My husband hit me once and he has anger problems.

I am surprised to see that on every part of word women hit by husbands. I have same experience like u.but getting no way to deal with it.

I also have the same issue. I cannot share this problem with my parents or sister. They are having happy married life. If i stop this relationship i have to lose a lot and my family members will be humiliated forever. I do not what to do. I am just sick of getting beaten by husband.

Aww I feel bad

I have faced the same problem & now I gave him divorce. And I am feeling
Very happy now. He used to beat me like a dog. He always treated me like a servant, not as his wife. I want to suggest you give him divorce.

I agreed with you. We all deserve a decent man.

You can stay and risk losing your life. He will not change, it will just get worse and worse. Rather leave as soon as possible.

Leave him.. Don't make yourself fool.

Same this is the first time I have posted anything. My husband has hit me a few times know been together 8 years and married 6 years and have one daughter together and I have a daughter from a previous marriage and he has a son. He is a very angry person all the time. Our 6 year old even told him to stop being so angry but she is saying to me it is all my fault as he has manipulated everything to look like I am at fault. He abused my older daughter she has aspergers she decided to leave and live with her dad. I am so lost because most of the time he really is a good person but has huge control issues I don't have friends I can see and enjoy time with I love to have a few wines but that all of a sudden is I have a problem so he doesn't trust me. His first wife cheated on him and left him. I am so tired of abuse and being scared all the time of making a mistake.

Hi
Just wanted to ask you ...did you find a decent man..if yes ..where?..

Hi ..am also a victim of all ths grbage.my husband has crossed all limits of verbal abuse and once he slapped me badly and thereafter he usually threatens me to hit me hard..i kept quiet evrytime....bcz i have 2 years old girl and i cant ruin her life by separting...no idea what to do...my life s stuck!!

Except for 2 girls, my husband is the same. I been married for about 6-1/2 yrs and have a beautiful son. My baby love me so much and wouldn't let his dad come near me to hit me, he always stand in the middle, sadly he is only 5 yrs old. I feel sorry for my son to see his dad beat his mother up. I don't know what to do. I believe in God, I have asked Jesus to help with my situation and pray. I know God knows what I am going through and will help me. Believe in God, he will help u.

People, i am man, i understand what you all says, but the main think is you woman never try to find out what happen so he did this, ...
man are very emotional, but they hide it, they never show, when he is full he cannot control him self and blast.
Examples:
- It is very rare a wife buy some gift for husband, some say it is stupidity but this small things that men is interested
- man per nature (take note) wants good sex life but women never understand him, she always tired and wants to go sleep.
- Sex is beneficial for both, both feel good of it, but always men have to approach of a women, only (maybe) 0.1% of women approach of men
- if any discussion, after that, women never go say sorry, even if she have fault,
- is very rare that women have time to discuss with men about his business, try to understand him, talk with him with PATIENCE. We all understand that women have children to take care (they are more busy with children than men) but should always arrange space for both (couple),
- a man can spend 1 hour in a shop with wife (for her shopping), but inverse with never happen, so this make him think bad.

Just giving my example, i want that my wife keep me in touch when she is outside, whenever possible, but mine, almost forget me when she go abroad.
Keeping in touch it a way to keep feelings up.

My man betray a women, going with other girl, because she not satisfy fully a men with Sex. I am not saying that women are made just for sex, But man nature is like that, he cant stay long time without it, You can consult a doctor about it, it is not man fault but his hormones of sex make him behave like it
If you don't get food for some time, you will start behaving like rude to a person which did not give you food, it is just a similar example about how man feel when lack of sex.

Some man are brute, but some are understanding, But woman does not want to corporate with him. Sitting and talking is the best solution,

And you all knows well that many woman change man like everyday cloth,
Please sometimes you change position and think also his side

Have many things to say for the man side, but is ok,

Go away. They don't change!!

Even I had this kind of problem ,I have I kid of 6years old . In front of him only he beaten me. And used very abused language. I started bleeding very worst when he hit me.I don't know what is my situation my life for my faith it was love marriage.I don't want to be with him,I just want to be separate with him . But about my kid Iam thinking . Iam not born with silver spoon very much middle class family plz send any suggestion to me

I just read your post. I know it was over a year ago but was wondering if you were okay? And if the baby was okay. He did not respect you by hitting you. And it could get much worse.