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Ok, let me set the story for you. today around 11 hours ago me and my girlfriend took a shower together. We decided to have outercourse, or "dry-humping" in the shower. I laid down and she was on top of my penis which lays completely flat when I lay down. She was simply rubbing her vagina on it. I did not ejaculate at any time during this, however when I stood up, I realized I had pre-ejaculated BEFORE she even started to rub it on my penis, in other words, it had run down my shaft, so it was in the part that she was rubbing with her vagina. I did not insert it inside, and it was not in contact with the tip of my penis. Also the water was running this entire time on both of us, and the pre-ejaculatory fluid was covered with tapwater, which I heard can kill it very quickly, but the water was only luke warm. Could she have gotten pregnant from this? I'm so friggin' scared, i just need to know if I need to go and get the morning pill or not. Thanks.
No, i dont think so, in my honest oppinion, that if cum or even precum were to just slightly touch the out areas of the vagina, it is highly HIGHLY incapeable to get pregnant, and besides yes ur right the tap water played a pretty big part and its safe to say tht the sperm had a nasty accident, and it died.

you have nothing to worry about
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Me and my gf were having dry sex and we both had underwear on and she would rub herself on my shaft. Not sure if I had precum but if I did, would there be a chance of pregnancy if we both had our underwear on and I never came? I think there shouldn't be, but I was just wondering. Thanks.
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I would say that you both have nothing to worry about. Tho there is a slight chance of pregnancy thru pre cum, they are slim.
And the chances get even smaller in the way that you described.

To our guest who is really scared.
Don't bother with the after pill. (i wouldn't)

Have either one of you thought about birth control?
Wouldn't it be a lot easier to go about your business without having to worry about an un planned pregnancy?
Maybe even a condom?
Planned Parenthood is a good place to start. It is confidential. It is affordable (sliding fee scale) and they GIVE condoms away for FREE.
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Well thank you very much. You make me feel a lot better. And you are right, birth control would be a lot wiser wouldn't it? Well, I feel better, and I will definitely get on that so I don't have to worry anymore. Thank you so much for your help. I really appreciate it. Have a great day!
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i masturbated and ejaculated the night before and on the next morning i had sexual contact with my girlfriend but did not make sexual intercourse.. i was only rubbing my penis on her vagina. could this lead to pregnancy and also she is still a virgin. thanks.
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Your gf is still a vigin. She will remain a virgin until a penis is introduced into her vagina.
You have to be careful each and every time your penis comes in contact with her. (sexually)
I will say that you are safe this time.

If you two are having some close encounters, why not have her go on some birth control? Do you wear a condom? (even just rubbing)
One of these days it will be hard to resist, then what?
Try putting both of your minds at ease and really look into this.
You won't be sorry if you do, but you may be sorry if you don't!!!
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Many years ago, my gf and I were dry humping (no inserting of my penis. We were both so excited that I ejaculated all over her legs,stomach, and vagina... I deployed overseas and a couple of months later learned that she was pregnant. Them little dudes must have found their way inside of her and started swimming like salmon. Best way to to be safe if you dont want to become pregnant... have oral sex, this way he can ejaculate and you wont have to worry about pregnancy. o.O
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Did you check if the kid is really yours..(no dissrespect intended)because from what I read on this forum it seems that it's highly impossible that your lady can get pregnant while having dry hump intercourse.
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When I always in the shower why does water come out of the penis
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My bf and I were having dry sex he was wearing a condom and I wasn't wearing anything he was rubbing his penis in my vigina I'm still a virgin and I'm worried about getting pregnant
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