I recently started a relationship with someone i have known for quite some time, we fell in love and had a brilliant time, he said he loved me more than anything and wanted to marry me and have children with me. He has 2 kids from 2 previous relationships and the mother of the youngest one has been causing some problems i got extremely upset over some emails she sent me and in an outburst of upset and anger i ended it last week. i have been regretting this since the minute i said it and i want him back more than anything! he said iv blown every chance and he doesnt love me now?! he feels nothing? how can this be so quickly after he felt so strongly! a week later and i find out im pregnant, he is being really nasty and telling me to not be so stupid and have an abortion he said its over now things have changed he thought he knew me but he was wrong!? and he will deny the baby is his if i keep it!!!! he said it will cause too much hurt and upset if i do to his family....and that he doesnt want me to have his children, i know i hurt him by ending it but i apologised enormously and have told him how i feel and that i want him back.....now im in a lot of pain can anyone help me?!??! i dont know whether to keep the baby or not?
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I know that you are in love with this man – you probably wouldn’t be if you thought he wasn’t worth it, but change this big in his behavior even when he knows you are pregnant and that you already are taken the splitting from him very hard…well, it’s something that should make you ask yourself if he’s really worth of all this that you are going through, at least. I mean, he basically decided that you are “not the person he thought you were” because you broke up with him in the heat of the moment. Humans do things like that and you apologized and everything. More important thing is to always think about the fact that he is the one who is trying to decide instead of you about abortion of your child! Whatever you choose please decide that because you think it’s the best choice for your child and you, not because someone is forcing you do something because of the wrong reasons.
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