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i have been sleeping with this guy for a couple months now and he only puts a condom on half way thru sex....he never starts with one....i had a period but it was really really light spotting....
is there a possibility that i could be pregnant?
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i have been using the withdrawal method too and from all the articles ive read that talk about pre-cum most say that it can contain sperm and since you were having sex during her most fertile time there is a good chance should could get pregnant
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i'm thinking in the name of science and this forum i may examine some of mine. i have what is pretty much a toy microscope that goes up to about 300x magnification. should be enough to see sperm. i'll try and compare under different circumstances. no promises here, i'm not sure where i left it.
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me and my boyf were foolin around, and after masturbation he came.
after that, he urinated but later we had intercourse three times without any protection.
each time was about 5-7 minutes.
we have to wait 3 weeks until my next period,
what do u think the chances are of pregnancy?
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Well I was having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend, I had precum it was the same day as her period was suppose to start, we were first doing it with a condom but I wasnt enjoying it she let me take it off then I wiped my penis head with my shirt to remove any precum we continued to have sex for some reason I wasnt able to ejaculate so there wasnt any sperm that came out of me, later that day she has her period and now 3 days after her period she said she is having cramps and stuff, Im quite worried, I dont know if she can be pregnant but how I didnt ejaculate earlier so there wasnt sperm in my urethra I urinated before as well, She says shes having cramps and pregnancy Symptoms we havent done it after her period and I never ejaculated inside of her is this even possible?
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First off i am very scared and sad.. and guilty... I want this to be a lesson learned and not have god punish me for this.. but like my girlfriend gave me head and like an hour and a half later i didnt want any microscopic sperm going into her... because i dont know if it can still swim or some sh*t like that... i know i shouldnt be doing this unless i know what im doing but... anyway.. i washed my entire penis off with anti bacterial soap before i did anything... i even had some soap go into my "twanger" i stuck it in my girlfriends vagina seconds after for only a few seconds (we had sex for like 8 seconds long and then realized how stupid we are) no keep in mind that when i was trying to find the hole i was like circling my penis around her hole until i got it in... and i know if u are turned on then pre cum usually can come out of no where... and like what if my pre cum got rubbed on her vagina... my gf also got off her period 4 days before we had sex.. does that make things work? i didnt ejaculate into her im just scared of the pre cum... i was actually sooo scared (us both... were scared) that i went into the bathroom with her and took anti bacterial soap on my finger and started fingering her or my own plessure but because we scared sh*tless! We used every myth in the book like somehow getting urine in the hole my precum might have went in.. i dont know if it killed it but im just hoping at least the soap and water killed it or flushed out the little dot of pre cum.. my girlfriend is sooo scared she will not stop crying and i just want to shut her up.. soo please reassure me... i am only 16 and i have a long successfull future ahead of me and i dont need to stress about something like this.. please help me..
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the chances of her being pregnant are very slim to non. menstral symptoms are very commonly mistaken for pregnancy symptoms. i am pretty sure you dont have anything to worry about. I get cramps and other symptoms related to pregnancy like 2 or 3 days after i start my monthly. but it is a good idea to take a test in about 2 or 3 weeks.
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I agree, although you can still get pregnant from precum so you should be careful and make sure that you limit your exposure if at all. Does that make sense?
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I have a major problem, I had unprotected sex with a girl and she is now saying she is pregnant
when we had sex though I did not cum or even come close as I was really tired.
the thing is she thought I did and i never corrected her there and then.
she went for the morning after pill the next day.
She is now saying that she is 20 weeks pregnant and it points to me.
Without sounding heartless, I did some research and evidence says
that with the withdrawl method it has a 4% to 8% failure rate while using a condom has a 2% to 4%
failure rate. then the morning after pill will reduce this further by 89%.
statistics show that out of 1000 girls who have unprotected sex (not using any method including withdrawl) approx 80 will fall
pregnant, put the withdrawl statistics on top of that then the morning after pill statistics.
the likelyhood of it being my baby is almost nil.
I need help as to how to approach the sittuation
I also know the girl has slept with other guys within weeks of me
but she insists its mine.
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okay so me and my girlfriend had sex, with a condum and it didnt break we are sure, after i ejaculated later with it off, and nowhere near her vagina we rested for awhile and then after about an hour or so she had me slip it back in for three or four storkes w/o a condum. She has been on birth control for a very long time now, but went off of it the day we had sex, she has the patch but didnt have it on, im wondering if the could have made her pregnant or not, and ive read enough to know that it was a really dum thing to do but I wasnt thinking. So, if you have any ideas, it'd be real nice to hear, the morning after pill is going to go if I can get them. thanks.
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If you do that, then yes, you could totally have gotten her pregnant. The morning after pill is probably a good idea. and next time, please, please, please, lease leave the condom on! You don't want to have a baby just for two seconds of pleasure, do you? I'm not trying to judge, just point out fact. How are you doing otherwise?
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Ok people i will clarify everything
First of all, you are pretty safe.
Pull out method is not safe at all because the guy never pulls oout before dripping a couple of drops of cum inside a girl's vagina

