So embarrassed about my labia! Can I naturally decrease the size?

HI I've not long turned 16 and I'm the same I've gone to do stuff and said no as I feel so ugly and feel if I was to do anything if my partner would accept me for who I am is there any exercises or other options instead of having surgery???

Hi, there is nothing wrong with you at all because everyone is different and he your partner can't except you for who you are then he isn't worth your time and certainly isn't worth giving your most precious thing too. I don't understand why so many of you females think your vaginas are ugly, there is no such thing as a perfect one not even surgery would give you that because like any plastic surgery there would always be something you didn't like about yourself.

Im the same & all the comments made me feel positive & proud of my labia. Thank yall so much i have cried nights thinking what guy will like this (not that im in a rush) & be negative of my body but these comments made me feel better thanks! Love yall

I have large labia and all the guys i know said they love it. Gives them extra play toys. Dont be self conscience.

I’m 17, and have always worried about my labia too. Nobody I’ve been with has ever made comments. I have made a couple lads, the ones I feel may understand, aware of what I’m inseucre about and have told me it’s nothing to worry about. I still struggle, quite a lot actually with getting into something new with people. But honestly, you’ll be alright. I’ve often looked at myself and felt disgusted and when I’m finacially ready I will undergo a labour plasty. Try not to worry, and don’t lower yourself to that standard of having sex whilst drunk. Find someone you know loves you for you.

Thank you for this. Random stranger on internet who just convinced a 25 year old who's hated her "characteristic" since puberty, to no longer consider plastic surgery and shy away from intimate acts

I have the same issue and although i hate mine too ive been with about 6 guys and none of them have ever said anything negative. I was always embarrassed but honestly if you are going to let someone see you down there, trust them amd anyone who insults you and your vagina dont even worry. 99% of guys would NOT complain. Embrace what you have and dont let your insecurities keep you from enjoying life and sex!

Hey yeah same I’m 15 and I hate it I have a boyfriend and every time he puts he’s hands down there I have to grab it and tell him no I’m so self conscious about it I hate it I’m glad I’m not the only one with the problem I’m just gonna have to live with it for now I wonder how old I have to be to have the surgery for it cause I want it anyway feel more confident about it x

Hi, you may think surgery to reduce your labia will boost your self confidence but what if something goes wrong like they remove to much and leave you no labia minora at all or you get an infection and have to have more surgery to remove infected tissue or you loose all feeling in your vagina and clitoris?
Those are all things I have read that has happened to other females that had surgery to reduce there labia minoria's because they felt as you do but after things went wrong regretted the decisions they made.
Learn to love your labia as it is a piece of beauty just like butterfly wings are and don't be embarrassed to let your boyfriend touch them as he is no expert in female anatomy and needs to learn not all females ale like porn stars, there are many older guys who prefer woman that have long labia's as they increase the feeling during intercourse as they wrap round the penis shaft and they make oral sex so much more interesting when you sucking nibbling and teasing them.
Think long and hard about surgery and do a lot of research and read other people's stories not just the good ones but failures as well.

CAN SOMEONE STOP Addressing Fat Outer p***y Lips , Cuz We Talking Bout LABIA MINORA Being Uncomfortable , Those Are The INSIDE Lips For Those Who Are Confused .. How Do I Fix THAT ??

I know how you’re feeling I have the exact same situation, all my friends getting fingered or having sex and a girl recently got her nudes spread and she had a reasonably big labia and everyone was making fun of it and it makes me so self conscious of what would happen if a guy saw me. I even had a chance of a boyfriend but was too afraid of what would happen when it came to anything sexual so nothing happened between us. I also feel it’s ruining my life, making me shut people out and I worry about it everyday

Young lady I must say there is NOTHING AND I DO MEAN NOTHING is wrong with that at all. I am 25 years young currently although mine was caused due to an emergency procedure, I had the same feelings you are having now until I met someone that completely admires and adores every part of the woman I am. It was after realizing that he genuinely loved me for who I am and not what I have that I started appreciating my body more than ever. The only time you should consider having the surgery done in all honesty is if your labia minora is being tucked into the vagina during intercourse, if you are experiencing pain during daily activities from walking to jogging things of that nature. Other then that you are a beautiful queen cherish your temple for what it is your most prized possession no matter how sexy a boy may be we all get the urge you will know when the time is right hope this helps inspire you :)

I like it.

The first time your boyfriend saw it did it bother him at all?

But why reduce your labia, it's so nice to have a lady with prominent labia! I prefer women with tangible labia. Jim