hey, im 15 and currently in a relationship with this guy. We've been going out for nearly a year now and im starting to tire of him. If i break up with him im afraid he will do something stupid, but if i stay then ill be upset all of the time. and as if that wasn't bad enough, one of his best mates noticed i was unhappy then started talking to me more. he has no revealed that he has loved me since before i was going out with my boyfriend and he still does. He tells me im beautiful, sexy and that im perfect, whereas my boyfriend doesn't seem to care. all he cares about is his PS3 and COD. What do i do? please can someone help me because i am so upset. thank you.
Guys and girls break up all the time. If you are no longer in love with him there is no reason to continue with a lie. It's always hard on the one who may still be in love but they (he) have to realize it takes two to have a love relationship. It doesn't sound like he's too much in love with you but he may be very possessive. Only you know if that may be true. If you think he may go psycho on you then you need to be careful and remember there are laws in most states now that can help protect you from stalking but they don't protect you from a whako.
I was very much in love with one girl who found someone else and we got through it. She was honest with me about her feelings and I respected her for that very much. We continued to see each other in the same church groups, her with her new guy and me by myself, for nearly a year until I got out of the army. We tried to have as little contact as possible to prevent old feelings from coming back but we still spoke to each other.
The other guy may just want what someone else had so be careful until you can tell he really cares for you.
BTW I'm old, what's PS3 and COD?
I was very much in love with one girl who found someone else and we got through it. She was honest with me about her feelings and I respected her for that very much. We continued to see each other in the same church groups, her with her new guy and me by myself, for nearly a year until I got out of the army. We tried to have as little contact as possible to prevent old feelings from coming back but we still spoke to each other.
The other guy may just want what someone else had so be careful until you can tell he really cares for you.
BTW I'm old, what's PS3 and COD?
Play station 3 (games console)
and a game for it Call Of Duty (was game)
btw i live in Wales haha and there is noway that my boyfriend is possessive. he lets guys slap my ass and feel my chest. thank you anyway, good advice :)
and a game for it Call Of Duty (was game)
btw i live in Wales haha and there is noway that my boyfriend is possessive. he lets guys slap my ass and feel my chest. thank you anyway, good advice :)
i can see that you'r searching the problèmes in this guy and you forget your slef maybe you really do'nt give him enough love... !! and for the COD thing belive me i have the same problème, what can i say this game is fantastique
People break up all the time. and yes it may be hard on both of you or just one. But if you are un-happy you need to end it and try to find happiness :( it might be what you dont want to hear right now but think whats best for you. You dont need to jump into a relationship any time soon. you have lots of time!