Second of all, if the guy urinated before sex and pre cummed, the pre cum won't contain an enough amount of sperm to make you get pregnant People always say you need one sperm to make a baby. But you actually need millions of sperms. It is true that it takes only one sperm to go into the egg and make a baby, but most sperms get lost on their way to the egg. They need teamwork. If only one sperm is ejeculated it will never find its way to the egg. People will say they are pregnant of precum even if the guy urinated before. This is their misunderstanding. The guy will probably try to pull out before he ejeculates. But as i said in the beginning, guys always loses a couple of drops of semen before pulling out. But the guy wont realize that and if the girl gets pregnant, he will automatically think that the precum caused pregnancy. This is how the pre cum gets its bad name.

Third of all, urine DOES KILL SPERMS LEFT IN YOUR URETHA. most people think facts that they never heard arent true.

Urine is acidic enough to kill and washout the sperms that is left in the penis's uretha and leave the precum with no sperms in it. However, this does not work on the girl's side. Vagina has two different pathes. One for peeing and one for sexual intercourse. If the girl gets injected by a guy and pees right after, it wont to anything because they come out from two different wholes.

For the conclusion, if the guy urinates several times and pre cums and does not ejeculate, (if he is not even close to feel orgasm), then you are in a good shape. You don have to worry about it But ALWAYS! use protection!
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Ok I have a complecated but simple question. Me and this girl i have been doing things with lateley had it the other night. She had just gotten done her period (she clames). I used a condom but i dident cum at all. She got her thill out of it and i had to run to work. She called me tonight (3 days later) that she is feeling sick and feels like throwing up and clames she has crapms. After we got done i checked the condom (i have a complex about it) filled it with water and it was all good no dripping or rips. I had masterbated about an hour ahead but as i said i dident cum during sex. Could she be pregnent?

Take into account

We did use protection
The condom did not break
I did not cum
This is 3 days after sex she is having these complaints
She just got done her period a few days before sex


I did my reaserch on it and feeling od nausia is weeks into pregnancy
cramps are 8 to 10 days into it were on 3
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i'm in the same boat me and my b/f had sex for the first time in a few days and we did he whole pre-gaming for the first part then put a condom on towards the end i was ovulating and as they say at my most "highly" ferile day he is a very fertile male as he claims lol but my problem is when i'm ovulating around this time i end up conciving seeing hows i have two daughers that are both concived end of dec first bit of jan i guess my question is am i still able to get pregnant off of whatever fluids came out of him if any did ?
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My boyfriend and me had sex 3 nights in a row. he was a virgin the first time, but all he did was stick the head in and we stoppen then, we didn't continue. Well the 2nd night i have him head and never tasted pre cum well he put it in and we did for a while he pulled out way before he got off, but he is soo worried that pre cum could cause me to be pregnant.
what do you think? i dont think i could be pregnant because he didnt have any precum that i could taste. and he did not eject ANY in me.
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