I need advice........... I am hopefully starting a relationship with a man i have met online. He has said he has a small penis 3" hard. I have read through the feed and agree with practically everything. When we started talking about meeting he told me his issue as he calls it and said that he is a virgin because he has always been afraid of satisfying a woman!!! I really like him and want to be open and honest with him.... He has mentioned that if we ever got together i would need a toy to satisfy me. I feel like he is selling himself short!! He says he has not even been with many women intimately because he thought they would back off when they saw how small he is. I need advice and someone to talk to but cant talk to my friends as i dont want this to be what they think of when they meet him!!
Hey Guys,
I need help! Im 22 and Ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year already. The sex has always been alright but not great. He never lets me see his penis, grab it, or oral. While having sex he orgasms too fast. We have never lasted more than 10 minutes in sex its always less than that! When he goes in me I feel like his penis is too small. I prefer him fingering me because even that feels better than when he goes in me. When he goes in me I lyterally dont feel much. The sex with him is horrible, but I love him. Hes so nice, a gentleman, trustworthy, he has by far the best boyfriend ive had. I finally brought up the subject last time we had sex because I got so irritated with him that he orgasms soo fast and I dnt get much out of it. So anyways I brought it up and told him that he orgasms too fast and im not enjoying it. He was ok with it and said he was going to "try and last longer" I dont know if hes embarassed of his penis or what it is. I dnt know what to do, do you guys recomend penis enlargement pills? Or for him to see a Dr.? to ask why he orgasms too fast? Please help I love my boyfriend and I feel like hes the one I want to marry but the sex is just not cutting it!
I'm in a similar sort of situation. I used to car a LOT about size but met someone who is so amazing that I really want to accept this challenge that his penis is thinner than what I am used to. I'm totally determined that we have great sex because we both deserve that. I've done research about positions that help a woman feel more. But also, his confidence is a big part of the equation. If you boyfriend doesn't even let you touch him with your hand, that's a big deal in and of itself. Tell him how much you love to touch him and make you feel good, that you love how he feels in your hand, etc. Boost that confidence. My guy also climaxes a bit sooner than I would like and he's well aware of it so we talked about it openly. We said we might try those climax control condoms because he wants it to last longer just as much as I do. See it as a joint effort, and not just about what you think you aren't getting. I've also heard that certain areas of tantra are good for male climax control. Also, get aroused as much as you can before actual penetration so that you're already close to orgasm when he's entering you. I've also noticed that if you play with a toy or if he makes you come manually/orally BEFORE sex, it makes you much tighter and the feeling is way more intense during intercourse. Work with each others bodies and work with whatever gets him in the deepest, and concentrate more on gyrating and rubbing around rather than the thrusting in and out. And once he is in the farthest he can be, it feels better for him to not thrust back out too far, just slightly, and to keep it tight and close to you and when he does thrust back forward, to do it really hard. Hope this helps. I totally know where you're coming from and open communication is key-- and that neither one of you blames the other.
Hey, I'm in a similar sort of situation. I used to care a LOT about size but met someone who is so amazing that I really want to accept this challenge that his penis is thinner than what I am used to. I'm totally determined that we have great sex because we both deserve that. I've done research about positions that help a woman feel more. But also, his confidence is a big part of the equation. If your boyfriend doesn't even let you touch him with your hand, that's a big deal in and of itself. Tell him how much you love to touch him and make him feel good, that you love how he feels in your hand, etc. Boost that confidence. My guy also climaxes a bit sooner than I would like and he's well aware of it so we talked about it openly. We said we might try those climax control condoms because he wants it to last longer just as much as I do. See it as a joint effort, and not just about what you think you aren't getting. I've also heard that certain areas of tantra are good for male climax control. Also, get aroused as much as you can before actual penetration so that you're already close to orgasm when he's entering you. I've also noticed that if you play with a toy or if he makes you come manually/orally BEFORE sex, it makes you much tighter and the feeling is way more intense during intercourse. Work with each others bodies and work with whatever gets him in the deepest, and concentrate more on gyrating and rubbing around rather than the thrusting in and out. And once he is in the farthest he can be, it feels better for him to not thrust back out too far, just slightly, and to keep it tight and close to you and when he does thrust back forward, to do it really hard. Hope this helps. I totally know where you're coming from and open communication is key-- and that neither one of you blames the other.
I have the same problem but he doesnt want to do anything to satisfy me, he only concerned about pleasing himself. He perfect in every other way. He also wont let me touch his penis or see it. He refused to do oral. He doesnt last longer than 5 minutes. I dont know why I have to put up with lame sex and I try to enjoy it and he doesnt even try to do anything to fix the problem, its like he doesnt think what I like is important.
About the whole penis size deal. It really doesn't matter about how big your penis is. I'm not sure the size of mine, but I know it isn't considered big. Every girl I have had sex with has always came back to have sex again and again. Ex girlfriends hit me up wanting to have sex and they got boy friends. To me, foreplay is probably number one. Then, is the chemistry. If he is feeling her just as much then its good. If you have to ask yourself ' Is she enjoing it? " then she isn't. next comes how long you last. You make her cum 11 times to your 1 and she will smile. If a small penis f**ks you and f**ks you for hours... your gonna cum