being pregnant because they didnt get the right advice. I dont mean encourage her but accept sex will happen whether she has a strict orthodox upbringing or not. This is called instinct and all teens want to have sex when they hit puberty. Many dont go on to have sex but a few will and it seems your daughter may be one of those who will experiment and explore. She has refused on this occasion but sooner or later she will go behind your back and have sex. This is NOT a bad thing. I think parents are in the dark ages wanting their kids to be pure fragile virginal flowers. That wont happen. Talk to her, discuss with her things like STDs and pregnancy and give her the tools to deal with, when she has her first and subsequent sexual encounters. I dont think slutty is the right word. That is too judgemental and unnecessary for something so natural, normal, biological and instinctive. I think, as a parent, you possibly are the abnormal one, who can't see beyond.
That concept of purity is no more. What is purity when the entire world has changed, evolved and there is so much porn, profanity and TV shows depicting nudity and sex in all shapes and forms. This is life unless you live in a jungle away from all social media and are happy living a primitive existence. You cannot have it both ways. Just prepare them so they come to no harm. That would be more responsible instead of calling younger teen girls slutty. That is an awful thing to say to a young girl. What is happening cannot be changed. The horse has bolted. The world is a very different place andI strongly believe our attitudes, the law and our social beliefs must evolve with the times.

Yes,it is so ironic that when the teen girls are baptized or make their first communions and wear the cloth diaper and rubberpants under their white dresses for infant purity,that they feel they have to give oral sex or fool around with their boyfriend.I dont know how these teen girls can let a boy see their diaper and rubberpants,let alone the boy rub his hands over them.

Yes it is quite hypocritical that girls do this! They wear the white dresses and bonnets with the cloth diaper and rubberpants under their dresses to be pure like babies for their baptisms,then they act like s**ts and give their boyfriends a blowjob! I have seen this happen at our parish,some of the teen girls at Easter vigil were dressed in knee length baptism gowns and bonnets with the lace socks and white shoes and had their cloth diaper,rubberpants and under shirt on under their gowns and i saw a few sneak off with their boyfriends or a teen boy,and secretly followed them and saw the girls get down on their knees and give the blowjob! How teen girls can do this while dressed as babies is beyond me!

Look, sex and religion are two totally different things. We foolishly intertwine the two and expect raging hormones in our teen formative years to pay heed to religious instruction, which may I add, is totally UNPHYSIOLOGICAL.
Sex and religion should be kept seperate. Just because a teen has sex does not mean she/he is unholy or going to be eternally damned. That is absurd. God made us and wired us to have sex. He never created us to then instruct us NOT to have sex and even if we did it would have to be within the confines of marriage. What a load of bull dust we teach our kids. No wonder they are confused and go off the rails.
PREPARE the teens. That would be the responsible thing. By preparing them it does not mean we are encouraging them. All it means and ensures, is that they are safe, if and when, they do have sex. That way they dont end up with problems and complications. Never tell a teen to abstain. Doing that would only make them want to do it more.

Hypocritical?? what a load of rubbish and how judgemental. Those thoughts and ideas are so out dated and old fashioned. We are beyond, far beyond prehistoric times.
Sex and wanting to have sex as a teen is NOT a crime and certainly nothing to do with religion. God created and wired us to have sex. Puberty is what you are talking about and that is the age when sexual desires abound, and the temptations are numerous.
So please save us the morality lecture.

So the guy told her he loves her. Let correct this. She does not know what love is, and neither did he. The girl plays just as much into the sex thing as she did—the reason why teens many times turn to sex because it is a physician thing. Parents of preteens and teens need to be on their toes to be sure their child's needs are taking care so they do not go to places they should not go. For example, a girl is caught by her mother's looking at porn. Why do girls look at porn? Because of they curious about the male genitals. The erection business, how a male masturbates, how they ejaculate. To see the sperm coming out of their bodies. Question: Where were the parents of that girl, where was the brother and sisters of that girl? If parents don't want their children to be somewhere or be with people they should not be with, then we need to start doing our job as parents. The reason why we parents get angry at our children is that we have failed as parents in what we should have been doing.

Sixteen-Year-Old girls think about sex and do it also. We have been taught it the males who push sex on to females. Let get real here. Females play just as much in sex activities as males do. Boys grow up doing what the mother says. Then as preteen or teenager because of what his mother tells him that he does the same thing with the girls around him. It very sick when mothers condition their sons to respond to us females. As a parent of sons and daughters that my sons have learned to say no to females. So are mothers real a good role model for their sons and daughters? No, because when you condition someone that is not good. 

You are also crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Girls have always been like they are today. It now out in the opening. All the lies and false information in the past it was boys doing it. No, girls were doing it as much. The problem with boys as they grow up that they do as their mother tells them. When they get to preteen and teen years, they do what the girl tells them; when everything goes down that the boy gets the blame. Our society tells us girls do not do sexual things, but that is a complete lie. One of the things teen girls do in babysitting is to sexual exploration. There is much abuse from females on the male child as there is abuse on a female child by males.

We all have been brainwash with lies after lies from our society. Society tells us that females do not do the same thing as males. Females are more sexually than males. We have been taught that males are more visual and get arousal, and that is a lie. Females get arousal with visuals. Another myth is males always touch females, and that is another lie. Females get as physical with a male. Walk around in public and see who put their hands on who—it the females who do it. Watch how females in society are touching the males and watch how close a female gets to his genital as she is rubbing on his pants legs. She cause him to get an erection in front of others.

If you want to continue to be the mother daughter duo, then you need to come to terms with the next phase of that relationship. Your daughter has become sexually active. There is nothing you can do about it. It's done. That being said, you can and should continue to guide and mentor her. Do not forbid her from seeing the boyfriend, because she'll just feel pushed even further away. Instead, ask your daughter what she finds fascinating about him. Remember, she is interested in him. Be her friend in that regard. Also, when she feels that you are concerned with her happiness, also throw in a little cautionary advice. Maybe even dissuade her from sexual activity again. Just be there for her, and you guys will get through this just fine.