My husband hit me once and he has anger problems.

I am Indian and even my husband is exactly the same. He listens to his sisters and mother and becomes maniac against me. He beat me so hard one day, that the neighbours called the police and
arrested him. Those women are lucky who have loving and caring husband. I cant divorce my husband as I have a 2 year old son and he needs both his parents.

I can't believe I am now in the same situation. Been married 7 years, together 16 years, and hit for the first time today. My husband has anger problems, and I have felt somewhat threatened once before (he shoved me once when we were late for a flight in China and we're arguing), but this is the first time I have been truly scared for me and my kids. He said he is sorry. I don't know what to do. I don't trust him. I am planning to barricade the kids and me in a room tonight (we are visiting his parents in denver now), and I will take the kids to a hotel tomorrow. It's our daughters 5 year birthday today, and I am trying not to let on so it doesn't ruin her day. What do I do??? I scared.

My husband hit me.

Even i have the same problem

Same thing happened to me last money... my husband and I started dating 3&1/2 years ago. We got married in 2016. We had gotten into an argument on my way to work. Long story short, I wasn't talking to him and I had a serious look on my face so he said (what u don't think I'm funny.... laugh Sandra laugh... Come on laugh at me) he was mad an serious but joking at the same time so I started laughing then he hit me in my lower jaw. I never expected that from my husband that broke me. I busted out crying my a** off then suddenly, my moms picture came to mind; so I stopped crying in a quickness. About 20 mins passed and we weren't talking then I started a conversation and acted like nothing happened... I hugged him and kisses him like nothing happened even though I was dying inside. Later that night, he tries speaking about it I told him to drop the issue. Exactly 1 month later he hits me again in the same exact spot because "I was looking over his shoulder as he was driving" I hit him back in his face and he hit be back 10x harder in the back of the head. I started crying my ass off then once again stopped suddenly. I acted normal... it's been about 3 weeks after the last incident and my head hurts everyday. He always threatens to hit me cuz "I'm acting up" idk if I should leave him or see if things get better.

My husband has major anger issues!hitting pushing hand twisting...it's all very common. But the thought of staying away from him scares me.he controls me ...bosses me and though I'm having his third child now he still doesn't understand me.I still live in this hope that one day he'll also love me the way I can love him.I know he's not a bad guy but he has major anger issues..so do I. ...getting a third person involved never seems like a good option....but he really doesn't care how much physical and emotional pain he causes me..
...I still wait for the day when he would return to me and say sorry...and I pray I would have the heart to forget everything..

My husband loves me a lot but when he gets anger he hit me once I often telling him not to do like the but he is repeating the same again and again what to do

You cannot feel bad it was his fault if you had issues with your marriage you could work them out without resorting to physical harm

My husband too has anger issues and hits me anytime I stand up to him.

He needs help but like a alcoholic you must admit you have a problem before it can be treated.

My husband push me down and broken my two toes

Hi I'm.facing same things since last 3.5 years of marriage I have a 16 mo daughter too I don't understand he keep on hitting me here or there on silly small issues when fight and slapped me 3rd time.on my face after having 3 pegs down dont understand should i tell.me parents about it and leave him.and go because dey k ow about past actions also don't know ...I stay unhappy from.inside I alwaus try to.become.posotive after every such action but this time I'm.thinkinh not to give chance and go back to.my mom's place

I've been with my husband 10 years... Really I was just a kid when I met him. But I grew up in a house with a bunch of brother and a bull of a father - strict Irish Catholic. My husband and I get in arguments, if I strike him, I assume he'll strike me back... If he strikes me he knows he'll get struck back. It never happens out of the blue, he's never over bearing and I feel completely safe with him...but we treat eachother as equals and everything that entails. I get told alot that it's unhealthy etc... But I don't think so, in fact we have one of the healthiest relationships Ive seen... I'm not saying it's for everyone, my husband and I are best friends and I know if anyone ever attacked me he'd lay down his life for me. If you believe his striking is a result of alcohol... Maybe bring it up with him see if you can make him realize the difference in his behaviour, or if you feel unsafe, afraid of him etc... That negates the whole point of being in a relationship... And you should end it.

So true. I am going through the same situation. I am married to a indian pujabi husband and we have been married for 6 years. My parents came to our house in united states for first time. He hits me badly and also my dad who is 62 year old a diabetic and booldpressure patient. He did that as me and my husband had an little argument over our kid behaviour as a mom i was concern about my girl as she (5 year) kicks me and he doesnt says anything. My dad step in and told not to support the kids in such unexceptible manner that made him angry. We both work fulltime as an engineer. But he and his family are more concerned as they staying her with me for 4 months eating his food which is waste of so much money over my parents. My parents so many stuff from india for us and also they spend so much here by themself. Due this argument and he always saying me about thier food so much eating and all i was mad and stop talking to him. It was 4 days without talkiing and then on 5th day he started arguing and abusing me and started hitting me and when my mom dad started protecting me he started hitting my dad and also giving bad words. My parents have left to india they stayed 2 months with me. I am thinking of now leaving my house and go to apartment with my kid. I want to see if this makes realise things and makes some differences otherwise i will divorse him. He never helps me in household chores, neithier for kid school or study and he always want to control me and xontrol my finances. He never want to spend a single penny on my parents or my siblings for any gifts, but he excepts them to give him gifts all life. He thinks himself has a smart ad intelligent guy and me as a dumb wife all time. His parents have always misguide him and always put me as daughter in law is just like a servant.Please guide me

I am in same situation. I am having a 5 year old girl . Did you took any action was it helpful please help