There's a lot to react to starting with the title. The title led me to expect that the boys had gone through puberty "too soon", meaning they were having to deal with having men's bodies, or at least reproductive systems while they were still boys emotionally. What we have here is a couple of boys who have developed a taste in women that would be more appropriate for men almost 3 times their ages. (More about that later.)
The writer (AKA - mom) mentions her boys having erections. Of all the things in this piece, this one doesn't bother me. It's not the least bit unusual for boys to have erections from the day they were born.
On the other hand, anyone who has the mindset that would make them a good parent would be extremely angry at the father/ex-husband who is filming porn in the same living unit where his sons are when he has custody. This goes against the principle of protecting his children's innocence. There may be only so much you can do to protect your child innocence, but this is doing just the opposite. Mom is also very angry at "one of the girls" who let her son suck her breasts. I wouldn't be so angry at her since I don't expect good judgement from anyone who chooses porn acting as a career, but that doesn't count for much, since she was already in prison by the time of the writing.
The damage we can see is that the boys are only attracted to women in their mid-twenties or older at the expense of having no interest in girls anywhere near their age. (Most 12 year old girls have women's bodies, so why aren't they good enough?) The mid-twenty women that they are interested in won't even look at them for another decade and a half. I hope the way of thinking they developed living in that porn-palace will go away in a couple of years so they can have something approaching a normal social life during their teen years.
(I couldn't help but notice that this dated back at least 11 years, so much of what I wrote in the future tense could already have happened.)
The writer (AKA - mom) mentions her boys having erections. Of all the things in this piece, this one doesn't bother me. It's not the least bit unusual for boys to have erections from the day they were born.
On the other hand, anyone who has the mindset that would make them a good parent would be extremely angry at the father/ex-husband who is filming porn in the same living unit where his sons are when he has custody. This goes against the principle of protecting his children's innocence. There may be only so much you can do to protect your child innocence, but this is doing just the opposite. Mom is also very angry at "one of the girls" who let her son suck her breasts. I wouldn't be so angry at her since I don't expect good judgement from anyone who chooses porn acting as a career, but that doesn't count for much, since she was already in prison by the time of the writing.
The damage we can see is that the boys are only attracted to women in their mid-twenties or older at the expense of having no interest in girls anywhere near their age. (Most 12 year old girls have women's bodies, so why aren't they good enough?) The mid-twenty women that they are interested in won't even look at them for another decade and a half. I hope the way of thinking they developed living in that porn-palace will go away in a couple of years so they can have something approaching a normal social life during their teen years.
(I couldn't help but notice that this dated back at least 11 years, so much of what I wrote in the future tense could already have happened.)