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Too many people throwing the word "racist" around.

Sounds like the parents of the obnoxious kids were wanting to come off as victims---"Oh, poor us. We are being treated badly by the neighbors because "they" are racists."

In reality they should have been thinking---"Oh, we should realize our kids are screaming at the top of their lungs and it's probably bothering other people so let's have some consideration for others and ask our kids to quiet down a little."
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My parents have the same issue with monster like children who seem to scream for no reason. Between them my mom and stepdad have 6 children. We would all play in our yard nicely and the neighbors all liked us because we behaved. Screaming the entire time they are outside isn't normal so there's no need assume this author of this question has no experience with children. I have a master's degree in elementary education and children like that are treated for behavioral issues. Parents should take responsibility and teach their children manners and how to play like normal children.
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Talk to responsible around in tgat home, its childrens right to play but they must play under guardien
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The children next door to me act like animals. No discipline and scream all the time. Children at play are one thing, children making noise and fighting is another. I asked them to please be a little quieter and they called me a b***h! Ten years old and less. The mother tells them to make as much noise as they can in retribution for me putting up a fence. I can't wait until they get tired of this stupid game

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The bad thing is, there is nothing anyone can do. Ignoring it is hard, but it's the only thing to be done.
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I tap myself on the back to come up with the same advice you gave about stopping the noise. My neighbors are like me, from 3rd world countries, but I'm considerate and they are very uncivilized; they have no care to bothering their neighbors. They left the entire house and went lived in the balcony few feet away, the screaming 1 year old, the mother, the father, the grand father and grand mother, speaking foreign language all day long with loud sound and the little 1 yr old never stop screaming. I've tried screaming once at them, giving them the look, hoping they will cut it out, but no avail. Because I am a human being and deserve to enjoy the warm weather (snowy winter months here are very long), I decided to take an action. I brought my speakers, directed them to the window and every time the scream continues, the speaker get turn up higher and higher, and to my surprise, it worked! They stay less in the balcony, complain to other neighbors and pointing at my direction, but I got to enjoy little peace.
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I have the same problem. It's not just screaming - that is infrequent but usually like a whooping scream as the little brat has been running around the flat for the last 30 minutes solid. We live on the ground floor and our neighbours live on the floor above in a one bedroomed flat with their 5ish year old and baby. I expect some noise but it's not helped by the fact that the mother upstairs is too lazy to entertain her children (the father is mostly at work). On some weekend days I have noticed that they have not left the house apart from 20 minutes to visit the local shop. The brat runs around for hours on end, jumps on the bed, drops things and the woman screams at him from across the house. She clearly doesn't have any control over him before as every time she shouts he just carries on whatever he was doing anyway. He's even thrown her credit cards into our back garden. If that's a personality probably better not to have one. Not the best when you are trying to study for an accountancy qualification requiring passing 14 exams. Can't even escape into the garden as they always have the windows open so you can hear them, the kid stares at us out the window which is even encouraged by his mother! And worst of all they keep blocking our shared drain and sewage is leaking into our garden. In my opinion people should be assessed and sterilised if they don't meet certain criteria. People only want kids to feed their ego with a little mini-me anyway, otherwise why wouldn't they just adopt.
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I am living in apartment house near big kindergarten.I never liked children screaming and high pitch noises they make and cannot take it anymore. High pitch screaming when I have hyperacusis takes two times in a day. When they sent out for hour and half and then in evening when they are picked up by their parents. I dont have children so I dont know if the teachers are not doing enough to stop their screaming or at least limit. Anxiety drives me to anger I get thoughts of coming down and making them to stop the screaming. And there is nothing to be done. They will show up everyday except holidays and there is only few hours of silence. Rest is screaming. I have very fragile temper so I should totally move away from this place, but have no money to do so. I am from Europe, and they cannot control the kids nowhere. And my country has almost enforced children loving culture and state calls to produce more, while in economical and natural sense too many children and overpopulation only brings calamities in long time. Example is Middle East and African states. People should be encouraged to employ birth control and if they do make children they should be kept in more control. They do as I want attitude, and I get everything for nothing in return is not as I was educated. This attitude is disastrous, as wars, social breakdowns and climate disasters happens and will happen and these children with such attitude will not survive.
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Then shut your windows and stay inside if you can't dicipline your children maybe you shouldn't have 3 of them.
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Obviously if you'd applied proper discipline then your kids wouldn't be unruly most of the time. Kids don't tantrum constantly unless you were lazy teaching them to behave as they grew and took the stance that 'kids will be kids'. 3 years teaching will certainly teach how children ahould be progressing. respect for the peace of everyone around you might just earn you patience for some tantrums but not 24 7 leeway to disturb the rest of the world. My niece is severly autistic and doesnt scream and misbehave all the time because she has been taught how to behave. I notice most families who dont care what their kids do dont have happy children. Id bet my life savings they wont be doing well in adult life with such a sense of self-entitlement and lack of self-control.
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Well, unfortunately, it looks like Trump is not going to be 'literal hitler' so. little kids will keep screaming and big kids will keep terrorizing the rest of the citizens instead of being socialized hy hitler youth or liquidated in hitler camps. Looks like we are stuck with millenial crybullies until they drive us mad.
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Oh,,don't knock on the door and ask the parents to keep their kids quiet...THEY GET OFFENDED and don't understand why after 3 hours of non stop bounding across the floor at least twice a day equaling 6 hours a day--at three hour intervals between naps, running, squealing, tackling, pinching, each other without a stop gap why they should bother. They are completely offended...and should you have to put up with their noise..well because well they are children...and as an adult you are supposed to put up with them..no matter what. BS
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I have the same problem and I'm studying for my GCSEs I'm gonna try scaring them into shutting up, the kids near me are so bad I keep my blinds closed all the time because they look through my window and throw stones at me. I've had enough and if they don't stop me I'm going to get arrested for assault. It's not fair to me or the others that I know that live near me that are also studying for their GCSEs.
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Pray to God about it give it to Jesus sit down with your kid and teach him or her about God it worked for me
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Every town has a noise ordinance and it is usually a 10 pm limit. What you are going through is very unreasonable. If the landlord and the Tennant won't help with this call the local police and complain. It may take a few times to get some results. Or you can move. Your choice
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