my neighbours kids never stop screaming!!! Driving me insane

Hello,
Don't expect others to behave good to you because nobody is nobody's here. So if you irritating then go and ask them to stop noise or otherwise make a complaint of them...

Usually the pattern of inappropriate behaviour exists because the parents also believe the same behaviour to be appropriate and model it or ok it for the children. Inconsideration and obnoxious people breed inconsiderate and obnoxious children as a rule, then expect the schools to fix things without them having to be bothered or get angry at the school. Fortunately, the schools can call the police when parents scream at staff.

I can't defend parents who don't parent.my neighbours kids scream and shout form 6.30am the parents encourage it, i asked at 6.30am if they could stop he told me to get lost get a life.I asked politely now they remove thing sout of the bins and put on floor on purpose. the kids hit naimals with sticks father is abusive shouting.They encourage the violence council do nothing I have complained every day about 5 times they say just kid splaying nothing we can do. Really when it's 6.30am and screaming...this is bad. I dont want to hear the ball at moment hitting the dustbins the father kicking it so hard it vibrates and bounces off doors. She is a girl why si she shouting goal? I guess she wanted a boy. I have rported fmaily to child services because the daughter shouted about him abusing her guess wht council did nothing police didn't either. typical.The son makes whooping noises and wails like the dog too. at 6am he knocks my door says wake up. So i threw a bucket of something out the window justic served. will do t again if they dont get lost

I understand fully where you are coming from, I was woken this morning by my neighbour screaming and I mean screamingat her 9 year old son and it is now an hour later and he is still screamig this happens at least once a day and yes to any posters I do have 4 children myself so I know what kids are like just think she and him should stop screaming at thier kids and start listening to them, this screaming tantrum will continue for at least another hour

While you say there's hateful people on this site, I respect my neighbours as I live in a residential area, I don't create noise that would be unsuitable for my neighbours. I get up for work at 4:30 each day and come home around 6pm, I don't think it's unreasonable for me to want to sit on my deck/patio and relax when I come home or on the weekend. I had family from the UK over a couple of weeks ago (the only time we had sat out because we had been away) and we had to contend with my selfish neighbour (wouldn't be the 1st time for me) blasting music so loud I had to call her 3 times before she even heard me. She's around 35, her mother was visiting at the same time and never said anything to her (what chance do we have ) or her kids of becoming responsible kids - it's a shame) She got a phone call and had to go into the garage to speak to the caller with one finger against her ear. You tell me who's the hateful one here!!! She has two cute boys that whenever are outside and maybe with friends just scream most of their time playing, it really isn't necessary. They just don't talk to each other they scream and yell. It's not ALL about children and before you say anything YES I have had a child and I would not have tolerated this behaviour. Same neighbour has a cat which she allows to roam (in Canada it is law that cats are tied to long ropes and on a pole to keep them on their own territory) why should I have to clean up after them. I have dogs and would never allow them to walk on other peoples lawns let alone anything else - it's called RESPECT!!! I might add I've had to call the cops a few times (wasting their time) for the noise after hours at this home. I do live in a nice area it's people that spoil it. Cheers!!

While you say there's hateful people on this site, I respect my neighbours as I live in a residential area, I don't create noise that would be unsuitable for my neighbours. I get up for work at 4:30 each day and come home around 6pm, I don't think it's unreasonable for me to want to sit on my deck/patio and relax when I come home or on the weekend.

I had family from the UK over a couple of weeks ago (the only time we had sat out because we had been away) and we had to contend with my selfish neighbour (wouldn't be the 1st time for me) blasting music so loud I had to call her 3 times before she even heard me. She's around 35, her mother was visiting at the same time and never said anything to her (what chance do we have ) or her kids of becoming responsible kids - it's a shame) She got a phone call and had to go into the garage to speak to the caller with one finger against her ear. You tell me who's the hateful one here!!! She has two cute boys that whenever are outside and maybe with friends just scream most of their time playing, it really isn't necessary. They just don't talk to each other they scream and yell. It's not ALL about children and before you say anything YES I have had a child and I would not have tolerated this behaviour.

Same neighbour has a cat which she allows to roam (in Canada it is law that cats are tied to long ropes and on a pole to keep them on their own territory) why should I have to clean up after them. I have dogs and would never allow them to walk on other peoples lawns let alone anything else - it's called RESPECT!!!

I might add I've had to call the cops a few times (wasting their time) for the noise after hours at this home. I do live in a nice area it's people that spoil it.

Cheers!!

Nobody has mentioned our c**p nutrition and that their brains are screwed from hormones , chemicals , dyes let alone the fact they are not eating raw or organic anything. This also applies .Jus Sayin !

my neighbour is insane she treats her children like she is training them for THE ARMY the other day I saw her making her 2 children walk along the edge of a bridge no joke but on the side not facing traffic and below is an archway. wow I'd have loved to have photographed it and sent to the cops. Today they are screaming like they are doing army manouvers it's insane they woke me by telling this "Good morning neighbours wake da f... up." Aren't theyw onderful children and the parents also hold swining parties so I have to hear that also. it's a nightmare police turn up raise eyebrows and have said I must put this forwards. because i ocmplained they make sure when they are at week ends a Sunday they are noisey a day of rest they call a huge game of fottball kicking a ball at dustbins till they open and oh yeh they even un do the bins and empty rubbish on the floor when they feel like it. Does the council care nope.
that to me is just bad parenting and a need for the parents to realise kids don't need to scream like that or be told to scream either.

