Hi, Penetration is painful for me I tried it with my boyfriend 2 years back, at that time I got so scared of penetration that I use to get nervous. I use to like the foreplay and everything but inserting use to tear me apart, though I wanted to try it and have an enjoyable sex but it never happened. I was of even scared of inserting my own finger in it. But we still tried to insert and after some tries we manage to do a bit but only the head use to go in after that it was way painful for me to handle and even his penis use to slip in all directions ( as we both were virgins). We tried many times but only a bit of penis will go in after many tries as the penis use to slip off and even using hands to get it in right direction was not helping much Now after 2 years, when I am with a different boyfriend we wanted to have intercourse as are with each other since sometime and we love foreplay, as I was aware of the pain and scary thoughts i tried inserting my finger some days back and I was able to do it, very rarely 2 fingers, now when I tried with my boyfriend he is also a virgin again the same problem is there, Though I am a little less scared at this time and maybe can take a bit more pain, but his penis shifts in all directions and again will go in just a bit. Please help me how to deal with it and have a normal intercourse which both of us can enjoy. As I am the first partner for him he is feeling that if he has some problem with him, as his penis is not that erect at time of penetrations and if it is it slips in all directions. Please help me out of this situation.