Hi, 24 and with this big sexual problem – my bf has a small penis. Sometimes I think there is no condom small enough to fit. He`s great looking and fun and a really nice person, but I can`t orgasm with that SMALL problem. The size matters, what can I say? What to do? Should I tell him to use some products for penis enlargement?
Hi, guys with those qualities (good looking, all fun, nice) are sure hard to be found. Why don`t you just try not to think about his small penis and concentrate on something else during sex? I disagree with you anyway, the size is not important. More important things are sex technique, emotions, positions, foreplay, and all the other stuff. I have small breasts but my bf never said anything about that. How would you feel if you had small breasts and a bf who keeps telling you to go see a cosmetic surgeon?
Is physiology the sole cause of incompatibility?? Think about it. :idea:
it sucks i mean im not that big i thin im like 9.3 inches i just think im too thick 6-6.25 and my girl doesnt want to have sex with me im too big she says, we've tried everything slow and soft but she could never get used to it. and im only 5-8 i dont want to look for a girl taller than me what could i do
Hi, im 15 and my penis is only 3 1/2 soft, and 4 1/2 inches hard. I think that you should just talk to him about it. Or if your really unhappy just say sorry, and leave him, dont let him ruin ur sex life.
maybe try taking it in a different position. try getting down on your hands and knees like you are a dog. keep your legs together and bring your face and chest to the floor to where just your butt is up in the air. have him stand and enter you from that position. it wont make his penis bigger but you will be able to feel it more that way. while he thrusts deep (or not) into you use a vibrator on your clit. that might help you a little.
i dated a guy who had a thin penis once. it was aggervating for me also cause i would rather have width than length. the penis could only be 3 in long but as long as it is thick i'll make it work. we use to do it in the position i mentioned above. we were together for about 5 months then i broke up with him cause he was crazy.
he cant give me 12 inches but he can give me 3 inches 4 times! LOL
i dated a guy who had a thin penis once. it was aggervating for me also cause i would rather have width than length. the penis could only be 3 in long but as long as it is thick i'll make it work. we use to do it in the position i mentioned above. we were together for about 5 months then i broke up with him cause he was crazy.
he cant give me 12 inches but he can give me 3 inches 4 times! LOL
my new guy is fantastic with aural, anal, touch and just about everything exept his small penis, I dont mind that it's small but I feel its my fault that it is not hard, and its difficult to get it hard...does that mean he doesnt really find me hot, or does it mean that he is embarrased, and if if the latter how can I get him over that problem real quick?
My last partner (husband) had a very big penis and was good with it, it was always hungry for me, so to have a soft small one is a shock to the system. I really dont want to be sizeist. any advice??
My last partner (husband) had a very big penis and was good with it, it was always hungry for me, so to have a soft small one is a shock to the system. I really dont want to be sizeist. any advice??
no it doesn't mean he doesn't find you hot. some men have a hard time staying hard when they get real nervous. when he gets to where he feels real comfortable around you, you will probably notice a difference. as far as the size of your new guy, i would get some toys for the both of you. let him use it on ya
i dont see why people just dont be happy and love the person you are with size is nothing .there is more to your partner than just sex.just be happy some one loves you! %-)
in loving your partner, you want to make love to your partner. and making good love or even trying to dirty it up a bit matters. both of you need to be into it inorder for it to work. if it doesn't do anything for you then why would you even put out? i wouldn't. that is why you need to find something else to add to your sex life to make it better for you. when you two are having sex, us a vibrator or get him to wear a penis ring. that way it adds gurth even if it is to a small part of it. sex in a relationship matters. that's why people get bored with their significant other and turn to porn for arrousal or cheating.
about small breasts - I prefer them, for real - so yeah some guys do enjoy them more than average size / big size hooters.
I have trouble getting hard! My penis is so small, that I never want to have sex with a new girl. I usually try to get a girlfriend and not have sex until a few months in. Then they are always disappointed. Its so depressing. I've only had sex with three girls (one was a one night stand that never called me back after numerous phone calls) and the other two ended up hating having sex with me. Am I doomed?????? Any advise?!? Is there love out there for a nice New Jersey boy with a small member.....
Well I believe you should have an at least alright penis size and your foreskin shouldn'nt look like old man balls but hey dont worry guys there's alot of girls out there that like like penises. they say that it doesnt hurt and they feel more in control so find yourself one of those forger about the B that you're with and go have a happy life :-)
Small breasts are a lot different to a guy having a tiny penis. Foreplay and all those things are great - but please understand that a woman needs to feel fulfilled during sex - to feel a nice hard penis inside her to be able to orgasm - do you not understand this?
Sure nice guys are hard to find - that I will agree with - but good sex will help ANY relationship to survive - no matter what.
Sure nice guys are hard to find - that I will agree with - but good sex will help ANY relationship to survive - no matter what.
Try new sex positions, there are several of them perfect for gspot stimulation. sex toys can add to the fun too.
There is more to life than sex. If you relied on sex alone in a partner then your not going to be happy in the long run, you will have an empty void. A sex driven life is not healthy, it can cause problems and issues later on which ive had trouble with before and my marriage suffered for it, but im gettign it all sfixed up.
You need someone who will/can stimulate your mind, emotions, your soul and so on. Someone who can respect you and your body enough to over look sex as a priority and when you do have sex it would be another step in how you two feel about each other.
There is more to life than sex. If you relied on sex alone in a partner then your not going to be happy in the long run, you will have an empty void. A sex driven life is not healthy, it can cause problems and issues later on which ive had trouble with before and my marriage suffered for it, but im gettign it all sfixed up.
You need someone who will/can stimulate your mind, emotions, your soul and so on. Someone who can respect you and your body enough to over look sex as a priority and when you do have sex it would be another step in how you two feel about each other.