this is what i did wrong, I went round 6am politely asked if they would mind not screaming at 6am. parent said it's a hot day I f... do what i want and the kids are hot so yeh we are having them in the plastic pool and yeh they can do what they want i lived here 30 yrs if u don't like it move, everyone else has what's stopping you? if you don't leave will force you out got enoughf riends love so f... off and the kids smiled behind him shieled and sia yeh f of c....t wowzer"

I said" great to know you bring the neighbourhood down then, this is a nice area you won't intimidate me and yes if you threaten me with things again I won't tolerate it. I said im disgusted absolutely disgusted with this level of swearing 6am i come from hospital ask for one day if you could lower the noise and you all yell abuse.I actually then said this is clinically insane"

we have a small car park outside and they use a BBQ in the middle they even stuck a swing bed outside which all their erm...( men etc ladies from parites ./..erm well you get the drift it squeeks at 2am..)

totally gross ...and hate living here.. I am gradually selling my items going to take ages as im stuck where I am as I have ill health, but the screaming the dog wailing nosies they make to copy dogs and hitting my cat is beyond a joke, yes they hit her with a tree branch...the girl they teach to play mens games football and kick it off cars.

just a terrible family...with no use in this community other than to bully. worse part is the family is between 2 houses and they are travellers....who don't act like decent travellers and just say if you won't move we get people onto you.

that's just pathetic and ..well so far nothing just all hot air..and their drama.

Im sorry for parents who bring their children up well and that these families make it so hard for other's. My other neighbours children get upset as have to do as I do go out the front way and stay there. I have to yell at my cat not to go the other way round to the back of the apartments she gets very upset and I spend time trying to grab her before she can get anywhere near those who call her oevr and hit her...That is horrible.

I am not moaning at other parents at all I don't mind children playing at all it's normal but when it comes to such swearing the parents are telling them to do then it saddens me. I have rung council etc social services and said please intervene they are children not the next universal soldiers. is a wory when u see one sitting outside with a eyeglass and melting rubber on a baseball bat at 5 yeh 5 then you know they are really messed up. I feel so sad they have no idea there is something more normal out there.

other day one said mum...my teacher says you're a s***k and we get told off cos you sleep with everyone. she say you're horrible, all the mother's say it...why don't you f... off."

wish I could mute what i hear would be lovely .thank god for earplugs now I am starting to sleep. but my tv has to be loud much to my neighbours horror so, now it's making me the bad neighbour. sadly

I have twin 4 year old boys who can be challenging hence my looking at this website but we had to move from our house as our neighbour had a dog who would bark whenever someone went in to the backyard - even if we made no sound it just sensed us - it was ridiculous - give me screaming kids as opposed to a barking dog anytime - this dog was a rescue who was then left in the neighbour's yard every day (& sometimes night) on its own - the lady was intelligent and ran her own business - but somehow cannot look after a pet that has been abused before - thank god she doesn't breed!

Err no because that is what everyone is complaining about - that neighbours can hear the screaming children in homes / apartments - you might be wanting to refer to something like a 'padded cell'....which could be handy for yourself to occupy if you are that sensitive - the common thread that I can see with 'noisy kids' is that some perhaps have sensory or autistic issues - sorry that we cannot all be born perfect - does everyone like sitting next to you at work? - Perhaps you have some habits that they don't like.....

I can certainly sympathize with your problem as I have the very same issue.
I have three little girls living next door between the ages of to 3 to 7 who SCREAM incessantly the minute they step outside into our once peaceful neighborhood. Their screams are of the blood curdling kind. No words can describe them otherwise.
My neighbors and I have tried every possible way to let the parents know that their kids endless screams are outside the norm of child's play to no avail. Their little darlings can do no wrong, can scream all they want as far as they are concerned, and we are complaining "just to complain."
This is how I've decided to deal with it. The minute they hit the outside and attempt to break the sound barrier I put my stereo speakers in the windows and play my music at a level that drowns out the screaming shrills that permeate every pour of my soul.
And you know what? It worked, as I finally got their attention that my words couldn't. I know the loudness of my music has bothered them as they've shouted for me to turn down the music. They got the message that what goes around comes around and have made attempts to quell the little darlings, but not with much success. So I'll just keep playing my music....at least it has given me some peace of mind and lent some fairness into the situation.

I found a great way to stop kids from screaming. I spray Liquid Ass over the fence on their bushes... it smells rank, like a sewer line broke... ten minutes later silence...

if the parent brought there children up the right way,then they would not behave in this manner. we have kids next door and all they do is yell and scream.it is not fair on neighbours.i have spoken to them about my concern but still it carrys on. there are some wonderful children about so that means they can be taught to not make to much noise. we was taught at school that children should be seen and not heard.

The current generation of adults (by age) were raised by parents who did not discipline them and the results are now evident in deviant behaviour experienced in every area of society. As it continues in each generation, continued degeneration of positive values is inevitable. Seems to be what is valued currently is the new car, holiday, house etc and overriding self-centred and self-serving behaviour exhibited by 30 year olds who seem childish themselves.

Could be worse. Neighbors three doors down just moved in with a disabled (I'm assuming) teenage son that they leave outside ALL day and evening to scream, wail, chant and make animal noises. I can hear throughout my house. Driving me crazy. They usually bring him at 10pm.