My husband hit me once and he has anger problems.

Do a google search for Abusive relationship help Even though he is your husband is is committing 3 criminal offences that can lead to prosecution first violence against you second animal cruelty third rape even though you are his wife if you say no to sex and he forces you it's still rape. You need to contact a charity that can help you get out and find you somewhere safe to stay.

I am married for 2 years..my husband first fit me after 15 days of our marriage.we were travelling and argument started and he abused me when i did the same he slapped me but that was not hard.afterwards he said sorry and i also forgave him..but last week, we got into argument and he abused me and when i abused him in response he hit me so hard on my head..I started crying and I said I will also hit u, when I hit him he moved back so my hand just touched his head.and before I put down my hand he hit me so hard that , my rotator cuff inside the shoulder got injured.from last one wk I am having so much pain in my right hand. we went to orthopedic and he took x rays and suggested physiotherapy for one month. I have to suffer because of his anger and stupidity. after that incident, he said sorry many times.but that won't help in healing my pain. I feel very sad when I think about that incident. he hurted me physically and mentally too..I lost my parents 12 years back.I shared this incident with my 2 close frds but I like in US and they r in India..they tried their best to understand my issue n suggested me to stay with him and forget everything.he is behaving good with me but still my mind is not ready to forget everything so easily..I thought of leaving him but then I thought what would I do by going India alone n stay there alone n do everything on my own that too in such condition where my right hand is paining..so I am leaving with him.but I feel sad ,lonely. When he comes home from office I talk to him sometimes we watch movie at home only. I talk to him because if I will sit alone each and every day , I will go mad and more depressed n frustrated. I don't know when my hand will be ok. What to do..please suggest me..thanks

I am at the end of my rope. My live in boyfriend has spent the last 2 years verbally abusing, physically abusing and emotionally torturing me. He calls me the worst names, punches me, spits on me, tries to light my hair on fire. I tried to kill myself last year because he wouldn't stop telling me that I was a freak of nature and should just go die. He screams DIE DIE DIE in my face for hours straight. Obviously my suicide attempt failed but I spent 2 weeks in a coma and on life support. He found me unresponsive and called 911....after I recovered he told me that him saving my life was a mistake. I try to make him happy because he says that I make him do those things to me because I make him mad. But just tonight I thought I would try to have sex with him. Well he did his business but afterwards I lit a cigarette and he punched me hard in the back and spit in Mt face because he didn't want to smell the smoke. I am truly at my wits end and don't know what to do. If anyone can relate to this please email me

 

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run away from him belive me

My name is erika and iam pregant . my husband never understand s me and he sometimes hits me and i dont know what to do .

I was just hit by my live in partner an hour ago. I am reading through his text messages when I saw that he replied I miss you too to one his applicants for working abroad. At first I was afraid to ask him about it, because I know that every single word mistake I did he gets mad easily. He answered me in a nice way that it was just a joke, but I want to explain myself further why am upset with that text. He told me to stop already because he said he understands me but on a sarcastic way. I felt insulted because even though I tried to talk to him politely we always ended up fighting. I walked out instead to cool down. He followed me, and we started fighting. We always ended up like this. We were shouting to each other and said that if I dont stop talking he will punch me. I said go ahead that's what you always do. And he punch me fast in the head so many times without me knowing. He pulled my legs, while pulling my hair and tried to throw me outside. When I get into the floor, He choked me while kneeling on my breast til I can't breathe. He was cursing me so badly, saying that I provoked him to do that. He also got a pitcher in the fridge and throw the cold water into my head while pulling my hair............... so on.

I got fed up.... I apologized and cried and cried and cried. When he was able to calm down said sorry and changed my wet clothes....

He is a very responsiblr father and a partner to me and our 3 sons. He is very generous, he gives us everything we need. He always bring me out on a date, he's so funny guy. But..... when he's mad.... Bad things happens all the time.

Please I need someone to talk to, I hope there someone who could reply to me.

I am in the similar situation.

Kelly, I go thru the same thing and i honestly do not know what to do. If you get some good advice maybe you can share.

Ladies buy yourself a gun, take some self-defense classes and hit them back. Then separate and divorce and leave them for good. There's a real life out there, one where you are perfect no matter what and one where you are loved despite everything that stands in your way. All you need if a strong sense of self, confidence and God. Forget being unhappy with someone and go be happy with yourself. It's time we take a stand instead of asking others what to do because deep down you know it's wrong otherwise you wouldn't be here you'd be at home getting hit!

my husband was raised by great parents i gpt his in the hair line over 100 times (i counted) and now having a hard time seeing 3 days later?

im sticking around hoping he will just end me......at last!

you are intelligent, you already know the answer

Your children are learning the behavior daddy is showing them. Please for the love of your children and their future leave him. What your children see and hear is how they will interact in their future relationships. If you dont have any where to go call the cops get him out of the house. Get a dog, change the locks. you would not treat your kids the way he treats you nor would you treat your husband the way he treats you if you were stronger. Talking to him is not an option for you unless you want him to abuse you. ask God to guide and protect you. He will! Beleive me.

This is in reply to the girl who had her jaw punched. Hey don't feel bad I'm in a bad situation mine beat me down one night coming out of bt's in Doral he thought I was looking at somebody and when we walked out the door I told him I no longer want to be with him. He literally punched me and started to put my face in the dirt, I thought he was going to kill me I refused to get in the car I told him I rather eat dirt then to b with him❕❕ he held me down and punched me in my jaw he also cracked my forehead I also have pictures...i forgave him that was dumb now he managed to break my jaw about two weeks ago I am still healing and eating out of a straw I've lost 50pounds and can't eat solids for the next four months...he went to jail because the neighbors called the ambulance. Just be careful once you forgive him he'll think it's ok I have two kids with him n no contact,I can't sleep and am enrolling in self defense classes...ladies b safe please in one of those moments you can loose your life‼

My boy friend has beat me down twice badly.... The first time was at bt's he thought I was looking at somebody and then it began I told him I was leaving and on my way to the car he told me to get in I told him I hated him and walked of he punched me in my face and held me down choking me till I gave up afterwards he put my face in the dirt❕❕❕I thought I was going to die ...he was going to kill me I told him I rather eat dirt then be with you!! I forgave him ...worse thing I did.. This time we argued he beat me down so bad he broke my jaw I need surgery and am eating out a straw I've lost over 50pounds and am s twig the neighbors called the ambulance and he went to jail we have two kids please be careful I am taking self defense and I could of lost my life